Nerves

Anonymous October 18, 2020 12:29 pm

Okay, now he's getting on my nerves. He is still a student, he needs to be able to learn properly. I really don't like this guy, this is just annoying and disruptive. Poor Sangwoo.

Responses
    Aime October 19, 2020 3:44 pm
    I said that it was just presumptions of mince and that the author didn't confirmed it tho Aime

    mine*

    Aime October 19, 2020 3:47 pm
    I said that it was just presumptions of mince and that the author didn't confirmed it tho Aime

    And since the beginning I mixed the character's names lmaoooo ("MC" is supposed to be "Sangwoo" and so "Sangwoo" is supposed to be the ""bully"" lol. SO sorry about that omg ╥﹏╥

    xybreak October 19, 2020 3:51 pm
    I said that it was just presumptions of mince and that the author didn't confirmed it tho Aime

    I didn't mean to imply you did, sorry if it came across that way! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Anonymous October 19, 2020 3:52 pm
    ON one hand, he's doing all of this to trigger him ON PURPOSE, but on the other hand, how is he supposed to know how affected he is by those things ? Because objectively speaking, it's just some small things su... Aime

    It's fine if you don't care anymore but I am putting myself in his shoes. I said before that removing any neurotypicalness from the equation it still remains the same.

    I know for a fact that I would completely and totally hate it if someone did that to me. I have home directly to the internet and I have seen that the definition of harassment is 'behaviour that annoys or upsets someone', read that and tell me Red is not harassing Sangwoo. I don't think you REALLY read my argument before replying.

    Anonymous October 19, 2020 3:53 pm
    I said that it was just presumptions of mince and that the author didn't confirmed it tho Aime

    Yh, I understand

    Aime October 19, 2020 3:53 pm
    I didn't mean to imply you did, sorry if it came across that way! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ xybreak

    No, no sorry my bad, my bad, everything seem confusing right now lmao ( ̄∇ ̄")

    Anonymous October 19, 2020 3:54 pm
    And since the beginning I mixed the character's names lmaoooo ("MC" is supposed to be "Sangwoo" and so "Sangwoo" is supposed to be the ""bully"" lol. SO sorry about that omg ╥﹏╥ Aime

    Haha, I do that all the time

    Aime October 19, 2020 4:01 pm
    It's fine if you don't care anymore but I am putting myself in his shoes. I said before that removing any neurotypicalness from the equation it still remains the same.I know for a fact that I would completely a... Anonymous

    Okay so now I understand your point of view. So this is how you see it, because I thought you talked about "bullying", which is something like "seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable)" and it's not the case here. I mean it's sure is annoying but taking someone usual seat or brand coffee is harmless and not intimidating. But if we're talking about "behavior that annoy or upset someone" then now, we can agree lmao ! (≧∀≦)

    Aime October 19, 2020 4:03 pm
    Haha, I do that all the time Anonymous

    I bet my point was even more confusing lmaooooo........ (/TДT)/

    Aime October 19, 2020 4:05 pm

    As always it was just a misunderstanding lmao, so sorry about that, I can be super annoying sometimes, but I swear I'm a nice person........ ( ̄∇ ̄")

    xybreak October 19, 2020 4:13 pm
    As always it was just a misunderstanding lmao, so sorry about that, I can be super annoying sometimes, but I swear I'm a nice person........ ( ̄∇ ̄") Aime

    I know i wasn't actually a part of you guys' discussion, but you shouldn't feel bad or annoying for being passionate and fighting for your opinion! misunderstandings happen, especially here since english is just a second(/3rd/etc) language for a lot of people. I think it speaks very well for you that you are able to admit that there was a misunderstanding.
    Also, you actually do seem like a nice person imo, so really, don't worry about it too much (●'◡'●)ノ

    Mozzarella October 19, 2020 5:40 pm
    I'll not fight on the internet with a stranger for a fictif character, it was fun at first but now it's getting tiring. If you think you're right, then good for u pal Aime

    Translation: You realized you lost the argument and is now trying to insult me to save face.

    Mozzarella October 19, 2020 5:46 pm
    ON one hand, he's doing all of this to trigger him ON PURPOSE, but on the other hand, how is he supposed to know how affected he is by those things ? Because objectively speaking, it's just some small things su... Aime

    Sir, are you always this dense or is today a special occasion?

    If he's doing this to trigger Sangwoo on purpose, it's because he knows it's gonna bother Sangwoo. That's the very definition of harassment.

