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That’s what I was thinking then I thought, what if the gun had an actual bullet in it then when he didn’t actually get shot then I thought back on the pill thing.

Haha, this story has all paranoid! But in our defense, we know SOMETHING is coming!

Fr the resemblance is crazy

cuz he's homophobic so he choose to settle for the uke female version lol

"future fujoshi's" thats not a good thing at all bro

Why?

And for the record, I'm not a "bro". I'm A woman. A fujoshi, as a matter of fact. And fucking proud of it.

dont act like fujoshis have a good rep now lmao

Again, what the fuck does that mean. Too much of a coward to say what you actually mean? And seen as how you are here reading porn on an illegal website too, are you really in any position to talk shit or pass judgement on others?

I can explain. ;; Fujonshi, or the translation of 'rotten woman' is meant to be an insult. As it's talking about women who find pleasure within gay man.

Now, it's more so an adjective as for the mesning, it mean 'Someone who likes BL' however, due to many of them. Specially young children, it got to the point of fetishizing gay men.

Basically, when you call yourself a Fujonshi, to many due to bais. You're saying 'I fetishize gay men! And I'm a disgusting person who thinks killing stalking is romantic.' because of bias because the majority, not minority. Are like that.

I really don't think calling people, who were fighting for someone right to be themselves really should be called that. But I haven't read the chapter, so no context. ;; but that is an opinion nonetheless.

~ Urah

It was 'rotten women' in the context of their suitability for partnership. It was coined on 2Chan by mysgynistic men to ridicule women who actively enjoyed m/m romance and dub them unfit for marriage.

Aside from that nothing you said is based on anything but opinion and anecdotes.

??? It's the fact that connotation and prejudice caused these actions. When you think of a certain group of people, you get random thoughts. It's why 'Furry' 'DSMP Stan's and 'Fujonshi' the OP asked, 'What the hell is wrong with it.' I awnsered, as nonbiased as i could be. And I even stated my opinion based on what the PO said. ;;

It doesn't change the fact that a majority of people who call themselves Fujonshi do fetishize men. ;;

~ Urah

If I am willing to call myself a fujoshi, it's because I clearly know the meaning of the word. And just like otaku and nerd were originally insults that people now PROUDLY call themselves, so is fujoshi. And frankly this whole "women are fetishizing gay men" is a load of scrap MEN came up because they are not happy to know what it feels like to be treated the same way women have since the beginning of time. It is about sexual preferences. We enjoy watching two men have sex, what's wrong with that? We have the right to like that just as much as men do. The irony is that in my original comment I was celebrating the fact that two girls were fighting for the right of two men being together. And what did men do? Talk crap about my choices and preferences as a Woman. That makes them hypocrites and bigots. 'I'm a disgusting person"!? How the fuck would you feel if anyone said that about gay people!? That is just down right offensive. Just like it is of you to even say that about another group of people just because of our sexual likes. How dare you and the two other people, who are clearly men, who made the other comments.

Bigot

a person who is obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is prejudiced against or antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group:

Bigot

a person who is obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is prejudiced against or antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group:

Well said, thank you!

The body is AFAB, and I'm non-binary. ;;

Again; if you want to call yourself that. All power towards you, but it doesn't change the fact of what people think when you call yourself that.

Gay men are talking about being fetished is misogynistic now? ;; misogyny and homophobia are two different things and at times go hand in hand. But nonetheless, they're two separate subjects. People are allowed to complain as both genders have their own issues.

There is nothing wrong with enjoying what you want. It's when you fetishize it, it becomes a problem. As it makes it like you don't see gay men as people, but objects. ;;

I read the context, and I said. I felt like calling them Fujonshi isnt appropriate, and when I got the context. I feel like calling them 'Fujonshi' still tactless because they were fighting for human rights. Not enjoying BL, you called them Fujonshi which caused the misunderstanding.

~ Urah

??????? I'm a bigot for pointing out the reason 'Fujonshi' has a bad rep. I'm really to listen to others opinions. But that doesn't change the fact that, A lot of them. Who are young teens, do fetishize the community because they don't understand.

~ Urah

I don't know where you're getting 'majority' from cause there are no researchers passionate about the feild of Fujonomics that I know of so you couldn't possibly have any statistics on this. These connotations are entierly founded on opinions and anecdotes.

