For clarification, if you already didn't know. That green haired guy aint her brother. I think he is in fact, her cousin. Cause he calls her mom auntie. This is something that bothers me with some trans is that they dont clarify this enough. From my very, very, very basic knowledge of mandarin, I think she calls him 哥哥 (gēgē) which is kind of like something you call a closer older male, could be your brother, relative or just someone really close.
Excuse me? For one why won't she admit it? Is it her pride? Her dignity? She's literally the one being dumped here. No one's gonna fucking blame you if you were the one who got cheated and dumped. Also, why do the coworkers care so much? Ya'll aren't friends and you ain't got no business in her life. They seriously need a hobby if they think bullying her just because she wont disclose info about her fiancé is fine.
I’ve seen a few of Asian dramas where the girl that got cheated on/dumped was accused of being at fault instead of the boyfriend. Like “if she was good enough/stayed in her place maybe he wouldn’t have done that” type of bullcrap and people would endlessly gossip, twisting the truth. This is prob why she’s so hesitant
Dude that shit can be common in a work place. I try to avoid my coworkers during breaks because that when they love to gossip. Smile to your face and then speak behind your back. Some can be very vindictive where if they hear something bad they will snitch to try to get you in problems weather it with other coworkers or even a higher up, anything to put you down and make them stand taller. Sad part is getting out is not so easy because job hunting is a BITCH of a mess in it's self. It's worst in asian countries from what I've been told because your reputation or "Image" can mean everything in your carrier. Yes it's fucked up and I hope it changes.
Yes, also if a girl got raped, they will accused of intentionally wear sexy so that fucking raper will rape them. Everything they will blame on women/girl. For mistress/third wheels and the wife, they also got blamed and cursed and hate while the fucking cheating man doesn't affected by anything. Just keep quiet and the wife will back to him.
OH MY MOTHERFUCKING GOD. Does he not realise at all that maybe, just maybe he has some fault in this??? Like he didn't doubt himself??? WELL HELLO MISTER BECAUSE I'M HERE TO LIST EVERY SINGLE FUCKING THING HE DID WRONG.
1. He is too attached to her like bro??? YOU have a fucking GIRLFRIEND and YOU'RE blaming ml for mc not TALKING to you at all. Well maybe, if you didn't make you're gf and Dohee uncomfortable and insecure (I'm gonna come back to that), you'd all be on good terms with each other. It's not weird, two of my bestfriends are dating and the guy is my childhood friend but we're on good terms.
2. He keeps making his gf insecure. Like bro, it's not a bad thing to have friends of the opposite gender, but for fuck's sake that's not the point. The point is that he keeps on ignoring his gf and start to go to Dohee. LIKE MF, IF YOURE NOT GONNA PAY ATTENTION TO HER, MAYBE NOT MAKE HER YOURE GIRLFRIEND??? It's not only weird but it makes both Dohee and the gf be in a bad spot, the gf feeling like she's not good enough and dohee feeling like she's stealing this poor girl's mans. SERIOUSLY, leading a person's feelings is not good, it will only result to toxicity, jealousy and messing with the other person's mental and emotional state. If you don't love someone, reject them, even if it results to bad blood. It will be good for you, and for her and for everyone.
3. He subconsciously manipulates Dohee. The fact that he calls Dohee "not cute" or "unladylike". Of course takes a toll on her self esteem. Like just hearing that from someone, let alone someone you like? It's gonna hurt.
4. He also has a weird feeling of entitlement towards Dohee, JUST because they were childhood friends. Like bro, who she hangs out, dates and wherever she goes, IS NOT YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS. YOU'RE NOT EVEN HER FAMILY. He's SO entitled that he even feels the need to scold someone just because they're living their life? Like WTF??? In general this is a message to everyone out there. You are NOT entitled to someone's life, be it you're child or significant other. Although, it's not bad to be concerned for one's well being, it's a little much to go as far as trying to control what they do.
5. He's so fuckin TOXIC it amazes me. Yo bro, do you never stop and look at yourself before you go on blaming others like the ml first? YOU ARE CLEARLY THE PROBLEM HERE.
I am so sorry but I am boiling in rage right now that I might just evaporate. He both has a supperiority complex, an inferiority complex and a victim complex at the same time. I dunno how that happens but I mean he just does. Also I'm sorry for the unnecessary cussing, I am really mad. So yeah I hope ya'll have a good night/day. Babye
FUCK THAT MOTHERFUCKING WILLY WONKA ASS MOTHERFUCKER.









I think miss gurl over here is a little too emotionally obsessed in defeating luxia. She so obsessed that she faulters to actually stop analyze the situation, either that or shes just really dumb. She doesnt know how to adapt through a situation. She always has a strategy, but not a tactic. In this "game" to seduce guys, some may be predictable and simple minded, but obviously thats not always the case. If she truly wants to win she need to learn a tactic, though its not bad to strategize, in this complicated, unpredictable "game" you need to be prepared for the worse and learn to mend these tactics to fit the situation.
Also, I feel as though this "game" of hers is so stupid. Unlike her, this is luxia's job, she needs this to go back. What will this woman achieve by doing this? To be pretty? To be rich? When she becomes old and crippled no ones gonna stay with her because of how shes been. Being a gold digger is definitely one thing, but she isnt even one, she just wants to play with these guys. What if she pisses off someone important and she gets in grave danger? Thats the dumbest possible way she could possibly die. (although it seems like she'll have her demise in the following chaps, itll probably because of something extremely stupid.)
Maybe she's getting revenge? I don't know but I suddenly remembers that she's a loner and getting bullied because she's too "timid" and "ugly" when she's in her highschool days.. sooo (but she suddenly transformed into a scheming and thirsty bitch)