    I think you're not thinking objectively on this matter, because you're so set on defending your point of view that you'll see whatever you want to see, even if your arguments are contradictory.

    You know what else is contradictory? Saying you'll no longer will fight on the internet and then keep on fighting on the internet.

    Aime October 19, 2020 6:21 pm

    OK so firstly, as you can see, I never felt like I was "loosing" the argument, I still believe that I'm not wrong and stated why. Secondly, you talk about harassment while I talk about bullying, those things are not the same, so the debate was biased anyway.
    Also, you believe that he realized that he may be "neuro divergent" while I believe he did not realized it, (because it may be obvious for the readers but it's not necessarily the case for him since he doesn't know his point of view). And on this matter, there is no real truth since it's just presumptions.
    That's funny because you're accusing me of something I accuse you of doing. So we are either both wrong or right.
    And to conclude, I didn't want to fight with you but I don't have any problems talking or debating with others, they look nice. I don't mind having a debate but it's useless if you don't read what I'm writing or if I simply feel like it's going to nowhere.

    Aime October 19, 2020 6:21 pm
    I know i wasn't actually a part of you guys' discussion, but you shouldn't feel bad or annoying for being passionate and fighting for your opinion! misunderstandings happen, especially here since english is jus... xybreak

    Omg you're so damn sweet thank you for your understanding

    Anonymous October 19, 2020 7:42 pm
    OK so firstly, as you can see, I never felt like I was "loosing" the argument, I still believe that I'm not wrong and stated why. Secondly, you talk about harassment while I talk about bullying, those things ar... Aime

    Since I've already said my own and am finished with this debate, I just want to say, technically mozzarella wasn't doing the same because they never said they were done.

    We can all be nice and respectful. Debate not fight.

    Anonymous October 19, 2020 7:44 pm
    As always it was just a misunderstanding lmao, so sorry about that, I can be super annoying sometimes, but I swear I'm a nice person........ ( ̄∇ ̄") Aime

    Same, not to mention I'm always super confused about stuff.
    The sentence I get the most is "You look so confused"" or "_______ looks so confused!"

    Mozzarella October 19, 2020 8:27 pm
    OK so firstly, as you can see, I never felt like I was "loosing" the argument, I still believe that I'm not wrong and stated why. Secondly, you talk about harassment while I talk about bullying, those things ar... Aime

    I read what you are writing, I just think it's wrong.

    Go back into your own comments and realise that you were the one who went as low as to try to discredit me first when you stated that I might have been bullied and therefore my opinion is biased and shouldn't hold credit.

    The bottom line is that, whether Sangwoo is NA or not and whether Jaeyoung knew or mot is merely an aggravating clause in the subject, as Jaeyoung is purposefully doing things to bother him.

    That's an asshole move, whether someone is NA or not. Even if Sangwoo is NT, Jaeyoung is doing things that he knows will bother him, with the very purpose of bothering him and messing up his life.

    Call it whatever you want - bullying, harassment, whatever. But don't try to say what Jaeyoung is doing is harmless and just childish behavior, cuz we are clearly seeing it isn't harmless, regardless of what you think Jaeyoung's intentions are.

    (Spoilers: his intention is not to play a harmless prank on Sangwoo).

    Aime October 19, 2020 9:01 pm
    I read what you are writing, I just think it's wrong.Go back into your own comments and realise that you were the one who went as low as to try to discredit me first when you stated that I might have been bulli... Mozzarella

    I don't even understand why we're having this debate because we're basically saying the same things. Are you sure you're reading what I writing ? I'm saying that he's bothering on purpose and that it is childish and this is literally what you're telling me as if I was saying the contrary. I'm still convinced that your point of view is biased by your own past tho. The difference between our 2 point of views is that I don't condone his actions as much as you, I just think he's stupid and immature while you're saying he is the biggest asshole of the universe for bullying someone. And there is a difference between bullying and harassment, and I think that this difference is important, but apparently you don't and you think it's the same thing. And I'll keep thinking that he's behavior is harmless, it may be annoying but it's not that serious or that deep. Sincerely, I feel like we're going nowhere.

    Aime October 19, 2020 9:04 pm
    I read what you are writing, I just think it's wrong.Go back into your own comments and realise that you were the one who went as low as to try to discredit me first when you stated that I might have been bulli... Mozzarella

    Basically we both agree on the fact that his behavior is not correct but at the same time we both think that the other is wrong, so now what ?