tbh i’m not defending anyone but

hxhism December 29, 2020 11:24 am

y’all need to stop telling others to stop complaining abt the manhwa. esp bc this manhwa is not normal by any means. it’s controversial. let people complain, discuss, and voice out their opinions. you don’t need to defend the manhwa like it’s a life or death situation or try to justify it by any means from your own moral standards.

i’ve seen similar comments in the manhwa “beware of the brothers” wherein so many readers were getting mad at the people who were commenting that it’s disgusting bc the ml is the stepbrother. and quite frankly, it’s just annoying seeing so many ppl trying to silence others who have a problem with the manhwa. it’s not anyone’s fault that this manhwa has subtle themes of grooming and/or incest and that their immediate reactions is to find it weird and sus. it’s not like that’s a normalized thing.

stop telling them to stop reading or to stop complaining here. where else can they complain and speak abt it except in this topic section? geez, just let ppl do what they want. those comments are not harming anyone.

Responses
    xicey December 29, 2020 3:50 pm

    People can complain but calling it grooming when its not is just stupid. If you dont like something stop reading and move on.. I know you people will continue to read and whine until the end.

    xicey December 29, 2020 3:51 pm

    Also he never really thought of her as his mother honestly.

    Laibali December 29, 2020 3:53 pm

    I like this intellectual comment soo much . It should be posted on every manhwa so that ppl would just learn to chill.

    hxhism December 29, 2020 4:30 pm
    People can complain but calling it grooming when its not is just stupid. If you dont like something stop reading and move on.. I know you people will continue to read and whine until the end. xicey

    “people can complain but” yeah you lost me there already. the fact you even commented this just means you still don’t get it.

    btw, if you don’t like seeing those comments criticizing the manhwa, then it’d be much easier scrolling past it and ignoring it rather than wasting your energy to reply. we all have diff moral standards based on our experiences so yeah... people can’t really help it if they view this as grooming.

    hxhism December 29, 2020 4:39 pm
    I like this intellectual comment soo much . It should be posted on every manhwa so that ppl would just learn to chill. Laibali

    yeah i think i’ve seen a comment here saying smth along the lines of “don’t attack me for this” when it comes to them saying how this has themes of grooming... and it’s just insane how they have to sugarcoat their words bc ppl go rabid/wild at defending the manhwa and trying to justify it. like... c’mon just let them complain. you don’t have to convince everyone here that this isn’t abt grooming. just chill out

    xicey December 29, 2020 5:57 pm
    “people can complain but” yeah you lost me there already. the fact you even commented this just means you still don’t get it. btw, if you don’t like seeing those comments criticizing the manhwa, then it... hxhism

    Ill tell anyone who thinks this is grooming to be quiet and move on because its not grooming.

    Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.

    Shes not doing that either learn what it is or be quiet.

    Laibali December 29, 2020 9:26 pm
    Ill tell anyone who thinks this is grooming to be quiet and move on because its not grooming.Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they c... xicey

    Um is it just me or the word grooming suddenly have various new meanings out of nowhere. Em hella confused

    xicey December 29, 2020 9:27 pm
    Um is it just me or the word grooming suddenly have various new meanings out of nowhere. Em hella confused Laibali

    Also he goes after she was never ever interested in him until then yet its grooming? People got no sense.

    hxhism December 30, 2020 12:15 am
    Ill tell anyone who thinks this is grooming to be quiet and move on because its not grooming.Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they c... xicey

    you can’t stop anyone from commenting abt how this is grooming. no amount of you telling them to be quiet will make them quiet. people will complain and you can’t control those comments lol. but, if you wanna tire yourself out defending the manhwa and justifying it from your perspective, then be my guest. it’s not like anyone will listen anyway.

    honestly, if people are weirded out by it and see it as grooming, stop silencing them and just let them discuss. you’re the weird one here, fighting so hard for the manhwa, to the extent of calling people “stupid” bc they see it as grooming. what’s even the big deal abt seeing ppl criticizing the manhwa

    xicey December 30, 2020 2:14 am
    you can’t stop anyone from commenting abt how this is grooming. no amount of you telling them to be quiet will make them quiet. people will complain and you can’t control those comments lol. but, if you wan... hxhism

    I can tell people they are wrong and stupid when they claim something its not.

    He goes after her and shes the one grooming him?

    hxhism December 30, 2020 2:30 am
    I can tell people they are wrong and stupid when they claim something its not.He goes after her and shes the one grooming him? xicey

    well, to you, it isn’t but to them, it is. in the end, it all boils down to how ppl process the topic and interpret this manhwa. i have a feeling it has to do more with them meeting each other when she was an adult and he was a child in a situation wherein she had to raise him, be his guardian, and watch him grow from a kid to an adult only for them to end up together in the end, that’s making ppl feel uneasy abt the manhwa.

    sure, the exact term may not be grooming but NO ONE likes seeing a child developing romantic feelings for an adult... and it’s already pretty much confirmed he’s gonna be the ml (which means the fl will also fall in love with him) just from the cover alone so it’s normal for ppl to react negatively to it.

    it’s actually good that ppl are raising this topic and questioning the morality of this manhwa, rather than have ppl brush it off and ignore it. i’d be more weirded out at the ppl who are accepting of this topic at first glance and don’t see anything wrong with the way the story is going.

    xicey December 30, 2020 2:42 am
    well, to you, it isn’t but to them, it is. in the end, it all boils down to how ppl process the topic and interpret this manhwa. i have a feeling it has to do more with them meeting each other when she was an... hxhism

    Im not arguing its 100% moral to do this or thats its correct either just arguing against people claiming something its not.

    People read much darker stories then this.

    hxhism December 30, 2020 3:09 am
    Im not arguing its 100% moral to do this or thats its correct either just arguing against people claiming something its not. People read much darker stories then this. xicey

    well, you’re the one going around and telling ppl to “learn abt it or be quiet and move on/ if you don’t like it then stop reading” which really only leaves a bad impression.

    and nah it’s not really a matter of comparison. even if there are darker stories than this one, people can still call out and point out aspects that they view as weird or wrong.