tbh its so self centered of Jaekyung to think “he destroyed Dan” when really Dan’s l...

ulostbbg? September 12, 2025 9:31 pm

tbh its so self centered of Jaekyung to think “he destroyed Dan” when really Dan’s life overall has just treated him shitty and Jaekyung was the cherry on top as a horribly failed love. I don’t normally throw this word around but he is such a classic narcissist.

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    DorianGrey September 12, 2025 9:36 pm

    It's not thought to be read as being self centered, which he is, but as an attempt of self accountability and empathy from his part

    donghyuk September 12, 2025 9:36 pm

    He did drive him to become an alcoholic and he never had the sleep walking habits either prior to meeting jaekyung. He just had a debt before but now he has health problems and Jaekyung IS responsible for the massive amount of stress he gave to Dan

    donghyuk September 12, 2025 9:40 pm
    It's not thought to be read as being self centered, which he is, but as an attempt of self accountability and empathy from his part DorianGrey

    Exactly! this was a strange interpretation

    Missduckie September 12, 2025 9:47 pm
    He did drive him to become an alcoholic and he never had the sleep walking habits either prior to meeting jaekyung. He just had a debt before but now he has health problems and Jaekyung IS responsible for the m... donghyuk

    I also think dan's grandmother's condition is also affecting dan's health. we all know how much he loves her.

    DorianGrey September 13, 2025 12:58 am
    I also think dan's grandmother's condition is also affecting dan's health. we all know how much he loves her. Missduckie

    Dan was already in a pinch but champion asshole made it much worse

    ulostbbg? September 14, 2025 10:40 am
    It's not thought to be read as being self centered, which he is, but as an attempt of self accountability and empathy from his part DorianGrey

    I’ll admit you’re right. I’ve definitely read worse ML’s especially redemption arc wise.

    ulostbbg? September 14, 2025 10:44 am
    He did drive him to become an alcoholic and he never had the sleep walking habits either prior to meeting jaekyung. He just had a debt before but now he has health problems and Jaekyung IS responsible for the m... donghyuk

    It’s been a while since I’ve reread but didn’t Dan drink even before meeting Jaekyung? Dan drank himself to sleep most nights and smoked a hell of a lot of cigarettes I don’t think Dan being a alcoholic is something that was caused because of Jaekyung but because of the stress from his debt in the beginning. Although I do think the sleeping walking is partly Jaekyung’s fault because he was already stressed.