still toxic guys

i love yikyung & jake sm May 30, 2025 5:02 pm

atleast hes askijg sooyoung for permission.. sometimes

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    MeloNelo3 June 5, 2025 5:51 am
    No girl. Thats on you again. Lol. I'm just going to go with your logic, if someone can say no at any point during the act, then they can also say yes at any point. Being fully aware matters. Our MC? He is. pennyinheaven

    What’s on me btw? Be clear.

    Gravenshi June 5, 2025 10:05 pm
    Another example. There is this area in my country where it is always crowded and robbery or phones/bangs/jewelries being snatched from your body is rampant. So if you go there, people already warned you to be c... pennyinheaven

    Stop with the examples. Follow the laws.

    pennyinheaven June 6, 2025 6:52 am
    Stop with the examples. Follow the laws. Gravenshi

    Ah, yes. Never protect yourself. Got it.

    pennyinheaven June 6, 2025 6:56 am
    Wow i love how people are like “I’m not victim blaming” then proceed to write multiple paragraphs on different ways to blame assault victims for getting assaulted. MeloNelo3

    You don't want to admit you can do something to protect yourself. Protecting yourself doesn't remove the fact you were a victim. Its just you were simply outsmarted or happen to be physically weak, not dumb. But with your mentality? Its just babying weakness and gnorance.

    Gravenshi June 7, 2025 12:35 am
    Ah, yes. Never protect yourself. Got it. pennyinheaven

    If this is truly what you’ve taken from this exchange, then I have to be honest: your reading and comprehension skills are seriously lacking. Talk to me after you've actually educated yourself on the subject. I can’t afford to lose IQ points for your sake. Thanks.

    Gravenshi June 7, 2025 12:58 am
    Ah, yes. Never protect yourself. Got it. pennyinheaven

    And this is irrelevant. In a court case — with a victim and an abuser — the question is not whether the individual was cautious. That has little to no bearing. The only question that matters is: Did X rape Y? Not: Did Y protect themselves well enough? The law doesn’t waste time with logically inconclusive or morally empty questions. It is a criminal offense.

    1) It is all about Consent and Capacity.
    2) Victim’s “Precautions” Are Legally Irrelevant.
    3) Stupid questions like “Did the victim protect themselves enough?” is a red herring and shifts blame from the abuser to the abused.

    If you still can’t respond without committing even one fallacy, then seriously go educate yourself first. Don't talk back to me until you are able to display proper understanding of the subject—rhetoric grounded on reality, laws, morals and at least basic logic.

    Instead of yapping here, you’d be better off watching a 15-minute educational video on the subject. Yikes.

    pennyinheaven June 7, 2025 1:11 am

    Sorry OP, victim mentality is strong on your post/comment.

    MeloNelo3 June 7, 2025 1:39 am

    Amazing. Did pennyinheaven actually block me after calling survivors of rape dumb and weak? Talk about projection. Person sounds super lonely.

    Gravenshi June 7, 2025 4:07 am
    Amazing. Did pennyinheaven actually block me after calling survivors of rape dumb and weak? Talk about projection. Person sounds super lonely. MeloNelo3

    I blocked them first. I've read enough inepties/misinformation/fallacies for this week. You can't fix stupid, only wonder about it.

    MeloNelo3 June 8, 2025 2:34 am
    I blocked them first. I've read enough inepties/misinformation/fallacies for this week. You can't fix stupid, only wonder about it. Gravenshi

    Stupid is as stupid does

    Gravenshi June 10, 2025 8:42 pm
    Stupid is as stupid does MeloNelo3

    (⊙…⊙ ) More chapters are dropping and people are waking up.

    MeloNelo3 June 11, 2025 3:21 pm
    (⊙…⊙ ) More chapters are dropping and people are waking up. Gravenshi

    Lol yup

    i love yikyung sm June 18, 2025 2:22 pm
    Sorry OP, victim mentality is strong on your post/comment. pennyinheaven

    its okayy

    pennyinheaven June 18, 2025 3:37 pm

    People comment by chapter ffs. Some just don't get it.

    i love yikyung sm June 18, 2025 6:19 pm
    People comment by chapter ffs. Some just don't get it. pennyinheaven

    ikr omg?? its literally soohyuns fault he was barely drunk

    Gravenshi June 19, 2025 12:16 am
    ikr omg?? its literally soohyuns fault he was barely drunk i love yikyung sm

    Why are you pushing such a toxic narrative? I can understand seeing the Uke as irresponsible, but you lose me the moment you start blaming him for being taken advantage of.

    - He’s not “barely drunk” — he is drunk. He’s a lightweight; some people simply have a lower alcohol tolerance.
    - He is not the one at fault. It’s not as if he’s the one driving a saber into someone’s chest until they bleed.

    1) Being drunk doesn't erase the crime. Voluntary intoxication of the victim does not excuse or invalidate crimes committed against them. If someone rapes you while you're drunk or remotely stupid, it's still rape.

    2) Low alcohol tolerance is not a fault. Biologically, alcohol tolerance varies. Blaming someone for their body’s natural reaction to alcohol — especially in the context of harm they suffered — is both unfair and inaccurate.

    3) While some might criticize a drunk person for putting themselves in risky situations, the responsibility for a crime lies with the perpetrator. Being unwise is not the same as being guilty.

    4) Committing a crime is the objective fault. Morally and legally, the one who commits the harmful act is responsible for it. The term objective fault reflects that the core wrongdoing lies in the act — not in what the victim did to be "in that situation."

    pennyinheaven June 19, 2025 1:48 am
    ikr omg?? its literally soohyuns fault he was barely drunk i love yikyung sm

    Well, the part where Sooyoung went to the apartment was his fault. Drinking was his fault. He wasn't drunk, btw, he was just tipsy. He was almost convinced to have sex, until Jihwan went crazy. That part was Jihwan's fault - it's partly due to his condition but that was his fault, not Sooyoung's. Let's be clear on that. I stand by my opinion that Sooyoung allowed to have sex, blowjob to be exact, and was not completely drunk, but that was last chapter. He clearly refused penetration, especially that Jihwan did not prepare him, this chapter.

    i love yikyung sm June 19, 2025 7:11 am
    Well, the part where Sooyoung went to the apartment was his fault. Drinking was his fault. He wasn't drunk, btw, he was just tipsy. He was almost convinced to have sex, until Jihwan went crazy. That part was Ji... pennyinheaven

    yesss he literally bled and tried to make it stop but he kept going??? whay the hell

    pennyinheaven June 19, 2025 7:25 am
    yesss he literally bled and tried to make it stop but he kept going??? whay the hell i love yikyung sm

    That's part of being psychotic. He basically blocked out everything and just obsessed with the need to release. Blud probably didn't let out a single cum the whole time Sooyoung ran away. The backed up libido and added mental condition made him a total mad man. Or if he did release, it wasn't enough to make him a little bit normal.

    i love yikyung sm June 19, 2025 3:19 pm
    That's part of being psychotic. He basically blocked out everything and just obsessed with the need to release. Blud probably didn't let out a single cum the whole time Sooyoung ran away. The backed up libido a... pennyinheaven

    yessss you understandd