I mean... a real victim of sa shouldn't even be here reading this...
Oh honey... You would be surprised.
Exactly
Yeshhhh man, you couldn’t be more wrong
lmfao, survivor of being trafficked as a kid and having all the shit juyeon does to jiwook done to me as a child.
literally confused why ppl that haven’t been abused read this. i read this like my abuser might actually get his :)
But wouldn't that just trigger your trauma?
Well it's easier for a person that never experienced this to not relate to it. Someone that has been through something like this would just feel bad seeing it in such detail
Dude why are you saying “someone that has been through something like this would just feel bad seeing it in such detail” to someone who has actually been through CSA and human trafficking??
I understand that you’re probably not asking this out of malice, but trauma survivors are a spectrum. You can’t say for sure what they’ll feel about a certain situation. What might be triggering to some might not bother others at all.
This kind of comment got so common in BL for victims of SA, and it always get a lot of likes. Why should a victim end itself? What did the victim of SA did that deserves to die? And I'm not talking about this case in particular so don't say he's a monster like his abuser, I talk in general, with every victim of SA it's always "ugh just kill yourself". It's so disrespectful to all real victims of SA reading that tried so hard to overcome the self hatred, depression and trauma because they want to heal and lead a normal life, and all we read when there's a victim of SA is "they should unalive themselves", as if they were the ones that did something wrong. I miss the times when readers knew that abusive rapists were the ones that should unalive themselves, not their victims. I would never say something so cruel like "a victim of SA should end its life to end the suffering", instead I say abusers should go through twice the pain they caused.