How cute would it have been if she meet the reincarnation of her husband and had the same ...

why're you assuming she had a husband?

Well ...she didn't have a wife

She may have been a single mother, was my implication

Well..when they make stories where the person reincarnates they try not to overcomplicate the background ..if she was a single mother I'm pretty sure she would be trying to find away back to her child..or it would have been included because being a single mother would have been significant to the story

That's a bad argument. She realized at the age of six and since this is not a magic based story that's impossible.

Well people just assume that everyone is straight and is married.

-single mothers
-unmarried parents
-lesbian adoptions
-etc.
Are a thing

We live in a straight world where marriage and kids are the norm. It's just life... For now.

Solution: representation of different family dynamics

Well me assuming she was married wasn't a big deal and the argument was that maybe she was a single mother..the point I was brining up was that there was another parent that could have been taking care of the child and i felt like it was a male because of the fact he wasn't mentioned ..i feel like if she was a single parent or had a women counterpart it would have been mentioned and she wouldve talked about if she was a lesbian..

And reincarnation is pretty magical to me ..she doesn't know how and why she reincarnated..she doesn't have to be in a magical world she could have been magical herself..

Damm i am sorry to see that such a simple comment was blown out of proportion. I am sure you only meant well when you wrote what you wrote. And tbh, it does sound like a cute concept, would be fun to see something like that happen.

Wouldn't she have also talked about having a husband if she was straight?

Look I'm just pointing out that life is full or variety and things aren't that simple.

I meant a story with magic in it like magical powers because such words typically have books and things that would allow her to conduct research/find information. This is like us waking up in the middle ages, there really wouldn't be a starting point and since there has been a 6 year gap it's hard to say how things would go.

She would need some kind of a starting point and characters to interact with so we would need to make serval changes to the story. This concept could work and it would be cute but defensively not on the basis of this story, like a completely new story with that being the main focus.

Like this idea could work but at that point it would just be a completely different story. I think there was something a bit similar to this where a girl met her ex fiance who "betrayed" her in a past life (although there was no kid involved) and they realized they both reincarnated but the overall setting of the story was extremely different.

Also that comment was made towards denize, it's not meant to argue the argument between you guys but it's rather a statement on reality, the goal was for me to make a little statement that could either remain as a little statement or open up a discussion between me and that individual. I was interested in seeing whenever they shared my perspective or if they had a different one as I like to hear different perspectives.

It does kinda relate with what you said but at must it would just state that your assumption is a normal assumption to make in modern society which basically makes it an ok thing to say/assume within the context of what is considered acceptable nowadays. It wasn't talking or condemning you for assuming that she was married. I as refering to social norms which assume marriage to be a stage of life everyone goes through. It's also why I mentioned representation in general. It's reasonable for you to assume that she is straight and married since for the most part that's all we see.

That was the whole point of me posting my comment..i thought if would be cute if the story was written differently

No..i totally new your comment was meant to explain social norms to denizen about my assumption ..i was commenting under your because I thought you were wrong..i commented under your because I agreed with what you said but I didn't think the author would leave something as important as for an example being a single mother out of the story ...i thought anybody could comment under anybody's post

Lol...im trying to hold my own..

This is a story where typically there is a fl and a ml and I assumed she was straight because of the fact

Indeed, I never said that you couldn't and I never tried to stop that so this is confusing?

"Well me assuming" your languge was totally on about what you said, not about social norms plus the author literally actedlike her past life didn't happen for the most part. There was a bit about it at the beginning but then it was forgotten and we know very little about her background and who she was.

You assuming that the author would mention that doesn't apply in this case as the MC past life is basically forgotten about and tbh out of all the stories I have read, this one is one of the ones where the author managed things poorly. The author clearly didn't care about that whenever she had or didn't have a husband literally doesn't matter in this case and idk why the author would even include that as her past life serves literally next to no purpose in the story.

That's a resonable assumption but acting as if a husband wouldn't be mentioned is pretty odd.

I have been just giving you lifelines... you could have legit just took one of them.

The one about social norms was a good one. The one where I mentioned that I liked your idea but stated that it wouldn't work with this setting would have worked too. When I talked about how your assumption was normal that was another good one you could have used.