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tbf, Jungwon doesn't really tell him anything either. He doesn't tell Hyesung why he doesn't want him to model for him and he doesn't tell Hyesung what his current relationship with his ex is (he just told him that "its a misunderstanding") But since Hyesung heard their convo and saw their weird position he already knows their background and that is this skinny bitch is Jungwon's ex and he's modelling for him. Im not condoning Hyesung's actions of forcing Jungwon to bed but Hyesung did tell Jungwon that he was angry and he needs time to think, then Jungwon kissed him and so sprouted the "ah, he only wants me for sex" thoughts :// super fucked up and I hope it doesn't actually go that way (low chance tho)

Also, theres lots if bl tops that get hate lmao, this and that is different because, up to now, we've only seen Hyesung be the sweetest to Jungwon, and the diet thing might not be Jungwon's fault directly but if he just communicated why he doesn't want Hyesung to model then maybe he would've stopped dieting earlier.

Sure. But its just came into one conclusion - they're both at fault. Not only jungwon's.
And like:
"U don't like my body"
"That's not tru--"
And then he shut up him and ripped off his clothes so like, lol
They don't know their insecurities.
The fact that one made mistake doesn't excuse next person's actions, by saying that I mean one did something bad and didn't have enough time to explain and other get angry, ran off, said hurtful things and threatened coz of kiss.

I'm defending jungwon coz no one seems to notice anything other that "he bad".
It's just "he cotton candy and he trash", which isn't true.
Ik he DID things wrong. But there's more to it which I said in my comments

we know that Hyesung did some stuff too but the thing is its kinda like "the straw that broke the camels back" ? up till now Hyesung's been nothing but the absolute best boyfriend to Jungwon, doing everything to please Jungwon. You can argue that its what Hyesung wanted to do but the thing is, we haven't seen Jungwon put the same effort into pleasing Hyesung and it seems like Jungwon has brought more worries to Hyesung more than emotional reassurance. Not to mention, the people around Jungwon has been constantly mean ?? and kinda shady about their relationship. so of course more people will side with Hyesung, the one thats been constantly disrespected in the manhwa. Also who wouldn't get angry if u see ur boyfriend with their ex, and that ex is skinny (their type), AND made said ex their model even though u already offered to model for them. Not to mention everyone is constantly doubting your relationship with them AND they only come around for sex. Defend Jungwon if u want but just be ready for people to defend Hyesung back

But he does things for him. Even the chapter where he wanted to exercise with hyesung, took him to fashion event, is open with their relationship to basically everyone. He's doing good. He's not without fault, as I say all the time, nor doesnt hyesung. Bcoz how does jungwon supposed to know what he's doing wrong, if he's not willing to tell?
Well, he only took specific models for his work, they have to be thin and more. But at the same moment be declined hyesung offer to became his model coz he didn't want him to loose weight and change his body just for his project. I would say it's a good thing. He didn't need telling him all that coz he don't know abt his insecurities and thoughts.
Jungwon LOVES hyesung body. His job is different thing. It is wrong to agree with his ex to model, but hey, I'm not saying it's a good thing.
I'm looking at the big picture, I don't think their relationship is unhealthy. Lack of communication, sure, unspoken truths and other but - it's not a bad thing.
Hyesung is mad at stories he only heard, rumors. He never bring this up, just keeping it to himself.
Jungwon is honest. He doesnt lie, never did. first he straight up told he's only attracted to his body, and after this he fell in love and admitted it. He got mad, I get it. And later he ignored jungwon, not willing to listen.
They're both wrong in this, that's all.
All they need now is cacao, blanket and talk, basically.

And as I said before, in talking mostly of jungwon coz no one does. And that's rlly unfair, coz he's not full at fault ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Others re defending hyesung, I'm on the opposite side

Yes but it is true that the black haired guy only really comes around for sex. That’s all he really cares about and he even asked blondie to diet to be his model. Rumours are just rumours but sometimes they ring with truths and it’s best to err on the side of caution especially since the black haired guy has literally only ever given him reason to doubt him. Communication is an issue but there’s a huge fundamental lack of trust. Black haired guy thinks he’s the best thing since sliced bread and doesn’t understand that he can’t treat people however he pleases and still expect them to stay around him happily. Also blondie was meant to be the model so seeing black haired guy in a compromising position with an ex (lifting up his shirt and leaning over a desk is absolutely unnecessary for dress sizing) just doesn’t seem justifiable. He set up a reasonable boundary, “I need time to think” and instead, black haired guy decided to use his affection for him to force a kiss on him and use sex to get out of this issue like he ALWAYS DOES. It’s not just both of their communication issues. I’m not excusing hyesungs behaviour because no matter what, you shouldn’t assault your partner but jungwon caused this situation and even instigated it. He’s the problem. It doesn’t matter that it’s his first time in a romantic relationship, you don’t treat your partner as a sex friend when it’s convenient and a burden when it’s not. You shouldn’t even treat a sex friend how he treated hyesung. I honestly do hope they break up and jungwon gets some major therapy. He has no social skills and all he does is create these situations.

