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f this gave me chills bro

Ok thk for you opinion Wdk for the future... but actually heasoo never been himself with taku, I don’t thinks it’s unfair, it’s juste a question
don't take it the wrong way, my english is not really good so my sentences don't really express what i mean but anyway

I agree the haesoo now just see taku as a replacement as he tyring to force his feeling to move on from joowon. Some of possible plot for haesoo to finally able to fully see taku as an individual / his lover is that both side of joowon and haesoo finally talk about their problem and find finality in that conversation since in the case now is that both haesoo and joowon keep lying to each other about their feeling while avoiding each other which leave some sort of lingering unfinished story between them thus haesoo unable to fully see taku as taku himself

PERIOD

To those who don’t want to forgive Akihiko, that’s valid. That part of the story really fucked with me, Haruki was so hurt and still helped Aki out even when he deserved to be thrown out in the street. Aki is in the process of change and I think even though Haru and him are together (now), there’s a long ass way for him to go to even be fully redeemed (in my opinion). I think that in the midst of Haru and Aki getting together many people wanted to forget what Aki did, even though it’s a manga it’s foolish and irresponsible to ignore horrific acts like sexual assault and r*pe, since these very things can happen to anyone.

It’s true lol, I think I’ve read way too many bls that things like rape or sexual assault has just become normalized for me and that’s so fucked up lol. Anyway, I just want my baby Haruki to be happy. The scene when he cut his hair like omg. My heart. I was legit screaming to my friend without spoiling it to her cause she’s only watched the anime so far lol(which is ironic. Cause I’ve only read the manga since I don’t watch bl but only read yet for some reason lol) XD

I wouldn't forgive him, that's for sure. His feeling of inferiority and not being a genius are the reasons his relationship with ugetsu didn't work out. These are the same feelings that hurt Haruki. No matter how much he changes or becomes a good person, it will never erase what he do to ugetsu and haruki .
kaji is really a person who I really like but who behaves badly. but his actions are unforgivable trying to rape someone is not an option for forgiveness. haruki was to kind at this moment ... he don’t deserved it

Exactly ! They normalized rape because they like them that so weird. Kaji is not a bad person, he just don’t know how to act but like a say it above... his action are unforgivable even if he become a better person. I think haruki and ugetsu deserved better

I want to know people who « dislike » you think raping someone is normal?

I get your point and your opinion but basically, it would not be considered rape yet, just sexual assault or attempt coz Haruki opened his mouth for Aki too and there's not much resistance. He just wanted to stop Aki coz he seems broken and angry and maybe he doesn't want to let him do it out of impulses. I'm not saying that what Aki did was right because at that moment he acted on impulse and took advantage of Haruki's love for him and that's what is completely wrong and you were right that it's sensitive for someone who experienced being abused and raped but we cannot judge people according to their sin especially that Aki tried his best to change to be A BETTER MAN WORTHY OF HARUKI and that melted his anger (Love can make you a fool, you know) . Well, I don't think Haru will decline Aki if it had happened when Aki's in the right mind tho. Anyway, what I want to say is let's just be open minded about EACH of their feelings because everything they did has it's deep reasons. One wanted to be saved and one wanted to do the saving. I don't really approve of Aki for attempting to take advantage if Haruki's love but I can't blame him either. Desperation got him. In the same way, Haruki is too soft on Aki that he forgave him easily but I can't also blame him coz he understood and wanted to understand Aki coz he loves him.

I get your point and your opinion but basically, it would not be considered rape yet, just sexual assault or attempt coz Haruki opened his mouth for Aki too and there's not much resistance. He just wanted to stop Aki coz he seems broken and angry and maybe he doesn't want to let him do it out of impulses. I'm not saying that what Aki did was right because at that moment he acted on impulse and took advantage of Haruki's love for him and that's what is completely wrong and you were right that it's sensitive for someone who experienced being abused and raped but we cannot judge people according to their sin especially that Aki tried his best to change to be A BETTER MAN WORTHY OF HARUKI and that melted his anger (Love can make you a fool, you know) . Well, I don't think Haru will decline Aki if it had happened when Aki's in the right mind tho. Anyway, what I want to say is let's just be open minded about EACH of their feelings because everything they did has it's deep reasons. One wanted to be saved and one wanted to do the saving. I don't really approve of Aki for attempting to take advantage if Haruki's love but I can't blame him either. Desperation got him. In the same way, Haruki is too soft on Aki that he forgave him easily but I can't also blame him coz he understood and wanted to understand Aki coz he loves him.

