Haaaaaaa... I have no problems with how they got together and I like that they're finally on the same page re their feelings and are communicating more effectively. They would have a healthy dynamic if only for one thing: this children issue is one they're not talking seriously about, and it will eventually blow up in their faces. I honestly wish they don't have children (because I'm childfree and would like some representation lmao) but I feel it's more likely Takuya will cave in.
IRL, this is something people definitely should discuss before marriage-- most relationships cannot be salvaged since this is a fundamental component. I've had a long term relationship break apart because my partner apparently wanted kids after years of saying he didn't want them. He was hoping that I'd change my mind as I grew older and would want kids of my own. Resentment from both sides grew as how can you compromise in such a situation? You cannot havea part time child/half a child.
Also, Takuya's arc with his mom really hit home for me. Some people should not be parents-- they have no parental bone in their bodies. Again, from personal experience, just because someone is your mother doesn't mean that they love you.
same here, i want stories to let their characters NOT have or get children and let it just be them living their lives together with maybe some pets or just hanging up birdfeeders and that's it. No need to include a child/children to make them a "family".
IDk if you've read it,but chapter 75-76 of Love Is An Illusion, there's been an uproar of people wanting the 2nd couple of Heesoo and Dojun (a beta and alpha pair respectively) to have, or more specifically conceive , a child of their own that'll look like them. It's been really frustrating me because it makes me feel as if they're all invalidating their relationship, that it only matters if they have a baby of their own, or worse are the ones who believe/wish for Heesoo, the beta, to develop the ability to get pregnant or for his dynamic to change to an omega and /then/ get pregnant. To me, because I associate or draw parallels to real life homosexual couples or to heterosexual couples who for whatever reason, aren't able to conceive to begin with or hold to term. For these, if they wish to raise a child, their only options are either fostering, adopting, surrogate, or to become a legal guardian due to emergency/extreme circumstances/death of the parents and the child goes to their last living relative who'll accept them. Etc. etc. Basically I wish people would stop screaming for the couple to have a kid and just let them be as they are, to continue building their relationship stronger between the two of them and have meaningful interactions and relationships with the family and friends they already have.
same here, i want stories to let their characters NOT have or get children and let it just be them living their lives together with maybe some pets or just hanging up birdfeeders and that's it. No need to incl... Fetish Love
Fucking amen. I actually replied to comment on Love is an Illusion a while ago to try and curb people's expectations. Whilst there is precedent of a beta conceiving (Kashikomarimashita, Destiny), the author in that one established that all humans could get pregnant and so it was always on the table. But the point is, it shouldn't even matter in the first place since Heesoo and Dojun's development goes out the window if Heesoo gets pregnant. They struggled so much because of their "incompatible" sex, so making Heesoo an omega just invalidates all that. And again, as you said, there are many ways to have a child without the use of Omegaverse rules anyway, which is just as valid-- if down the line they want to have children, there's always a way. Just, it doesn't always have to be the end all, and that's so frustrating.
Just your typical netorare porn without plot. Don't read this if you don't like rape and cheating, please. I'm interested to see if Maniwa will actually get to put it in her, or if Takano will get to 'rescue' her.
Whilst it would have been nice to see Masaki a bit more emotional, that would have just been out of character since he's a kuudere type. And anyway, his actions speak louder than words-- the love is very obvious though he might say something contrary.
Relationship full of love and trust. It’s fucking scary to fully confide in another person, especially when it’s about something extremely taboo; Itsuki is an angel though, and Airi can now finally move on and live his life without guilt/shame.
Haaaaaaa... I have no problems with how they got together and I like that they're finally on the same page re their feelings and are communicating more effectively. They would have a healthy dynamic if only for one thing: this children issue is one they're not talking seriously about, and it will eventually blow up in their faces. I honestly wish they don't have children (because I'm childfree and would like some representation lmao) but I feel it's more likely Takuya will cave in.
IRL, this is something people definitely should discuss before marriage-- most relationships cannot be salvaged since this is a fundamental component. I've had a long term relationship break apart because my partner apparently wanted kids after years of saying he didn't want them. He was hoping that I'd change my mind as I grew older and would want kids of my own. Resentment from both sides grew as how can you compromise in such a situation? You cannot havea part time child/half a child.
Also, Takuya's arc with his mom really hit home for me. Some people should not be parents-- they have no parental bone in their bodies. Again, from personal experience, just because someone is your mother doesn't mean that they love you.
same here, i want stories to let their characters NOT have or get children and let it just be them living their lives together with maybe some pets or just hanging up birdfeeders and that's it. No need to include a child/children to make them a "family".
IDk if you've read it,but chapter 75-76 of Love Is An Illusion, there's been an uproar of people wanting the 2nd couple of Heesoo and Dojun (a beta and alpha pair respectively) to have, or more specifically conceive , a child of their own that'll look like them.
It's been really frustrating me because it makes me feel as if they're all invalidating their relationship, that it only matters if they have a baby of their own, or worse are the ones who believe/wish for Heesoo, the beta, to develop the ability to get pregnant or for his dynamic to change to an omega and /then/ get pregnant.
To me, because I associate or draw parallels to real life homosexual couples or to heterosexual couples who for whatever reason, aren't able to conceive to begin with or hold to term. For these, if they wish to raise a child, their only options are either fostering, adopting, surrogate, or to become a legal guardian due to emergency/extreme circumstances/death of the parents and the child goes to their last living relative who'll accept them. Etc. etc.
Basically I wish people would stop screaming for the couple to have a kid and just let them be as they are, to continue building their relationship stronger between the two of them and have meaningful interactions and relationships with the family and friends they already have.
Fucking amen. I actually replied to comment on Love is an Illusion a while ago to try and curb people's expectations. Whilst there is precedent of a beta conceiving (Kashikomarimashita, Destiny), the author in that one established that all humans could get pregnant and so it was always on the table. But the point is, it shouldn't even matter in the first place since Heesoo and Dojun's development goes out the window if Heesoo gets pregnant. They struggled so much because of their "incompatible" sex, so making Heesoo an omega just invalidates all that. And again, as you said, there are many ways to have a child without the use of Omegaverse rules anyway, which is just as valid-- if down the line they want to have children, there's always a way. Just, it doesn't always have to be the end all, and that's so frustrating.