Elisa is behaving like one of those dumb girls again! Being all like "he doesn't care, he...

Munkatty97 September 16, 2020 12:16 pm

Elisa is behaving like one of those dumb girls again!
Being all like "he doesn't care, he doesn't tell me anything bladblad"
But when he tries to talk to you, you push him away???
Like is she somewhat brain-dead???

Responses
    Saga September 16, 2020 12:54 pm

    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people because even her step mother was nice and loving at first but that didn’t last long and she started to lock her up or hit her when she was having a bad day. In other words Elisa was her punching bag. She knows ginger didn’t marry her for love. He married Her because he needed a good and obedient wife, he even told her that and told her not except anything from him. And then his past lover coming back and making a move on him, Elisa who watched her dad leaving his dying wife for his lover know that marriage is just a word and in the end of the day if she shows her feelings or tell ginger what she really want he might leave her because she’s no longer the quiet wife he wanted. She knows that ginger started to notice her feelings and he still not paying them any attention, what’s mean that he doesn’t really care. And he doesn’t try to talk to her!!! When she ask him about Julia he change the subject, he suddenly tell her not to do stuff and not explain anything. The only way to solve this is for him to man up and face his feelings. Till then he deserve the cold shoulder she’s giving him. She’s not dumb she’s heart. She never been important to anyone and with all his past actions you can’t expect her to see the situation differently.

    Un_holy_confessions September 16, 2020 1:55 pm
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    Yes preach it!!

    Buddha September 16, 2020 2:04 pm
    Yes preach it!! Un_holy_confessions

    Exactly like they forgot all that and they callOmg her a annoying bitch bc she won’t listen to him Explain

    nemu September 16, 2020 2:32 pm
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    say it louder for everyone in the back
    getting tired of ppl bashing on elissa lmao

    lovelylin September 16, 2020 3:22 pm
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    if only i could like replies

    Charlotte September 16, 2020 3:24 pm
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    Say it for people in the back!

    Un_holy_confessions September 16, 2020 4:33 pm
    Exactly like they forgot all that and they callOmg her a annoying bitch bc she won’t listen to him Explain Buddha

    For real! But damn she gave him a chance and instead of taking it he pushed her away! And now he wants to act all pitiful because she reverted back to how she used to act. What does he except? Him knowing her feelings and ignoring them basically meant he had no intention to give them back. I'd act differently to shit that must've hurt. He needs to explain himself better he's had time. He needs to make a move if he wants to fix this! v.v

    b3606234 September 16, 2020 5:53 pm
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    Thank you! You explain so logically.

    Munkatty97 September 17, 2020 5:08 am
    She grown up in an abusive home. She don’t know what genuine love is. Her parents marriage was broken, her biological father didn’t care for her and she told ginger once that she can’t trust people becaus... Saga

    You said he should men up and face his feelings what about her?
    Shouldn't she just grow the heck up too?
    You can't use her past as an excuse forever, that's just lack of character development.
    What's the point of going through all the crap if she's going to behave just the same?

    Saga September 17, 2020 6:10 am
    You said he should men up and face his feelings what about her? Shouldn't she just grow the heck up too? You can't use her past as an excuse forever, that's just lack of character development. What's the point ... Munkatty97

    People can’t just get over a trauma. She already faced her feelings, and ginger knows her feelings too. She literally said in this chapter that ginger ignoring her feelings mean she already rejected even before she confessed. She in a survival mode. She don’t want to divorce and go back to her abusive home. (She said that too in this chapter) so the only thing she can do is going back to how she acted when they just married so he wouldn’t get sick of her and divorce her. And remember he told her not to love him or expect anything from him. Those words are like a curse for her and the only way to lift the curse is for him to take those words back, and the only way to take those words back is for him to face his feelings. Till then she’s in no position to do or say anything really.

    Munkatty97 September 17, 2020 11:59 am
    People can’t just get over a trauma. She already faced her feelings, and ginger knows her feelings too. She literally said in this chapter that ginger ignoring her feelings mean she already rejected even befo... Saga

    Well if she keeps acting like that, they WILL get a divorce (but they won't, BC this is not real)
    Communication is the key.
    If you don't communicate, doesn't matter how much you love each others, it will end.
    BC people are too much of a coward to face what's going on, they're weak.

