rep

stonder__ July 6, 2025 7:07 am

this is true femme 4 fem rep because despite what you may think femme is different from fem. also, people saying bora is a butch are sort of wrong ? if anything she blends masc and fem styles but she's always pretty close to the fem side of the spectrum, i think it's just her hair and muscle that make people think that.

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    Hotmeat July 23, 2025 2:48 am

    HELL YEAH THIS MF GETS IT bora is definitely not butch!!! ive been thinking that the whole time

    butchez <3 July 24, 2025 10:03 am

    ohmygawddd fem4dem people are so annoying bro SHE IS LITERALLY INTRODUCED AS BUTCH IN THE FIRST CHAPTERS. Now shut up and let us have our butchfemme rep.

    S.L July 25, 2025 4:29 am
    ohmygawddd fem4dem people are so annoying bro SHE IS LITERALLY INTRODUCED AS BUTCH IN THE FIRST CHAPTERS. Now shut up and let us have our butchfemme rep. butchez <3

    LITERALLY

    Hotmeat July 25, 2025 5:14 am
    ohmygawddd fem4dem people are so annoying bro SHE IS LITERALLY INTRODUCED AS BUTCH IN THE FIRST CHAPTERS. Now shut up and let us have our butchfemme rep. butchez <3

    im not fem4fem i just dont think bora is butch lmao, shes like a soft masc at best she just has short hair

    butchez <3 July 25, 2025 11:40 am
    im not fem4fem i just dont think bora is butch lmao, shes like a soft masc at best she just has short hair Hotmeat

    She is butch. She identifies as butch and is explicitly said to be so in ch2. Saying that you just don't "think" she is butch is lesbophobic and misogynistic. Not all butches are the same or have the same style. Cut it with that soft tiktok masc bullshit.

    S.L July 25, 2025 11:42 am
    im not fem4fem i just dont think bora is butch lmao, shes like a soft masc at best she just has short hair Hotmeat

    I can see why you think that but she introduces herself as a butch, so it's not like people just said she was...the character states that's what she identifies as??? But idk

    butchez <3 July 25, 2025 11:46 am
    I can see why you think that but she introduces herself as a butch, so it's not like people just said she was...the character states that's what she identifies as??? But idk S.L

    Yes. Being butch or femme isn't just a style or aesthetic, but also a lesbian identity.

    Hotmeat July 25, 2025 4:13 pm
    She is butch. She identifies as butch and is explicitly said to be so in ch2. Saying that you just don't "think" she is butch is lesbophobic and misogynistic. Not all butches are the same or have the same style... butchez <3

    chill on me cuz im literally butch, i dont remember her identifying herself as butch is all other than that she had nothing butch related to her so yeah forgive me for forgetting.

    stonder__ July 27, 2025 5:02 pm
    ohmygawddd fem4dem people are so annoying bro SHE IS LITERALLY INTRODUCED AS BUTCH IN THE FIRST CHAPTERS. Now shut up and let us have our butchfemme rep. butchez <3

    i'm not fem4fem, but bora is very CLEARLY not a butch. same with people calling mitsuki from tgswiiwagaa a butch. they're more masc but not a butch. this is coming from a butch connoisseur.

    stonder__ July 27, 2025 5:05 pm
    chill on me cuz im literally butch, i dont remember her identifying herself as butch is all other than that she had nothing butch related to her so yeah forgive me for forgetting. Hotmeat

    literally ! like lesbian culture is different in different areas and i'm sure butches are different in different places but like yeah she identifies as butch but she only states it once in passing and she is nothing of the sort.

    stonder__ July 27, 2025 5:07 pm
    Yes. Being butch or femme isn't just a style or aesthetic, but also a lesbian identity. butchez <3

    butch and femme are almost explicitly a gender expressions. that's why the whole femme vs fem debate goes on because they're different like masc and butch.

    butch bitch August 22, 2025 4:48 am
    i'm not fem4fem, but bora is very CLEARLY not a butch. same with people calling mitsuki from tgswiiwagaa a butch. they're more masc but not a butch. this is coming from a butch connoisseur. stonder__

    Butch lesbian here: They’re both butch. Butch is a broader spectrum than ppl think. Masculinity can be represented in many ways and is expansive. I do wish Bora was more stereotypically masculine, but she’s still def butch. Mitsuki is def giving baby butch vibes — give her a couple of years and she’ll own it.

    stonder__ August 22, 2025 1:30 pm
    Butch lesbian here: They’re both butch. Butch is a broader spectrum than ppl think. Masculinity can be represented in many ways and is expansive. I do wish Bora was more stereotypically masculine, but she’s... butch bitch

    i am very rigid with terminology. so looking back, i think for the most part i am looking for a very specific term within the term butch to describe bora (like futch or something, sport butch ??) and mitsuki. w what you said about mitsuki i agree that its something she'll likely come into later. but currently ? ive seen people calling her a stone butch and im just like yall can't even handle cowboyjen or kay knighting.

    butch bitch August 23, 2025 5:49 am
    i am very rigid with terminology. so looking back, i think for the most part i am looking for a very specific term within the term butch to describe bora (like futch or something, sport butch ??) and mitsuki. w... stonder__

    I totally get you on wanting to adhere to terms — especially those which hold so much history in dyke culture. I also think it’s important to not negate butchness esp when it is self-identified. So if Bora feels like she’s butch, she’s butch. She might not be as masculine as Cowboy Jen (whom I adore), but her gender expression is very much still in line with butchness. I’d rather have her ID as butch than masc, which just feels like a placeholder for people who are scared of the word butch.

    On Mitsuki, she’s still early in her butchness but her dynamic with Mitsuki is very butch/femme. Plus, I think getting confused as a guy (butch rite of passage tbh) gives her the right to claim butchness. Also as a stone butch, I can’t help but cackle at people calling her that. I’ll agree with you there on the rigidity esp b/c Mitsuki is a minor and it would be inappropriate for that subject to be addressed fully.