Life is way too short for this shit. Break up and be alone for a while. It takes two to clap, and if you can't even discuss your feelings with him what's the point? You are supposed to share each others burdens. Not you take all his burdens while he piles on more burderns on you then teases you about it. Nope. Get out before it's hard to get out. ANd if you ever take him back, he has to change those parts. If he attacks you for telling him how you feel, then fuck him. Nope. Bye. Better to be miserable alone.
10 months in and you're tired. Do you really see a future with this guy? He's all about respecting his family but he doesn't give you the respect you need. He's highly likely one of those individuals that treasure his family and friends more than his own lover. I'd encourage you to find a better guy since your ideals dont match with his. No sister in law nor siblings should even read anyone's chat. you support him but he doesn't support you. This isn't a healthy relationship. You will end up ruining yourself in the long run. Leave for your sanity and mental health. Good luck.
I mean if you brought this problem up with him and he blamed you or is just ignoring it then you should just break up with him cause he sounds a lil toxic. And if you do breakup you dont have to meet someone new. Being single is a thing ans it is honestly refreshing. It can help you rediscover yourself. If you're uncomfortable in a relationship, it's never worth it! Whether its romantic, familial, or friendship. You're priority!
Would you mind if your boyfriend lets his sister in law read your chats with him? When i ask him about her he says he can't talk about her cos he respects her privacu but he would let her read our chats if she wanted to. what would you do in this case?