let us put our thinking caps on!

*that all the blame shouldnt shift onto him (besides the sa cause that was 100% his fault)* the HIM in this case being ML incase you fugly bitches need to be spoon fed even more

Ooh shiver me timbers! I can speak on who i want to speak at, just so happens that i’m 41kg and has a waistline of 24 inches i provide for my family and has my mother under my wing for years now, we’re living happily btw! Unlike some jealous man who can’t accept the fact they’re in the wrong, now all of a sudden they agreed with OP as if you didn’t result to ad hominem after we’ve pointed you being embarrassing. Boohoo to the man who’s sad after being told that Yun-oh won’t be fucking him! Must’ve been so sad that you’re having a meltdown now

Just the fact that you have both me and OP was blocked is funny itself alone. As if we give a fuck about a man’s opinion, a man who made excuses and excluded ML SAing MC just to say ML is not villain, a man who admitted they have bias towards ML, a man who said ML avoiding MC is fine because it’s realistic, a man who victim blamed MC, a man who can’t comprehend the fact that OP giving a scenario is not OP’s own personal experience, a man who realized he’s making his self look stupid is now acting hostile because he can’t make up any more ass pulls of an excuse no we’re not listening to you if you’re not listening to us. If you demand respect, then you should earn it the fuck. Even your mother yourself is not safe from you, just imagining her telling you to do some errands while you goon off to rapists. How i hope she’s not aware of your disgusting hobbies at least

Since you illiterate twits seem to forget the problematic nature of your own arguments. Here, I’ll quote them for you and hand hold you on how what you’re saying in this comment is the opposite of what you’re actually doing in other comments.

“confidently hating on blonde mc when he was the one who was taken advantage off”
Strong start, completely ignoring the mc assaulting the ml.

“i know that he almost forced himself on ml but ml actually was able to break away from mc, he could’ve just left.”
‘Almost forced himself on ml’ 1. Forcibly holding someone down and kissing them is not “almost forcing yourself on them”, it’s forcing yourself on them. Plain and simple. And 2. holy victim blaming when you cried about it when you claimed others were doing it. You’re so right, the 6 year younger man who was practically raised by the MC and loves him dearly should have punched him or tried harder to get away… that’s victim blaming 101. Please tell me you aren’t serious.
And you do the SAME DAMN THING IN THIS COMMENT HERE. “Oh he had the strength to break away, why didn’t he just stop himself from being assaulted?” It’s giving “Why didn’t you report it?” Or “what were you wearing?”


“ yeah i think mc’s a complete victim but idk about the others…”
Another one… and yet you “acknowledge how they’re both victims multiple times”, yeah shove it, you disgusting twit.

“and he was still able to break away from mc actually!”
Here’s another one.

“just so you could say “ml is not a villain” when the whole reason why this whole riff started was because ml decided to assault mc.”
Ignoring the fact that MC assaulted ML, AGAIN.

“ml being raised by an abuser is not an excuse to any of his actions, we SHOULDN’T make excuses about someone assaulting someone in the first place. you’re right about ml being written realistically, he acted just like any other criminals in real life– running away from their crimes instead of owning up from their mistakes and on the people they have done wrong. truly fucked.”
Ignoring the fact that MC assaulted ML, AGAIN. And using your logic in this quote, MC is also acting just like a criminal, since he does remember assaulting ML and his solution is “pretend nothing happened.”

Let’s get one thing VERY clear, you’re the illiterate one in this conversation even if we ignore the fact that YOUR OWN, CONVENIENTLY FORGOTTEN, WORDS ARE THE ONES I USED TO PROVE YOU’RE THE PIECE OF FILTH I SAID YOU WERE. In this very comment, you pulled out of thin air two very very wrong things about me and if you could read you wouldn’t have even tried to have claimed that I said. Saying that I am defending the ML when I clearly stated that they are both assaulters not just morally but legally, is somehow being misconstrued as being supportive of only one of them? I don’t like any of the characters and I’m defending neither, but I would especially not call a victim of either kind a disgusting animal, though it’s obvious you suffer from some kind of delusional disorder since you keep making up arguments I supposedly “made” that are no where to be seen. Pointing out power imbalances and assault doesn’t make me a defender of the victim becoming an assaulter. But you’re a bad person and that was the main target of my comments. Your comments are very much victim blaming and purposefully ignoring the fact that MC assaulted ML, no matter how much you cry that you aren’t doing that. Please refer to my other comment with proof that you’re a disgusting piece of filth that is actively harmful to SA victims. Although my other comment with proof doesn’t reference this comment at all and this comment provided even more lovely proof. Why don’t you walk up to any man who was assaulted by a woman and ask him why he didn’t us his strength to overpower her? Then look any person with a brain in the eyes and try to convince them that you weren’t victim blaming.

