
Well the thing is sex and sexuality isn’t just black and white. Nor is it just a color palette. It’s a spectrum with lots of grey areas. Just becuz someone has intercourse with someone of the same sex doesn’t automatically make that person gay. Some people are demisexual and others are just having a conflicting queer moment in their lives and it’s not okay to just assume and label them, that’s beyond fucking rude and heteronormative. Sorry if that didn’t seem obvious enough to some people becuz clearly, y’all see sexuality as black and white, which is just outrageously ignorant and I apologize if my comment was rude and standoffish and I should’ve better explained myself and I greatly appreciated that you asked what I meant by what I said. Thank you
“Now that he knows I’m gay sex between us is going to be weird.”
How??Was??Sex??Not??Already??Gay??
Any normal person would’ve been like “well of course he knows I’m gay, we’ve been sleeping together for months. Also are we not basically dating now?”