Definetly an insult, well deserved I'd say it's really funny how you think it's fine because a fictional character written by a (presumably straight) woman "sided" with the top instead of listening to any of these comments from other people, gay and het but eh go off
lmao that’s not my point at all. did you even read my comment and the replies??? you good? idk how you went to sadism. idfc if he likes to top, the problem is he’s making it as if bottoming is a bad thing. maybe read the replies. you’re getting off topic.
"It's in their nature" is not only bullshit but in circumstances is used to justify rape so I'd realllllly watch out with saying that if I were you. Every single person is different, you can't generalise an entire gender???
Also about the sadist comment.. I know the top was SUPPOSED to be a sadist in this manga, but after reading it, he's just an asshole manchild. He's not a sadist. So no, that "argument" does not work well either.
i am so tired of BL materials pushing this idea that it’s so bad to be a bottom and it’s “a girl’s part.” first of all, that’s so disrespectful to the gender your lover identifies w/. imagine being comfortable w/ your sexuality and gender identity until some guy just wrecks it because you want it done in the ass. second, it’s such a huge slap in the face for girls, almost as if saying “you’re just a hole, anyone can do your part.” and the fact that bottoming is supposed to be a bad thing??? how tf is taking it by the ass is a bad thing? because “it feels like you’re a girl.”? doesn’t that say more about you who don’t want to be the bottom just because of that kind of bullshit rather than the ppl who enjoy being the bottom? and also, why is switching not normalized? being a bottom does not mean you’re the feminine one or you’re the specific one just like how being a top doesn’t have a specific standard to follow. lastly, don’t fucking chase people who are like the seme. you deserve so much better. find somebody who doesn’t have flour as a personality.