I’m not “allergic” to the word unconscious, it’s just the wrong word. He wasn’t unconscious. Do you make a habit of using words you don’t know the definitions of? Embarrassing. Here, I’ll school you since clearly you need a lot of that. Unconscious: not conscious. Let’s define conscious. Conscious: aware of and responding to one's surroundings; awake. Let’s explain the difference between your misconstrued definition of “aware” and the actual definition that still applies to the MC in that scene. The very fact that MC remembered anything about that night IS BECAUSE HE WAS AWARE. That’s why we look up words we don’t know before using them. Inebriated or intoxicated, pick your choice, though inebriated fits much better, but I guess I give you props for learning from your mistakes and not using words you don’t know the meaning of. Although if we wanted to get down to the nitty gritty of definitions and not use, impaired would be the best word of all.



And I love your idiocy. It’s kind of admirable, since you keep “making points” (haha funny joke) that are so easily dismissible for either side of your defense. ML tried to apologize and MC interrupted and told him to pretend it never happened. ML is not a mind reader, he can’t see into MC’s mind and know his every thought or lack thereof, the only thing he knows is that MC remembers and that he thinks it was his fault and not ML’s and he refuses to let him apologize. But it would be so much harder to defend your argument if you acknowledged that that’s what happened.

Please refer to my newer reply on their comments. You’re not worth the time nor effort when you can’t even read. If you truly think saying over and over again that a man in the top or dominant position who was assaulted “had the strength to overpower the person and should have just left” is being respectful to SA victims in that position, you’re just as much of a disgusting piece of filth as they are.

The difference between your situation and this one, is (I’m assuming and hoping) that you didn’t SA your assaulter first. Did you hold your assaulter down while they were crying and forcibly kiss them while grinding on them? Is that what you’re claiming you did? Because otherwise your situation is completely incomparable to the situation that we’re discussing.

And I think it’s abhorrent that a fellow SA victim would even remotely entertain the idea that it’s okay to tell SA victims that they should have been stronger against their assaulters.

Please have some shame and don’t openly victim blame an SA victim before claiming that I’M the one that’s harmful to SA victims. THEY ARE BOTH ASSAULTERS LEGALLY AND ARE BOTH HORRIBLE PEOPLE. I have never once defended either of them, the same can’t be said for you or the other person. Why can’t you people get that through your thick skulls? You can’t claim that I’m the one who’s “upset by the ML being called an assaulter” when you IMMEDIATELY turn around and act upset that MC is being called an assaulter. “The ML should have just left.” Before or after he got assaulted? Answer that question. Because I know what answer you hold in your twisted shriveled heart and it’s the one that proves you’re a bad person.

Your last sentence was actually correct and let’s all “use facts” and remember that HE TRIED AND WAS INTERRUPTED AND WAS TOLD TO STOP AND PRETEND IT NEVER HAPPENED. Convenient piece of information you keep leaving out over and over again. Go choke on a spoon, victim blamer.

quick question tho? why arent you attacking the other commenter when i think what theyve said is much more worse? i think the reason why they thought you were defending black hair is because you only jumped blondie or mc. from an outsiders point of view all yalls views are flawed tbh. you yourself is also victim blaming mc. while i do think that both characters are assaulters and disgusting, both are right about black hair having the choice to leave. he was strong enough to take blondie to the bedroom so im pretty sure he should have enough strength to leave blondie alone. to ask black hair if he was strong enough to carry blondie on the bed, is a question not to victim blame but to see if black hair is conscious enough to make a clear decision. for you to say that them saying black hair was strong enough to break away is them victim blaming, it's like saying blondie coerced black hair into sex? which is also fucked for me, saying that black hair broke away from blondie is not victim blaming because it's what happened in the manhwa, he really had a choice to leave if he is strong enough to take blondie to the bedroom. also i don't remember reading from blondie defender that they said something about "why didnt he just stop himself from being assaulted", all they said was black hair was able to break away. i think we should calm down first before we start twisting each others words if you want this conversation to go somewhere