I’m dying

Stabrina August 7, 2019 6:54 am

“Now that he knows I’m gay sex between us is going to be weird.”
How??Was??Sex??Not??Already??Gay??
Any normal person would’ve been like “well of course he knows I’m gay, we’ve been sleeping together for months. Also are we not basically dating now?”

Responses
    Perlita-chan August 7, 2019 6:59 am

    you clearly don’t know what it means to be queer. It’s a lot more complex than what you think or see thru those heteronormative eyes.

    vaisravana August 7, 2019 7:59 am
    you clearly don’t know what it means to be queer. It’s a lot more complex than what you think or see thru those heteronormative eyes. Perlita-chan

    hi I'm queer and op is right this logic is bs lol

    BubblegumB!tch August 7, 2019 8:00 am
    you clearly don’t know what it means to be queer. It’s a lot more complex than what you think or see thru those heteronormative eyes. Perlita-chan

    I'm not sure if you're being serious or not sorry

    Stabrina August 7, 2019 1:26 pm
    you clearly don’t know what it means to be queer. It’s a lot more complex than what you think or see thru those heteronormative eyes. Perlita-chan

    Ok then, please explain then? Because clearly a lot of people also agree with me. If you’re just going to say “oh you have no idea what you’re talking about” and don’t bother trying to educate, then you’re not helping anyone but your own ego.

    Stabrina August 7, 2019 1:29 pm
    you clearly don’t know what it means to be queer. It’s a lot more complex than what you think or see thru those heteronormative eyes. Perlita-chan

    I guess rather than gay I should have expanded and said *well he knows I’m some sort of queer sexuality because we’ve been having non heterosexual sex for months? Or something like that?

    Perlita-chan August 7, 2019 6:36 pm
    I guess rather than gay I should have expanded and said *well he knows I’m some sort of queer sexuality because we’ve been having non heterosexual sex for months? Or something like that? Stabrina

    Well the thing is sex and sexuality isn’t just black and white. Nor is it just a color palette. It’s a spectrum with lots of grey areas. Just becuz someone has intercourse with someone of the same sex doesn’t automatically make that person gay. Some people are demisexual and others are just having a conflicting queer moment in their lives and it’s not okay to just assume and label them, that’s beyond fucking rude and heteronormative. Sorry if that didn’t seem obvious enough to some people becuz clearly, y’all see sexuality as black and white, which is just outrageously ignorant and I apologize if my comment was rude and standoffish and I should’ve better explained myself and I greatly appreciated that you asked what I meant by what I said. Thank you