    Saga September 17, 2020 12:19 pm
    Well if she keeps acting like that, they WILL get a divorce (but they won't, BC this is not real) Communication is the key. If you don't communicate, doesn't matter how much you love each others, it will end. B... Munkatty97

    But the one who doesn’t communicate is ginger not her. When ever she ask him about Julia or the dukes meeting he just brush her off. Having small talk like he doing now mean nothing if when something serious happen he tell her to stay out of it

    Munkatty97 September 18, 2020 5:19 am
    But the one who doesn’t communicate is ginger not her. When ever she ask him about Julia or the dukes meeting he just brush her off. Having small talk like he doing now mean nothing if when something serious ... Saga

    Then stand up for herself?
    Why stay so weak and little and just sit there til things become a mess and end up crying and crying all the time?
    Isn't that frustrating?

    nemu September 18, 2020 5:47 am
    Then stand up for herself? Why stay so weak and little and just sit there til things become a mess and end up crying and crying all the time? Isn't that frustrating? Munkatty97

    this kind of conversation can be looped endlessly lmao.
    she’s been mistreated all her life. her personality isn’t going to change at the drop of a hat. she’s not gonna be able to suddenly express her emotions when she’s spent all her life suppressing it. no one can change THAT fast. it’s going to take a lot of time and i’m sure elissa will be able to express herself as time goes on.
    if u find elissa frustrating, feel free to just drop reading this. i’m here for the character development lmao. again, it’s going to take a lot of time and i’m down for that. her scars will heal overtime cos of ginger and vice versa. nuff said.

    Munkatty97 September 18, 2020 9:10 am
    this kind of conversation can be looped endlessly lmao. she’s been mistreated all her life. her personality isn’t going to change at the drop of a hat. she’s not gonna be able to suddenly express her emot... nemu

    She has had plenty of times and chances to have that character development that she desperately needs.
    And she did change, that's the thing, she did change but now she's going to behave as if she's the same person.
    It's a waste of time.

    nemu September 18, 2020 3:13 pm
    She has had plenty of times and chances to have that character development that she desperately needs. And she did change, that's the thing, she did change but now she's going to behave as if she's the same per... Munkatty97

    let me make it nice and simple then. stop reading lmao
    obviously the creator plans on taking their time with her character development and if you’re not fine with it, just drop it.
    cos i know that in time elissa will definitely gain more confidence and courage. now’s just not that time.

    Munkatty97 September 19, 2020 4:04 am
    let me make it nice and simple then. stop reading lmaoobviously the creator plans on taking their time with her character development and if you’re not fine with it, just drop it. cos i know that in time elis... nemu

    Just BC I don't like something doesn't mean I have to stop reading
    There are more to the story than just a weak, plain character.
    The creator is dragging it out, simple as that. It's inefficient.

    nemu September 19, 2020 5:56 am
    Just BC I don't like something doesn't mean I have to stop reading There are more to the story than just a weak, plain character. The creator is dragging it out, simple as that. It's inefficient. Munkatty97

    lmao well ok then
    ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
    u were so irritated i figured u should just drop it in the long run but if u say so
    the creator is definitely gonna keep taking their time with her development so ur just gonna have to rlly suck it up if u keep finding it irritating. plus maybe the creator waiting for the right time anyway. AND for me i personally like it drawn out cos the development is more fleshed out and wen the character DOES finally change, the impact it has on us readers is stronger. like “YEAH!!! THIS IS WAT IM TALKING ABOUT” kind of feeling. could just be me.

    Munkatty97 September 20, 2020 2:53 am
    lmao well ok then ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭u were so irritated i figured u should just drop it in the long run but if u say sothe creator is definitely gonna keep taking their time with her development so ur just gonna... nemu

    It's you

    nemu September 20, 2020 5:13 am
    It's you Munkatty97

    LMAO apparently