Maybe I should phrase it as the fact of the majority I've seen, which has been My apologies, but doesn't change the fact it's not longer a thing that should be praised because it's now changed as a community.


~ Urah

So you are non binary because you don't want to be "labeled" but you are ok with perpetuating the "bad reputation" of another group? Plenty of people don't believe in non binary or they think that homosexuality is wrong. Does that make them right? Is it ok to disrespect that group of people? "well, everyone thinks that" is such an ignorant answer that shows that you can't think for yourself. Fujoshi was given a bad rep by MEN. Just because some people believe that doesn't mean it's true any more than bigots thinking two men loving each other makes it true.

Nobody is asking to be praised for it, just that you stop constructing stigma around a term based on personal experience. People get dog-piled on this site for saying anything in defense of Fujos but we're supposed to believe they're Satans apostles cause some child said she wants to be a yaoi uke(/lh)?

No? I'm non-binary because I generally, don't see myself as a gender. ;; it's a label, and I'm okay with labelling myself as non-binary. Don't act like you know me.

If people respect the group, than that's fine. Religious freedom is something I believe in, as in many religious it is. If you respect them, and treat them normal and don't argue to them. I don't see an issue. I KNOW, people don't believe in non-binary, but as long as they treat me with respect. It's fine

Again, it's because of the bed rep, like right now. Saying Gay men complaing about this group, is misogynistic. That's why people find the group, bad.

;; I hope I make sense.

~ Urah

Fair point, but I think it depends ON the person. I've seen people be serious about saying Fujonshi is something to be praised about. ;;

The issue about the second part is probably because how Uke/Seme is also seen a fetish terms. ;;

~Urah

I don't know how to get you to understand that these are not real problems.

Fetishizing a community... Isn't a problem? What?

~ Urah

Don't act like I know you? But you KNOW fujoshis are bad because we fetishize gay men? Everyone says it, so it must be true? You know don't know me or every fujoshi out there. I am extremely supportive of the LGBT community. I have been called a dike and a faggot for attending pride rallies and protests even though I'm straight. So this whole '"treat them with respect " argument is BS. I DO treat gay men with respect. And yet here is the very community I have fought for disrespecting me just because I call myself a fujoshi. You don't see yourself as gender, therefore you ARE genderless. And you expect people to respect your nouns. I am a fujoshi but I KNOW I don't fetishize gay men. Therefore I expect people not to insult me or spread misinformation or a "bad reputation" about me and my kind. It's that simple.

Bby, you ATE!! The western had fucked up a lot of Japanese words with their mistranslation and adding bullshit to it but I love how you gave them facts. If they just did some accurate research and not follow a whole bandwagon of ppl who are WRONG, they would know why we’re proud to be fujoshis/fudanshis

there's a whole research paper on it, maybe you should rely on Google once in a while

i aint gon get into this argument but pls dont use slurs you cant reclaim since youre straight. censor them or just say d slur and f slur

that's not a good thing ur actually weird asf and Im a woman as well bro

Whatever you say, bigot. I am done arguing with a bunch of children and bigots who can't be reasoned with.

Thanks!

The fact that I have somehow been made out to be the bad guy in a story where I was actually the victim just proves that people on this site are opposed to straight women being into yaoi, period. you completely ignored the fact that I was at a rally to fight for the rights of the LGBTQ community and honed in right into the bad words. Me saying those words had nothing to do with MY beliefs, it was about telling a story accurately.

You still used slurs lol.

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was that a genuine question?? I thought I was pretty blunt seeing as people in that category dont have a lot of good rep. Any obsession with relationships involving the opposite sex isnt good lol. For your information, I haven't actually read this yet, Im interested since its completed and happened to read your comment. And yes, I do believe I have a position to talk as much shit as I would like :)

talk about baby rage.

First off, not a man! Secondly, are you just invalidating the fact that gay men don't wish to be fetishized simply because they're men?? I have no huge problem with people wanting to watch and read LGBTQ stories while being the opposite sex of the couple, whatever. It's when it spills over that I have a discomfort with it. Third, your not disgusting for enjoying a good manhwa with a gay lead couple who maybe happen to have sex every 5 chapters. Just don't let it spill over into the real world and have expectations for genuine gay men.