Ate

This this and this. You expressed what i wanted to said bc both of them are wrong in the last situation but Black hair has treated Blondie so bad, that it's more like sex buddies instead of a relationship. They do more sex than going out on a date. You ate

He didn't want blonde to go on a diet. On the contrary, like, he was talking him out of it. Also he's trying. He's not a bad person, either lover. They're both new in relationships (romantically), so they make mistakes. Plus, he is designer, so it's his job to measure model's body. Nothing wrong with it.
Bcoz, even blonde didn't really do anything for him. He's nice and sweet, but that's it. He's insecure, k, but how is dark haired guy supposed to know this? They didn't talk abt this.
It's normal not wanting to mix personal life with job, so he didn't rlly had to accept blondie as his model.

Not only sex. He's learning chapter from chapter, like he hates exercises but did go to humor blonde.

He didn't want sex. It's blonde who told him it, like "sex or get out", which is nothing more that manipulation.

I often see how when top is sex's obsessed it's cool and hot, however when the bottom is hyped up for it, he's hoe.

They're both wrong, can't change my mind lol

i just wanted to say that i think the way the guy was taking measurements is totally inappropriate for just a designer and model.

usually to take measurements, the model is stood upright with good posture to make sure the body isnt contorted in some unnatural way that might make the fitting a hard experience, and because when showing off clothing, its usually standing up and walking down a runway, no?

now i know that the designer dude usually had his ex bfs as his models, and i guess you can say that he might be used to measuring like that, but like c’mon, that’s not the best way to measure someone and shouldnt you be like… be more professional and careful with your movements with someone who you havent seen in years? the model doesnt need to be leaning back and the designer doesnt need to be leaning over him like that thats not right

holy yappatron sowwie
tl;dr
who tf measures basically a stranger like that its weird and unprofessional make that mf stand upright

I gett ittt but its just one small scene, I wouldn't rlly think abt it

i totally get you but i feel like the authors are using that scene to cause miscommunication to make it more interesting :/, im still gonna drop this shit story

its not doing jock x emo justice

I can't. I'm a devil's advocate (justice for bottoms)


Have a good day bestie, wish U the best

the diet part was somewhat Hyesung's own choice, but aside from that you ate with this comment!!!! very well said!

exactlyyy

This is just surface. One's mistake doesn't explain second's actions after. The thing is, jungwon did smth wrong, and then hyesung did smth wrong. He could listen. He didn't, and after a kiss throw his bf on bed and threatened him.
They're both at fault.
We see both pov, characters don't. So, we know hyesung is insecure abt his body and rumors of jungwon past.
But, jungwon doesn't know shit, he's just guessing and trying his best.

I'm defending him coz no one seems to notice anything under first layer.
Ik he made a mistake. So hyesung

Amen~

If you haven’t read the first story, the MC tends to love rough sex. He also REALLY loves it when Kang gets territorial over him. So no need to worry :). Also, if you’re still not liking this; read the raw next chapters on newtoki!! :D

I'm mad coz I read it. Ofc the story will have happy end, but still. It's not ok tho

You’re not going to win in this comment section ovet. People are “dickmatized” by Mr. Kang but realistically you are right to some extent this is not a healthy way to resolve their unresolved tension. But eh it’s suppose to be segue to the sexy times so….

I agree that Kang being this mad is pretty overkill but I can see why he's upset (ofc there's also his insecurity issue but even then). I understand Yiyoung is trying to be thoughtful and careful of what he says, but as a result, he hasn't really given a proper explanation and gives off the impression that he's trying to keep something a secret/ is being dishonest (Like "why lie in the first place" or "why can't you just say it straight up instead of thinking so long of what you have to say" vibes). We as readers get his inner dialogue but if this conversation happened in real time, then I can see it being frustrating for Kang. It's like all Kang is asking is for Yiyoung to be open and honest, which Yiyoung isn't doing (cuz he's overthinking and trying to be thoughtful ^^;)

Yeah, I can see Ur point. However, I still think he didn't do anything wrong. It's like, yea he didn't give Kang proper explanation, but he's overreacting. Very, very overreacting. Aggression isn't answer to blabbering, and that's what mc is doing

Ikkkkk but I had big hopes for this story. Rn I'm sooo disappointed, they had silly and healthy relationship.. but, in reality, today Kang' behaviour is enough to destroy everything they build together. Especially after he said that thing abt future. He's just aggressive asshole at this point..

It's better like this no?

Totally, I'm super excited for it