I'll have to disagree. Both Byul and Dojin crossed Hyesungs boundaries. Hyesung doesn't want his mother involved and she should've accepted that and especially Dojin should've. Byul is a child so crossing boundaries are natural for him, but just bc it might not seem much bc Hyesungs mother abandoned him doesn't make it any less. What if she abused him? What if she neglected him? Beat him then ppl would be so much more understanding but that's not fair to Hyesung. He was abandoned as a child by his mother and she suddenly want to become part of his life as an adult. He chose not to forgive her and set boundaries for her and Dojin and later Byul, and all 3 went behind his back. That's an egregious amount of disrespect to Hyesung and how he feels and is making light of what he went through.
Im not saying what she did wasnt wrong at all
Im talking about the relationship
Plus this is BYUL story not hyesung
What I’m saying is
I just feel like adults shouldn’t put their hatred that they have for another person onto their child so that the child can hate that person…. Thats wrong.
These are adults( well not now) leave the child out of it
If the child still decides to want to get to know his grandmother
Than so be it
You don’t have to have a relationship with your mom, but if your son wants to have a relationship with your mom
Than you as the adult is gonna have to just adjust
( im bad at explaining but i hope you get what im trying to say)
If so that's mean he should get to know his grandfather to
The relationship is different for every person just because you experience one thing with a person
doesn’t mean the next person’s gonna experience what you went through now again I’m not saying what the mom went through should be taken lightly
If anything i kinda wished that hyesung told byul What happened….. just so he had known,
Now again if he still choose to want to get to know her even after being told
Than theres really nothing you can do but adjust
Then if so that's mean he should get to know his other grandfather to
U keep repeating yourself
U must want attention
No, I get what you're saying. Yk, if Byul wants to get to know his grandmother despite these things that happend to his mother, then there's really nothing Hyesung can do about that. However, it would still be like a slap in the face towards his mom and it wouldn't be weird if Hyesungs and Byuls relationship suffered or was strained bc of it.
That is true
Im kinda interested in how the author is gonna go about this
Oh sorry about that when I make the first comment it wasn't showing so I made a other one then I refresh my page now both comments showing up lol and since you keep replying I guess we both want attention
Call me crazy, but I kinda hate when adults do this like just because mother has problem with grandmother doesn’t mean the son is supposed to hate grandmother because mother has problem with grandmother. Like leave son out of it…….
Like I’m not saying byul should ignore what his mom went through no definitely not
but at the same time I feel like the mom should accept that byul wants to get to know his grandmother
Now for Dojin …. YEA SIR
I DONT HAVE NOTHING TO SAY TO U LMFAOO