And with this comment, I don't have any real issue you with you. Fujoshis are (unfortunately) repped with fetishizing men the same way a man who enjoys yuri is. At the end of the day, people like you won't ever really have a good rep, it will always be deemed weird in some way :/

:(

Thank you for saying that. Knowing that at least one person was willing to even TRY to see it from someone else's perspective without letting prejudice and stigma cloud their judgment is nice. But it makes me sad that the LGBTQ community, who themselves are judged and ridiculed by society as a whole for being weird, out of the norm, abnormal (their words, NOT MINE) is so quick to judge others just because they don't understand us. Someone literally said to me that by calling myself a fujoshi, I had announced to everyone that I was "A disgusting person who fetishizes gay men" A disgusting person, really!? Not very understanding of people who have been called that themselves.

And here I thought, Fujoshi is the other part of Fudanshi. Lol.

What's wrong with it now?

Apparently, we are insensitive, anti LGBTQ freaks who "fetishize" and "dehumanize" gay men. The ironic part is, I just read an article that says fujoshis may be the ones who actually created BL/yaoi. Since there really wasn't any BL available back in the day (2000's), women on chat sites, like 2channel, started shipping male characters from existing work and they started writing their own fan fiction, you know, DJ. But they felt guilty that they were forming relationships between characters whose sexuality were not actually specified in the stories. That is why they gave themselves the self deprecating name "fujoshi". Which at th time actually didnt even mean " rotten girl" it meant something else and was later redefined by shocker, straight men, who didnt approve of women reading porn, much less gay porn. So, to solve the problem of the guilt and supply their needs, female authors started writing original works with the male characters actually being romantically involved. That way fujoshis wouldn't have to imagine characters being together and feeling guilty for it. Then BL started gaining tons of popularity and made it's way into main stream. The irony is that clearly, yaoi was written BY women, specifically self proclaimed fujoshis no less, FOR women. So anyone on this site or anywhere who has a problem with fujoshis, needs to either get over it because they have fujoshis to thank for having BL/yaoi at all or they need to stop being hypocrites and stop reading yaoi.

DAMN, STOP EATING THEM UP UGHHHH （/TДT)/

Haha. I'm not even aware of the other meaning of it. And I also saw other people commenting and calling themselves that but I don't see anyone reprimanding them that it's a bad name.

Because they aren't over speaking about gay men and not using slurs.

~ Urah

What's with the long asssss comments here abt fujoshis and fudanshis??! Demn MGG's comment section should really be shut off for good bec of toxic ppl who take their righteousness, morals and serious topics to an illegal site that publishes FICTION.

Fujoshis/fudanshis are just men/women who enjoys READING BL manga/manwha/novels. They are just fanatics of this genre just as like how others are into romance, sci-fi etc. That's just all no more no less. The bad rep comes from just people who dont understand/against people who read this and assumes that just bec they(we) are into this genre we fetishize/dehumanise gay relationships. Obviously, there are some that when they are ignorant or they dont want it, they say something negative abt it. iygwim.

She just made a simple comment then you just make a big fuss abt it.

If you dont want to be coined as "fujoshi" or "fudanshi" then dont be, there's no need to be butt hurt or twisting facts just to make point. But still it wouldnt change what it REALLY MEANS.

This comment !!!

On top*

Again, I'd like to reiterate i thought op was ASKING an actual question. The op, not anyone else in this comment section CALLED A GAY MAN MISOGYNISTIC OVER NOT LIKING THE COMMUNITY FOR FETISHIZING THE PEOPLE. Not to mention the OP used SLURS THEY CANNOT RECLAIM.

The original comment IS NOT THE ISSUE. It's how the op is behavior. Which we called out here.

https://www.mangago.zone/thing/about/686808/

AND HER DEFENDING THE ACTION OF A SLUR AND OVER SPEAKING https://www.mangago.zone/thing/about/686777/

THATS THE PROBLEM. NOT THE WORD.

Marigold.

Agree with you, looking forward to the official translated version and purchase them

Lol yeah that was a lil extreme with the dinners everyday but for the plot I agree!There's some lonely ass bosses out there some of them seem like they don't have friends and don't want the fun of all the coworkers around them to end. the closest I've had to this was one month we had a company bbq, then a company dinner, then a "volunteer" too clean the beach and have a picnic after. Free food but didn't all count as paid time u nu wish they thought of liability thing and cancelled our dinners I feel taegyeoms corporate pain