mhh

Hmm are you ok?

yup you are the problem bro

Misogyny and pure culture.

Misogyny and purity culture*

i accidentally liked ur comment, imagine i disliked it.

??? Doha had other relationships too??? Actually the only difference is that Doha actually liked other people and Si woo just had sex partners, get out of here with that purity bs
If you're talking about the frequency of sex in a relationship, it usually starts high and then trickles off... It's pretty normal

somehow yall didn't get my point lmao idk how it's gonna be later on idk, but till chapter 10 and probably a bit further it seems that way. Also, I'm not the one who wants the "purity bs". I stated how this story seemed to me and somehow u can't cope with it at all

lmfaooo

idk why yall r hating when they're literally correct.

ofc i dont HATE si woon or any of this but its always the top that sleeps around a lot, and the bottom who remains "pure"
yall just diminish this but it rolls back around to male and female roles- and this is about two men!!!!! because doha is the bottom (receiver) he takes on a feminine ideal of being more innocent, nervous when it comes to sex, and other misogynistic stereotypes. whereas si woon holds the power as the top.
i get that op didnt need to say they hate tops like this (cus i adore h5 and si woon) but dont just brush off the reasoning!!

(+dont tell me this is just a story you ARE part of the problem)

wish i could upvote replies

THIS, ik I should have worded it differently but my point was literally this. And it's almost everywhere (at least the story I get recommended) so I got a bit mad

Okay if you mean that then I agree, it's an annoying AF trope and it pisses me off too. I think you just spoke too soon? Doha isn't a pure virgin he just never bottomed/slept with men before and Siwoo don't sleep around he had a friend with benefits. I think people got annoyed because of that, not your very real point on the worst parts of BL

yea they somehow missed that.. well, at least others like you get it

Yeah literacy is not common anymore, I thought that your comment was a bit off I didn't understand what you were angry at exactly that's why I replied explaining but people don't really want to understand they just assume

honestlyy like sometimes yes people are saying the wrong thing BUT most of the time there's a little organ called a brain that people forget about sometimes

So true

Idk about other stories but at least this one explained well about the reason why Siwoon was sleeping around. And during that time he got acquainted with one of his housemates (not that they slept tgt). So although you dislike that part, it's also an important process for him to get back on his feet and form a found family along the way

tysm that explains it to me at least!

I don’t care what anyone else says. I am not biased when it comes to sleeping around, NO leniency on top or bottom haha. I can’t stand hook up culture + multiple sex partners, top or bottom. Sorry. I get your point OP, 100% well said.

I agree that it’s a whole misogynistic view + purity culture.

I guess I’m just conservative but it’s just a preference. I wouldn’t disrespect others that do enjoy no-attachment sex by just keeping it to myself in rl.

Not that I wouldn’t date someone who’s had past flings. But I wouldn’t like someone that pursues me but sleeps around. Do I even make sense?

I just don't like to see anyone have sex with others than their partner, Im not hating on it like Siwoon was before he met and got with Doha again so he could do whatever he wants. However I did read one once where the uke asked seme oit on 3 trial dates and to not sleep with anyone else during this time, he said ok but slept around anyway, thankfully it didn't show it cuz it's probably might have dropped it. If its before the couple are together I can handle that, but cheating? Nope that i cannot stand