While I understand why she wants to interfere because it is hard to be different, GURL NO ONE ASKS IF YOY SUPPORT THEM OR NOT! Just apologize properly and do not give backhanded shit topic that might spell some angst for the couple and us!!
It's good to see their backstory. But, psyka there may not be a war in the story, but you're inflicting the same horror to other cats who have not experienced it. You're a monster.
I hope all the angst will be left in the past Let them be awkward smart cunning crafty lovers trying to find their place in each other's heart. No pain or fear like that
This is so unserious help