I'm so bored

아리안네 October 25, 2025 5:35 pm

A logical person won't disrespect others just because they hate something other people liked.
I have no problem with her being homophobic or just a hater of bl stories written by women, it's her free will to hate whatever she wants to hate, I won't call her out for that, it's totally fine.

What's not fine is her using that hate to offend people by disrespecting what other people enjoy. That's crossing the line coz like how I have no right to judge her by being homophobic, she also have no right to say mean things to others just because they don't have the same opinion.

Liking our own type of stories, no one can judge us for that, no one has the right to judge other people as we all have our own little dark closet.

Why am I even bothering with this? I'm so bored.

Ayways, my point is... let's respect each other for a more peaceful environment, we're all readers here, whatever story you're reading is fine as long as you're a proper citizen irl.


I'm puting it here coz I think I got blocked... I'm not so sure, I'm not familar with the rules of the comsec

Responses
    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 6:35 pm

    I didn’t block you. Your comment is visible to me, but I will reply to you here saying the same thing I said earlier:
    You keep saying I'm homophobic but can't point to a single homophobic thing I said. Let's define some terms since you love throwing that word around:
    Homophobia: dislike of or prejudice against gay people.
    I don't dislike gay people. I dislike WOMEN fetishizing gay men. That's not homophobia, it's the opposite. I'm actually respecting gay men enough not to treat them as sexual objects.
    Now let's talk about what YOU'RE doing:
    Fetishization: to make someone or something the object of a sexual fetish; to have an excessive and irrational commitment to or obsession with something.
    YOU literally said 'respect other people's fetishes' - so you ADMIT you're fetishizing gay men. That's my entire point. You just proved it yourself. Women consuming content made by women, for women, that sexualizes gay men and their relationships for entertainment = fetishization.
    You're getting offended because I'm calling out the exact thing you admitted to doing. You want to fetishize gay men but not be called out for it. You want it both ways, to treat gay relationships as your sexual fantasy while claiming anyone who points it out is 'homophobic.'
    If anything, reducing gay men to fantasy objects for your sexual gratification is closer to homophobia than anything I've said. You're not treating gay people as equals, you're treating them as fetish objects. The cognitive dissonance is actually wild.

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 6:48 pm

    At this point it’s what, THREE separate threads about me over one comment? I'm flattered honestly
    One made a thread crying about being blocked. Another (probably an alt based on the empty profile) made a thread implying I have a problem with anal + support rape (lmao what). Now you made a thread because you think I blocked you.
    And y'all claim I'm the one who can't handle criticism? Lmao.
    You keep saying 'respect everyone's opinions' but you fujos made multiple threads attacking mine. You say 'don't generalize' while calling me homophobic with zero proof (I’ve noticed this pattern with fujos, they will call anyone who doesn’t like BL homophobic.). The hypocrisy is peak.
    You admitted it's a fetish. You can't defend that so you're deflecting with 'homophobe' accusations. If I was actually wrong, you'd have scrolled past. But I clearly hit a nerve.

    fartbuhble October 25, 2025 7:05 pm
    I didn’t block you. Your comment is visible to me, but I will reply to you here saying the same thing I said earlier:You keep saying I'm homophobic but can't point to a single homophobic thing I said. Let's d... LatteGratte

    yo i have no idea whats going on but keep being you i love seeing weirdo fujos getting humbled

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 7:16 pm
    yo i have no idea whats going on but keep being you i love seeing weirdo fujos getting humbled fartbuhble

    Thank u bro

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 8:32 pm

    And also. If you genuinely thought I was homophobic, you SHOULD call that out. The fact that you're okay with perceived homophobia but draw the line at me 'disrespecting' fujoshis tells me everything about your priorities.

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 9:22 pm
    I didn’t block you. Your comment is visible to me, but I will reply to you here saying the same thing I said earlier:You keep saying I'm homophobic but can't point to a single homophobic thing I said. Let's d... LatteGratte

    so by your logic straight porny manhwa is what? fetishizing straight people? go away

    boo October 25, 2025 9:29 pm
    At this point it’s what, THREE separate threads about me over one comment? I'm flattered honestly One made a thread crying about being blocked. Another (probably an alt based on the empty profile) made a thre... LatteGratte

    Ur an icon

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 9:30 pm
    so by your logic straight porny manhwa is what? fetishizing straight people? go away tarspoon

    Straight people aren't a marginalized group. When straight women consume straight porn, they're not fetishizing an oppressed demographic, they're consuming content about their own sexuality.
    When straight women consume gay male porn made by other straight women, they ARE fetishizing a marginalized group. That's the difference.
    It's the same reason straight men fetishizing lesbians is creepy, they're reducing a marginalized group's sexuality to their personal fantasy.
    Nice try with the false equivalence though.

