How do I know my sexuality? Sometimes I feel like I am bi, sometimes full-on straight. I a...

Rimrim~ January 25, 2021 8:02 pm

How do I know my sexuality? Sometimes I feel like I am bi, sometimes full-on straight. I am attracted to some girls and some guys but then I think I am straight but I am probably not but then I think...fkajfklsdjfl;sdkfojes wtf is wrong with me? help me?

Responses
    ceaxy January 25, 2021 8:02 pm

    There's nothing wrong, sexuality is a spectrum. Maybe you just lean more towards opposite gender, but that doesn't make you any less bi. It doesn't matter how you define yourself as long as you can figure out who you like, women, men, enbys or anything in between.

    Rimrim~ January 25, 2021 8:10 pm
    There's nothing wrong, sexuality is a spectrum. Maybe you just lean more towards opposite gender, but that doesn't make you any less bi. It doesn't matter how you define yourself as long as you can figure out w... ceaxy

    omg tysm! you just made me feel so much better!!!

    Akali January 25, 2021 8:16 pm
    There's nothing wrong, sexuality is a spectrum. Maybe you just lean more towards opposite gender, but that doesn't make you any less bi. It doesn't matter how you define yourself as long as you can figure out w... ceaxy

    hey,... uhm i don’t want to bother you but i kinda have the same problem. i’ve liked a girl in the past and also a guy. im scared that this will be revealed so i push myself to like guys so i don’t get disowned by my parents. i’m really, really scared about this situation... it’s not like im lying to myself that i like men. i just don’t know anymore.. i don’t know anything anymore.

    YaoiHands January 25, 2021 8:24 pm

    I had felt similar confusion growing up, to the point where I buried it deep until I was forced to see it again years later. Your sexuality can differ because it’s a feeling. Also take into consideration that sex and romance are not always on the same hand. Even though I read smut, I am not a sexual person. It is not something I seek or crave for myself. But romantically I can love anyone, without concern of their genitalia, but them as a person (which is why I find it hard to admit when I ‘like-like’ someone). If you’ve like a girl before, then so be it. If you happen to like a man, than so be it. There is no straight path, just go with what you are comfortable with or are interested in. I know that having a term to relate to can help mentally, so go with one and if it changes then so be it.

    chanwoo's hat January 25, 2021 8:29 pm
    hey,... uhm i don’t want to bother you but i kinda have the same problem. i’ve liked a girl in the past and also a guy. im scared that this will be revealed so i push myself to like guys so i don’t get di... Akali

    love is love if u love someone it dosent matter of their gender you love them no one can stop that you dont need to be ashamed or angry you just need to love them. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

    Rimrim~ January 25, 2021 8:32 pm
    I had felt similar confusion growing up, to the point where I buried it deep until I was forced to see it again years later. Your sexuality can differ because it’s a feeling. Also take into consideration that... YaoiHands

    thank you so much for your words. <3

    chanwoo's hat January 25, 2021 8:35 pm
    hey,... uhm i don’t want to bother you but i kinda have the same problem. i’ve liked a girl in the past and also a guy. im scared that this will be revealed so i push myself to like guys so i don’t get di... Akali

    also dw about telling ur parents if you love someone its not ur fault, love is normal, ur parents cant erase that aspect from you (btw this is just what my oppinion on life is)

    mio January 26, 2021 5:18 am
    also dw about telling ur parents if you love someone its not ur fault, love is normal, ur parents cant erase that aspect from you (btw this is just what my oppinion on life is) chanwoo's hat

    thank you for your time :) this made me happy. i hope that ill be able to be myself again in the future.