THANK YOU! i always find it interesting how demonized people are when actual mental health issues either in a character or a real person are displayed.
Are we not reading the same manhwa? Jaek quite literally had no one in his adult years. His routines and jinx was obviously to gain control over himself which he felt like i he didn’t have. Was he an ass? yes! was he abusive? yes! but are we seeing the result of childhood trauma and no resources? yes! i understand he had money but a lot of ppl don’t really care to go to therapy or even know if they need to. Dan comes from a rough background too but trauma shows up differently in different people and he had someone raise him. Dan is a people pleaser and will do anything to keep ppl. Jaek quite literally is not. but he’s mean and has no one.
mental illness is not an excuse to be a bad person
who said that
the op just said he behaves badly bc of his trauma. i dont see a justification
no worries wasn’t implying op said that I was just adding on.op is clearing take a dig at people who call out his behaviors without putting the focus on his mental illness and I’m simply stating that some people like me really couldn’t care any less about his mental trauma anymore that’s all.
Sorry but mental illness I have 5 diagnosed, got narcissistic mother to punch bag birth defect child of the litter to tell once again: There's a difference between illness to the conscious choice between anything else and choosing to hurt, to coarse the new doc and then set a dept as another dept to have the resistance of Dan quiet down, then trauma that sets a coping mechanism of defense is clear on presidents choosing war, put the army to throw horror at distance from them and guess what?
The survivors are not making a new army or killing each other. PSTD people coming back from wars get dogs or reclusive for it's no mental illness, traumas or the outer world that a grown up person choice to repeatedly choose to harm others is excusable.
Not even traumatized animals goes around looking for people to bite, the loud barks of warning, body posture, grows of saying I am terrified, I do not want you to get closer and I do not want to bite to defend myself.
There's that one dog that does not warn. Looks calm, behaved, but the moment that dog sees a person the complete focus on not moving an inch is the type of abdominal trace in humans, it's called sociopath. It's not a mental illness, it's a SOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER.
PERSONAL CHOICES ≠ DEFENSIVE RESPONSE TO TRAUMAS.
Mental illness are like getting a cancer on your soul, hurts, it's exhausting to have your mind at war to not use mental illness for not love, not a lapse, not a bad day makes the choice of someone to force sex, to corner a vulnerable person, to have the autor own comic saying that's the pattern on all the sex partners to not excuse the choice of a grown up adult for traumatized people does not sums up on that trace numbers, it's not mental illness and there's not a love story when the most used sorry I kept going even if you asked to stop, sorry I did it again and your weak body collapsed. Oh I am putting my dick in your ass while you're sleeping from medication. This story set a hope to a revolution on Dan leaving the toxic, rich big boy to have a danger on this, then there's chat putting the issue this author had become to a real problem that the whole world sees on women, the LGBT are right behind to not need therapy to reach therapy without having raped, assault or mental illness have the distinct from MENTAL ILLNESS to a PERSONALITY DISORDER, and then only then there's the the separation from dog traumatized and dog with rabbies.
Childhood trauma can change how a person thinks, feels, and reacts. When kids grow up in an abusive or neglectful household, their brain learns survival patterns, like aggression or control, that can carry into adulthood. Although it doesn't excuse hurting others, it explains why some people repeat what they've seen. Many personality disorders, like sociopathy, often come from extreme trauma. So, it's not always a clear choice. However, trauma shapes people, and ignoring that means ignoring the root cause.
And that applies to a person repeatedly choosing to rape, beat up people when he's literally a MMA fighter to use punchbags instead of people. Please respect the difference of trauma and predatory tendencies of a rich, fit and handsome boy rabbies animal behavior and as well as going from child who got aggressive father to athlete having his ritual to win a jinx having absolutely no trauma, nothing to make a "I raped because I was raped." To even excuse that trauma sets a DEFENSE MECHANISM, if you're seeing an AGGRESSIVE CONSTANT CHOICE OF ACTION, it's a person who's doing the same done to them because they want, they can, there's nothing but his dick wanting to fuck a sleeping person to please put any trauma that excuses that one.
It's truly the festering problem this author just puts the pattern of people patting the head of the guy who have the money to put a therapist as a personal 24hrs available on call, but not his fault doc Dan is so pretty, right? Very founded the choice of beating loan sharks, see the debt for caring for granny, pays it and then just unable to stop that raging boner under control to buy Dan and more precisely, his freedom, his body, his time and his life to pay for his grandmother life.
...That's the Friday news as the neighbor filmed the short temper husband holding a hammer when blaming trauma for years of punching, abuse and violation of the dignity to only the hammer made the neighbors pick CAMERAS TO RECORD THE EVENT, to call the police why when there's people who pats the poor man for not being able to control this choice on agression for the skull flags of a person with no empathy to not cause what hurts on them has to stop being the fault. Even traumatized dogs have the warnings of being more humans to warn off, growl, snarl and then if the person keeps persistent, bites.
Mental illness of TDHD, bipolar affective disorder, severe social phobia, severe anxiety disorder and dypnoea to have five of them to when trauma triggers, all my crisis had all on locking myself for the fear of hurting others comes first, then the fear of being 8 again and just crawling under the sink on middle of the night, even as child, the weird child with a neurodivergent brain on panic of defense from trauma is not causing trauma, that is not mental illness, it's a social personality that makes choices to keep engaging the hunt, not even wild animals has the appetite to go around throwing claws for nothing but rabbies makes that behavior occur.
And you keep saying a sapient adult male can't make the choice of before snaps, rape, punch, yells and degenerate other person to step away before snapping is trauma doing? How about putting a stop on toxic men worship and make a change to show how hard is to successfully escape that cycle to show it's possible, that it's not love that punches the other, that no mental illness can be put to justify the choice of being a scum that when out of the holds of people like that, there hope for a loving person heart that has not need to rape, to put you as prostitute as help needs to be payed with sex, or having the world doing the usual flex.
Nah, it's just a comic of surely that traumatized handsome, rich man is innocent for having a hard childhood. Not like the rest of the world can live without raping your doctor, or it's the usual and the mental illness,traumatized ones worse fear is to be the pain we felt on our skin such a hard thing to do?
this!
This is not ignoring a root cause because there is no root at all; it is very clear that the author did not set up his character based on his trauma, but simply chose to write a one-dimensional character who somehow can be redeemed simply because of his childhood trauma. I don't understand why mental illness is being brought up for his character, because there should not be a discussion of mental illness when it comes to raping someone, that is the one unredeemable act you can ever do to someone.
You bringing up dimensions as if you know what that word means
Seems like you lack reading comprehension. Let me make it easier for you: a one-dimensional character (note how I said 'dimensional' and not 'dimensions') is a character who lacks depth, is flat, and exhibits the same behaviors with no development whatsoever.
Some of these comments are straight ass (won't specify) but his bad behavior is clearly from his childhood trauma. Don't act like mental health isn't a real thing