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 9:31 pm
    Ur an icon boo

    Thank u

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 9:49 pm
    Straight people aren't a marginalized group. When straight women consume straight porn, they're not fetishizing an oppressed demographic, they're consuming content about their own sexuality.When straight women ... LatteGratte

    Do you know the gender and sexual orientation of all authors? What is fetishizing in your strange world? What if a lesbian or asexual or any kind of sexual and gender identity is writing the BL?

    butchez October 25, 2025 9:50 pm
    Straight people aren't a marginalized group. When straight women consume straight porn, they're not fetishizing an oppressed demographic, they're consuming content about their own sexuality.When straight women ... LatteGratte

    I love u standing on business really. They calling u homophobic for calling them out for fetishizing bl meanwhile the worst homphobia, lesphobia and transphobia I've seen were from fujoshis in my country. Some of them don't even support real life gay men and are hostile towards them.

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 9:52 pm
    Do you know the gender and sexual orientation of all authors? What is fetishizing in your strange world? What if a lesbian or asexual or any kind of sexual and gender identity is writing the BL? tarspoon

    Or reading it

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 9:54 pm
    Or reading it tarspoon

    The BL/yaoi industry is overwhelmingly dominated by straight women, that's not a secret, it's literally the demographic it was created for and by. Obviously there are exceptions, but we're talking about the pattern, not outliers.
    A lesbian woman writing/reading yaoi about gay MEN is still a woman fetishizing men of a different sexual orientation. Being gay doesn't give you a free pass to fetishize a different marginalized group. That's like saying a gay man can't fetishize lesbians because he's also gay, that's not how it works.
    Asexual people can still fetishize. Sexual orientation doesn't make you immune to treating other groups as sexual objects.
    And again, if you're a gay MAN creating or consuming this content, that's different. It's about your own community. But women (regardless of their sexuality) dominating a genre about gay men and profiting off it is fetishizing and weird.

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 9:55 pm
    The BL/yaoi industry is overwhelmingly dominated by straight women, that's not a secret, it's literally the demographic it was created for and by. Obviously there are exceptions, but we're talking about the pat... LatteGratte

    I lost iq just reading you.

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 9:57 pm
    I lost iq just reading you. tarspoon

    No rebuttal? Just insults? That's how I know you can't actually defend your position. Thanks for playing!

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 9:58 pm

    You one of THOSE people... bye bye

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 9:59 pm
    I love u standing on business really. They calling u homophobic for calling them out for fetishizing bl meanwhile the worst homphobia, lesphobia and transphobia I've seen were from fujoshis in my country. Some ... butchez

    Thank you. They act like reading yaoi makes them progressive allies while being hostile to actual gay people, lesbians, and trans folks.
    I've seen the same thing too. Fujoshis will consume hours of yaoi content but then be weird and uncomfortable around actual gay men, or worse, expect them to perform their fantasies.

    LatteGratte October 25, 2025 10:00 pm
    You one of THOSE people... bye bye tarspoon

    ‘One of THOSE people' who calls out fetishization? Yeah, I am. And you're one of THOSE people who can't defend your behavior so you just leave when confronted with facts. Bye!

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 10:03 pm
    No rebuttal? Just insults? That's how I know you can't actually defend your position. Thanks for playing! LatteGratte

    I do not see the point of unswering to something so stupid and narrow-minded. I'm asexual woman and I read any kind of manhwa with interesting plot, characters or relationships. And you what think only gay people can write about gay people? It so dumb.

    tarspoon October 25, 2025 10:05 pm
    ‘One of THOSE people' who calls out fetishization? Yeah, I am. And you're one of THOSE people who can't defend your behavior so you just leave when confronted with facts. Bye! LatteGratte

    What facts? It's stupidity.