
as much as i like Toma and BL with babies.. this is not how you handle a kid who's throwing a tantrums, you're just feeding his spoiled mind and making it rotten..i hate this part of them .. if this is a kid i know, god imma smack that spoiledness outta him lol

well u could try talking to them but not all kids are good at listening, i have a kid too believe me when I say that, not all kids are the same. it's ok hit them but not much force of course. just to let them know that u have the authority to stop them whatever it is they're getting at. but after that i tell em the reason why i did that to them. so they could understand what they did was wrong

i have a kid too but the word "No" is well established in their minds.. they can get and do things they want as long as it is appropriate for them, BUT there is a time and place for everything .. i dont smack them, but they know when i am being firm with my No and Yes .. i don't cry like joon or like go "oh my heart aches if i don't bring them along" .. coz like i said i taught them early as soon as they learned how to walk, so they wont become nuisance to society even when they are young..

Hello? I’m not saying being abusive is okay and i’m not saying gentle parenting is for everyone. It depends on ur kids surrounding upbringing and ur teachings, being firm is the way for me and my surroundings. From where i live, if u spoil ur kids they’ll never learn how to respect and if smacking them will teach them respect, then why not? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

well for me if talking calmly won't do & still won't listen, that's the time i do spanking part, not to much that is. just to tell them who should listen to who, i also listen to they're reasons why they want that or why they did that, so that we could understand each other, me as a mother & them as my child.

so im just gonna ask........ i forgot their names but, if their souls are connected and whatever happens with one of them will also happen to the other or he will feel what the other feels .. hear me out .. so when the top is entering the bottom, he can feel it within his ahem.. butt too? .. this is a genuine question i need answers
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