I respect you opinion. But I can’t be agree, maybe it’s not considering like « rape » but for me it’s the same. Yes Akihiko change he become person.. but it didn’t matter to me. And yes haru forgave him to easily. we can't put everything on the name of love .. even in the name of love there are unforgivable things, I know their love each other but I’m kinda uncomfortable with « everything » but that just my opinion akihiko abused haruki feeling since 2 years
no matter how desperate akihiko is, sexual abuse should not be accepted .. no matter how much pain he is, he acted like a fool

Yeah. I get your point too. After all, we all have our own way of thinking about things as long as we don't insist on others to side on us or believe what we also believe in, it's fine. True that. I hate it when Aki did that too but maybe I'm just too soft like Haruki to forgive him as long as there are changes and efforts

Okay no lie this has to be the healthiest discourse I’ve seen yet. Although we may not all agree with each other completely we at least understand where we’re all coming from so that’s a real treat.

no problem, it's your opinion and I respect it even if I don't agree with everything. Exactly I have seen too many people who imposed their way of thinking on me. thank you for respecting my opinion

Right ! having different opinions is super interesting as long as we all respect each other, me too, people are so aggressive here

It's coz we see no reason to fight over anything since we all love them( the characters) and still wanted to support them no matter what

Don't bother yourself with them. It's your mind so it's your choice who you want to like or not. Same here. Thank you for understanding my opinion too

Thanks you

spill the tea luv (▰˘◡˘▰)

they did matter to each other but let's be honest they're toxic to each other. being free from a toxic relationship is like starting a new and better life and Akihiko is doing that. He's making his life better and he's making himself grow with Haruki and I think that's beautiful

The thing is that we saw that even before ending it they both realised their relationship was dead, they just couldn't let go of eachother. Officially breaking up was just the final step. Their couple was dead way before that, even if there was still lingering feelings and love.

No matter how much you lovED someone when you finally put a stop and get out of this toxic relationship you feel relieved, how long did they drag this pain and sadness for ? Weeks, months, years ?
I'm glad Aki could finally turn the page.

Im pretty sure its bc he finally came out bc i have a feeling the author will make huan wen and yuan be together lol idk tho

Thank :) I hope they can be together at the end

Yep completely agree :))

Although it might seem like he’s just a sad boy now, you can see in the last scene we ever see of him so far that he turns back, in tears cause he doesn’t want to leave akihito despite their toxic relationship. However, he remembers mafuyu’s song about basically moving on and that resolves him to move on from this relationship. That’s a major part in breaking up, you can linger on the broken relationship like they did for years, or you can learn to love the happy moments and treasure the sad moments and move on to a new chapter of your life. You can also see that he’s making big strides in his music career as you can see his picture and name up on a building or something in the background.

I love Haruki and he just emits mom energy tbh and I just want him to be happy lol XD

Anyway, I think it was for the better that they broke it off because they were both suffering. They can move on and find a new love. Trying to repair a relationship that’s already shattered in pieces is almost impossible and only wears the people out, it takes time and patience and even one mistake will just get you back at square one.

I don’t know why I’m talking about this when I’ve never even been in a relationship. I’ve just read too much shoujo manga lol XD

yes you are right but it hurts to see him like that ... he takes all the responsibility ... and i don't think he deserved that ... ugetsu was never able to express his true feeling to kaji and when kaji leaves he tries but he can't ... kaji will never Know what ugetsu felt, he even thinks he never likes him ...
I want Haruki to be happy but not with someone who tried to rape him.
I think it all started when Kaji felt inferior to him. they are both responsible. they should have talked to each other more
I don't know why i am so attached to him though i think i really understand him ... like he said he tries his best to push kaji away from himself because he loves him too much to do it alonel
the part where he said" i want to be with him but im in love with music still never more than that" breaks my heart, I think music is everything for him because it's the only thing that he will never let him down as he says he has no friends, he has no one, I hope we will see him again, I'm glad I saw him on the building for his career but I just think he drowns in music to forget everything
same, i' never be in a relationship so i don't know why i feel so sad and worried
(Sorry my English is not good ) ...