Annoying seme

Vampire Queen October 24, 2020 7:10 pm

For me, the seme in the first story is one of those cliche as*h*le types who always expect the uke to bottom and is never open to switching even when the uke wants to. You find this type of seme in a lot of older yaoi but this just pisses me off more because it's newer and I expected more.

Responses
    Nyay October 24, 2020 7:39 pm

    Really? I'd say it's just as common now, if not more. Heck a whole new genre was born because of it (omegaverse).

    Ahk October 24, 2020 8:08 pm
    Really? I'd say it's just as common now, if not more. Heck a whole new genre was born because of it (omegaverse). Nyay

    And it does lead to hot sexy alpha x alpha and top omega x bottom alpha (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ even top beta x bottom alpha is so good too

    lostikins October 24, 2020 9:31 pm

    You make it sound as if you've been reading yaoi/bl for a long time but judging by your inexperienced views I'd say you just started a year ago lol

    fire October 25, 2020 4:29 am
    You make it sound as if you've been reading yaoi/bl for a long time but judging by your inexperienced views I'd say you just started a year ago lol lostikins

    "inexperienced views" lol what. They're right, it's super common in older yaois for the semes to be like this.

    Vampire Queen October 25, 2020 6:47 am
    You make it sound as if you've been reading yaoi/bl for a long time but judging by your inexperienced views I'd say you just started a year ago lol lostikins

    yes, I have. I actually have been reading yaoi manga since mangago was old mangago and they had a white and orange/yellow theme and a normal face emoji as their thumbnail so please look at my profile before commenting your assumptions.

    Vampire Queen October 25, 2020 7:00 am
    Really? I'd say it's just as common now, if not more. Heck a whole new genre was born because of it (omegaverse). Nyay

    (≧∀≦) your comment had me in stitches. Yet, I do think that a lot more recent yaoi's have reversible couples compared to older classics.

    Nyay October 25, 2020 8:04 am
    (≧∀≦) your comment had me in stitches. Yet, I do think that a lot more recent yaoi's have reversible couples compared to older classics. Vampire Queen

    I agree! The rise of vers couples/sekes in modern yaoi is definitely a good thing and should be celebrated. I just really really hate omegaverse LMAO

    Nyay October 25, 2020 8:07 am
    And it does lead to hot sexy alpha x alpha and top omega x bottom alpha (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ even top beta x bottom alpha is so good too Ahk

    yup but very rarely. :( The whole genre is still built around rape, and the fucked up depiction + view of bottoming/people who bottom. I admit that I like the ones that feature what you said tho lol.

    Queen69 October 30, 2020 9:10 am

    Just because he didnt want to bottom doesnt make him an asshole stupid

    He said if the uke would have realyyyy pushed for it the seme would hve let him top.

    Stop acting like if the seme is obligated to bottom just because the uke wants to top. If the seme isnt up for it he doesnt have to do it. If they have problems with who tops/bottoms then they can break up

    Queen69 October 30, 2020 9:14 am
    I agree! The rise of vers couples/sekes in modern yaoi is definitely a good thing and should be celebrated. I just really really hate omegaverse LMAO Nyay

    Its stupid how you want to celebrate seke and stuff because oh yeah the uke doesn't get to be top when he wants to and the seme always does what he wants so lets let the uke do what he wants and call the seme an asshole for not doing what the uke wants without his input

    Vampire Queen October 31, 2020 8:59 am
    Its stupid how you want to celebrate seke and stuff because oh yeah the uke doesn't get to be top when he wants to and the seme always does what he wants so lets let the uke do what he wants and call the seme a... Queen69

    As a reader yes, it's interesting to read something different from the norm, that's generally what makes something exciting to read, hence why readers like me celebrate seke couples as it emulates reality. Yes, it is anyone's prerogative to choose what sex position they are comfortable with but really if it's something your committed partner wants to try, in any relationship, turn about should be fair play.

    Regarding the seme here is an assh*le to disregard his partner's feelings and to take for granted that he will always bottom, I don't want to touch so much on culture but if know how Japanese society discriminates against homosexuality and the general consensus surrounding this particular topic you will understand my views on this matter a little better.

    Besides the seme never bottoms and looks like he never will, it's a pretty one-sided relationship as it was the uke who made the first move towards clearing up their disagreement with his own compromise.

    Also, people, the uke is not obligated to bottom either and it's really sad that just because he wants something different like a position swap in sex that a lot of you guy's are disregarding his wishes, it does not make him any less of a person for wanting more from their relationship and it's just my opinion but in a loving relationship, you have to make certain compromises when it comes to your partner's happiness.

    It's my opinion and really that's all it is, you can feel free to disagree however you want, just be civil about it because I do draw the line at name-calling when it comes to a person's own opinion.