But you both were within reach so why are u only blaming the blondie? You yourself never d...

i dont appreciate this comment and i reported this for animal abuse. good day.

HAHA you're so slay for that

So no ppl blabbing about nonsense are slay? Damn didn't knew about that if you don't like my opinion no more like facts then you can just ignore it no need to spread hate

Omg THIS FINALLY someone not mindlessly just looking at the pictures and scrolling through most of the dialogue. I feel like the majority of this comment section hasn't put themselves in blondie's shoes here

Idk why this comment got downvoted so much because I agree and it's true! Relationships are 2 way streets! He let himself harbor feelings one-sidedly instead of facing it head on and talking to his friend about it. I get how it's just how the story goes but itl, it really isn't just on the blonde. He didn't cross the gap either.

Omg thank you ppl were hating my comment so I thought I was in the wrong or something

Finally someone with common sense

This is not the issue lol ppl keep missing the point - it's the fact if blondie never developed feelings for this person he's like best friends with for 12 YEARS of being right next to them hearing that request is genuinely so hurtful and crazy. Seojoon has a right to be upset by that idc

Well they were best friends! It's possible but it's not that common you can't just force someone or get upset on them just because they didn't develop feelings for you

It's not because he didn't develop feelings, that's what i'm saying, it's because he's now saying hey give me two months and i'll try. Obvs being third parties we can see it from blondie's pov, but also from sec's pov he has a right to be upset because to him it's pointless and the guy is trying to put him through all this extra pain and suffering for nothing. I got rejected by my former best friend last year and i know for a fact he was good enough to have never asked that of me, and I hadn't liked him for 12 YEARS （/TДT)/ just saying secretary has a right to be upset even if we understand where blondie's coming from and it upsets me seeing people put him down for it thinking he's blaming the guy for not... liking him? Which i just don't think is happening at all

I see what you're saying, but Jooan's not asking for him to give him time to love him back, he's saying give him time to recognize what his feelings are whether that's fear of losing a friend, crush, or good ass secretary

Yeah and that also still sucks for secretary in that situation because the process is the same

I'm not blaming anyone yes you can develop feelings for your best friend there's nothing wrong with that both of them aren't wrong but they aren't right either

i just made a silly little comment bro unclench

That is a fair point yep

I'm confused, when i said blame i was talking about people thinking secretary is blaming blondie for not having feelings for him? Not that you were blaming him for smth. And i still think he had a right to feel bad (〜￣△￣)〜

I remember Jooan saying that Seojoon might as well love him for doing the extra mile for him. So Jooan is capable of knowing Seojoon is not an ordinary secretary and might not even a normal best friend, but chooses to dismiss thinking more critically why Seojoon would do that. Ya'll can crucify Seojoon for not directly saying he loves Jooan but he did put on the work to show it. Jooan just happen to barely cared to interpret or notice because he was chasing someone else and confidently assumed Seojun was just there for him.

Yes, and we're that both are at fault, not just Jooan. The comments we are calling out are the comments that have continuously crucified Jooan and acted like Seojoon is the only victim here

*we're saying