Honestly THIS. Love you for calling dem out oml
I don't "think", i'm sure. There is legal definition about r*pe and that's exactly what it is. There is no matter of thinking here. This is not an opinion. Nobody's allowed to disagree on something like that.
I can't comprehend how you can find consent here? Consent under blackmail is not consent. I know it's not said enough and that's why I insist so much on saying how much blond hair is problematic and manipulative.
>>Consent doesn't exist under force, influence, threatening, blackmail, manipulation, etc. Non-exhaustive list of course.
R*pe doesn't need force nor violence to be characterized.<<
Also, we were talking about blond hair, not red hair because we didn't see him so much anymore. But the very start of the story is problematic and the cause of all other problem afterward. Nanjo is a victim all over. From blond AND red hair.
But no, he's not naive. He's obtuse. He's stuck in his interpretation of what his loved one want and don't want. He's convinced red head is manipulated and in danger. He know what he's doing. He's protecting his loved one. He doesn't want to have sex with blond hair, pretty obvious, but he "agree" in order to protect red hair. Blond hair is literaly saying he will do bad things to red hair if Nanjo doesn't accept to see him, to eat with him, and one thing lead to another, if he doesn't accept to have sex with him. Blond hair KNOW Nanjo will do anything for red hair because he's too vanilla to accept his loved one is a masochist. Blond hair use that to have what he want.
So, tell me HOW this is consent, HOW can this not be r*pe. "If you don't do that I will do this bad thing - ok you can do it" is consent?
That's exactly because there is people who think, like you, that a simple "yes" is good enough to characterize consent, that victims have so much hard time to be recognized and r*pist to be sentenced.
That study that showed post pandemic literacy levels are abysmal is so true and this fandom and other bl fandoms should already be case studies. I don't know where critical thinking skills disappeared to when it comes to reading even if it's porn fiction.Most readers don't even read in between the lines anymore. Y'all like parroting terms like manipulation to look like you understand what you are reading when most of you don't do research on the shit. I swear I bet none of you have psychology degrees to back your shit up with years of intelligence. Y'all don't even look up stuff you just say it na hope it sticks.
My question is how is nanjo being manipulated by blondie?? Manipulation always requires a power dynamic of sorts. And bfr someone even says it just because nanjo's a bottom that doesn't mean he doesn't have power let's get that out of the way. The blondie made a deal as a joke and guy just accepted it. He says he likes the redhead but how can you say yes to your cheeks being pounded to 'protect' your beloved?Even if they ain't dating isn't that micro cheating?? Y'all are obsessed with bottoms being victims that you'll pull anything out of y'all's asses. Nanjo is a grown man that could have said no especially to a man he doesn't even like. He wasn't held at gun point. He wasn't coerced. He wasn't even tricked he just accepted a very ridiculous deal and y'all are acting like that's blondies fault. You say blondie is manipulative but don't say red head is manipulative for telling him to have a threesome he didn't want? Is manipulation only applicable when nanjo's the one being penetrated? Manipulation involves power plays, how is the blondie exerting power on nanjo when nanjo can always do what he wants??? Y'all just can't admit that bottoms like him are just stupid.
Blondie has a crush on nanjo. He was being playful and even he thought he'd be shot down when he made that deal so how is he being manipulative???
Another thing y'all need to stop learning about sex from porn. Saying nanjo is being raped is wild. We know he's never bottomed so why would y'all think it wouldn't be uncomfortable even when consent is given?? Penetrative sex for the first time ranges from uncomfortable to pain oftentimes depending on the receivers ability to relax. Nanjo is not relaxed at all through this and it's not blondies or his fault. His body is not used to getting dicked down yet and that's just normal first time things. Penetrative sex is a process tbh it takes time for the body to adjust just like so many things. Also the heteronormative sex positions for the first time in most BLS ain't it. For anal sex spreading your legs is really for the pros. For beginners the legs need to be closed so that the anal muscles can be stretched and open up the hole more so it's less painful during penetration. Doing missionary on an anal beginner is just terrible but that's the creators fault and all other bl creators for their lack luster interpretation of homo sex.
I know I'm about to be called a rape apologist and told to kill myself for thinking like this but do with this information what you may.