Pls don't make this harem, PLEASSEE
Harem is a form of poly relationship if consent is present. It is just that these days, both parties have side relationships, not just one way kind of deal.
Historically speaking and in fiction, harems refer to one individual having many consorts. Sultans used to have male concubines too so it is not as gendered as one may think. There are anime harems with twinks in them too.(Straight dude with girls and one twink) I've seen reverse harems with a woman in the harem too.
So, just like sultan gets all the women, Iltak gets all the men. That is the logic here.
Either way, I just want Iltak to pick one. It's my preference.
Any relationship is bound to have arguments and their problem is that they haven't cleared up what they mean to each other yet.
Yelling like that is horrible, but I can forgive such a thing if the man is willing to say sorry and beg for forgiveness.
He is not a "red" or "beige" flag, he is a flawed human being that makes mistakes like any of us.
Unlike the others here, I don't care about the age. You are an adult for 2 years already as a 20y old. Problem is the power imbalance. When one is a teacher and the other is a student it is almost like parent and child status difference. It just feels weird. I'll follow it and see but so far I'm bit weirded out :/











I prefer both having no experience but if one person in a relationship has experience, it doesn't mean the other should go ad sleep around to make their bodycount equal. Ew