I doubt he meant to leave her permanently. He was coming off with the intention of telling her after the surgey, but he went into a coma and lost his memories for 30yrs. He could've communicated better but the decision wasn't made with malice
Exactly when my grandmother was sick wwe had to do everything for from cleaning her excrement to feeding her like a child it was a big hit to her pride she prayed for her death because she would rataher die than have to be taken care of like a baby it was very humilating for her, haeboom's father probably felt like that too AND also that he does not want her to spend her money on him knowing he might not make it out alive
This is an example of a person who has low IQ and EQ.
coming from someone that has to deal with an extremely sick family member that was basically paralyzed, it's AWFUL no matter how much you love your family feelings become conflicting because their existence will literally hold you down
and this is you guys problems "i would have done the same so any criticism to the character is criticism to ME"
You really do live in a fairytale world don't you?
great, and my point is exactly that. He didnt give a fuck about her feelings, he did what was best for him and that was hurting her and running away.
You seem to be missing that HE FORGOT ABOUT HER EXISTENCE AFTER THE SURGERY. So you expect her to take care of the man who does know her anymore AND a baby, in a country she has no foundation in, after uprooting her entire life back home?
Tell me you're a child with no life experience and a delusion worldview without telling me you're a child with no life experience and a delusion worldview
lmao nice try. you're not not even capable of comprehending the simple concept of selflessness.
Just imagine if you're being haebom's mother. First time mom, having to take care newborn baby. Having sick husband that only have months to live. Just imagine the stress and pressure she must endure. Just so you know having baby for the first time is hard, lots of stress and mood swings that hard to control because of hormon issues. In that condition she must face her sick husband which she didn't know when he'll pass away.
Honestly if it was me I'll just kms since I can't handle the stress and all.
More like you guys act like taking care of disable or sick family members is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone.
It was a tumor, you look over the fact that if he stayed the family would only suffer more.
For example, the mother would’ve undergo stress of trying to take care of the baby and a sick husband, Also! If he didn’t leave he wouldn’t have been able to get the surgery, but let’s assume he did, he was in a coma then rehabilitate then also his memories were gone so how hard do you think that would be if your boyfriend couldn’t remember who you are? Exactly it would be hurtful, your blind eyes only see the small picture he left yes but to any logical person you’d be able to see that it was the RIGHT choice. So you only sound ignorant and stupid and your point you believe in is just you too embarrassed to admit your in the wrong.
this was directed at another response but gosh are they exhausting...
this is crazy bro. have you even taken care of someone terminal before? I have, and it was nothing short of traumatising. I would never choose to burden my loved ones if given the chance. you're gonna have to step outside your bubble and realise that you have a very naive worldview of illness. not mention, taking care of a patient AND an infant??? y'all are insane.
okay then, you do it, since it's soooo easyyyyy
- hook up with a guy
- get pregnant
- move to his country that you don't know anything about
- leave everything you know and love behind
- stay by his side as he completely forgets about you after surgery
- give birth and take care of him and the baby, which also means you need to get a job, take care of the house, bills, etc IN A COUNTRYYOU DONT KNOW BTW
Bro just say "I'm a child who doesn't know anything about anything and move on"
you guys really thing the right thing to do for ill people is leave their families? And im the ignorant one?!
Did you only read the first sentence and give up? Respond to the rest of the comment.
They way some of you talk about your family members like taking care of them was the worst thing that ever happened to you....
I hope they never felt like you wished for them to dissapear cause some of these comments are evil.
Clearly my point glided over ur smooth brain, your a idiot and u lack reading comprehension skills
Exactly what I was gonna say but this kid’s never gonna get it… just look at all their replies lol
Nah bitch you're still a deadbeat father and should have died idgaf