I cannot for the life of me understand the appeal of mo and he tian relationship. he's STI...

I have to agree... I wait for a development that never comes... He Tian pisses me off so, so much.

it's not that deep girlies, you don't like it, some do... you like other tropes, some don't.. it's each to our own ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I think it is a bit more deep than just disliking a particular trope for personal tastes.

Example: I tend to dislike financial gap tropes, and I understand that's just my personal opinion.
My problem with He Tian is because he is abusive and doesn't respect Mo at all.

So yeah... I hope the comment section is free for us to complain as well.

Also, please don't assume everyone reading BL is a girl ಥ‿ಥ

yall sure u read the same 19 days as the mosy of us?

most!!!!

Then stop reading. It's really that simple!

Abusive where, don’t respect Mo at all where. It’s the healthiest relationship ever and people still find a way to complain because He Tian is a big teaser and likes to bully Mo and Mo entertains it and literally crashes out when He Tian is cold/distant. Have we read the same 17 days?
Abusive when your boyfriend helps you out and take you away from poverty, abusive when your boyfriend literally risked his life to help you out frim this stalker issue (mind you, knifes where involved??), abusive when your boyfriend helped you becoming a better person and stop being a brat mob, helped you have good grades, think about better future and helped you becoming the man you are today OUT OF LOVE. But people out of EVERY MAN will find THE HE TIAN abusive???

Girls just say you hate him because you don’t like overly confident, provider, respectful but absolute tease lord manly characters and call it a day, because abuse is not in He Tian dictionary and if anything else, because of his background, he tried to distance himself from Mo because he could be injured because of him, but Mo called him back. Stop thinking Mo is a victim when he’s just a boy, gay patootie, SO GAY THAT HE THINKS THAT HIS COWORKER WOULD THINK ITS FROM HE TIAN. Like— he’s in age to get bitchies and all he thinks about is “omg what if they found out of gay like this???” Bruh

I don't agree that he's abusive but you know abusive people can still help the person their abusing right? Doing good things for the person doesn't take away the abuse. This person probably just sees that he tian doesn't listen to little mo even when he tells him no multiple times and sees it as a abuse or lack of respect towards little mo because doing something even after someone tells you no is disrespecting their boundaries which is how their relationship started and how it has continued. But it's clear that at this point in their relationship little mo has accepted he tian for being that way if not he wouldn't call him back like you said and he simply wouldn't put up with him at all. So I don't think op should get jumped for seeing their relationship like that because that's the way the author has written their relationship he tian does what he wants to little mo and little mo just ends up accepting it. In any other media it does come off as abusive to constantly disrespect boundaries but it's a common trope and it's the trope that they have had for years so at this point you can't really be upset with it when it's always been that way even with the good times thrown in

You’ve really misunderstood their relationship. Let’s have more literacy people please ..

I actually don't have a problem with he tian. and you said he did alot for mo. I just don't like the tsundere archetype. and I think he tian deserves better than a guy who keeps screaming chicken balls every two seconds. I don't have a problem with mo as a character it's just the relationship dynamic that annoys me

It’s not really going to change so not in a mean way but I think you should just stop reading if it’s annoying you now.

I'm very concerned if you think their relationship is "the healthiest relationship ever". (ب_ب)

He Tian helped Mo in many ways and it's crazy about him, that's clear. But he also doesn't respect his boundaries, his body, doesn't respect his job nor the things he built for himself on his own.
Everything is the way He Tian wants. He doesn't ask for Mo's opinions even when it involves making huge changes in his lifestyle, like forcing him to live with him.
Marking a person's body, specially in visible places without their consent is a very disgusting way to show how possessive he is.

I'm aware He Tian doesn't have any "bad intentions" with his actions, but he's well aware of the self-centered jerk he is and doesn't care.

Like someone else said in the comments, abusive people can also help and spoil their targets. If abusive relationships were only about terrible moments and violence, people wouldn't be stuck in them.

People tend to overlook a lot of red flags in fiction, and that's ok since it's entertainment... It's just harder for me (like... your lover getting rid of your home without your consent... What if you break up? What are you going to do?), but it also doesn't mean I'm not enjoying the work as a whole, I just wish He Tian would finally grow a little so Mo can stop being a tsundere on edge every time.

Thank you!

I'm really upset, it's more like getting a little tired... I even defended He Tian in the past, but it's getting harder when he goes and does something way over the top.

I wish we get development, like Zheng Xi stopping hitting Jian Yi.

The tsundere attitude annoyes me a lot too, but in their case, I share the blame about Mo's attitude with He Tian because it's a clear reaction to his actions. ༎‿༎

I used to defend He Tian too. I even did his and Zheng Xi cosplay 12 years ago... I just wish he would grow up too. (/¯◡ ‿ ◡)/¯ ~ ┻━┻