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LiHuan's mom has already passed away

I was talking about YuYang’s mom

Sorry, I guess I mixed things up~ (≧∀≦)

Hahah es all good xD

Lol, dont worry, I was being stupid with you too

Yeah, i thought that too XD

ooo i hope theres a makeout at the beach(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ and i think your right with the second part too

I hope there's no makeout in the beach. I don't wanna them getting exposed while they haven't sorted their feelings out.

I hope there's a makeout scene in the beach and i hope they don't get exposed

But I'm worried ╥﹏╥
What if they get exposed? Too risky...

I think if they do get exposed, it’ll really test their friendship AND love. Becuz if they end up breaking up both their friendship and semi-romance, then that means their bond wasn’t strong enough to begin with.
But on the other hand...... having a sister secret makeout is inticing and will definitely turn on one or the other and I wouldn’t mind who instigates it at this point in the story. It’ll be like an adrenaline rush..... if you know what I mean ( ° ʖ °)

You know... While I kind of aggree with the adrenaline rush thing helping them out to move forward with their relationtip... I really dissaggree with your first statement about love being not strong enough if they break up bc of being exposed. No matter how strong your bond is, there are other factors too. Like the mental strength of involved individuals, their social responsibilities and outside circumatances. What I meant is, they have not sorted out their feelings yet - one boy is on denial, the other boy almost lost hope and got deppressed at one point. Not to mention Seungtaek's parents - they are rich and could easily make sure the boys never ever meet again. The very reason Seungtaek is resisting is cause he is afraid and thinks he has some sort of responsibility so his parents.
If you say things like "their love-friendship was not strong enough anyways", does that mean you also think people who are depressed, have self esteem issues or are just mentally fragile - if a person like that does not overcome a big blunder (that is totally avoidable), then their love is not strong enough?
I ended up rambling a lot, but I guess I want to say that relationships are fragile and more complicated than you imply. While their feelings and thoughts are not in tune yet, any obstacle is potentionally relationship ending.
But, I guess, if the author decides to do it, then I have faith that the author in the end brings the boys together. This is a story after all, and they will end up together eventually. I just hope there won't be too much drama and pain.

Oh trust me, I understand and know plenty of how complicated relationships are being someone that is diagnosed with clinical depression. Trust me. I do feel a little bit offended that you think I didn’t understand that but then again, I didn’t explain myself thoroughly. I was talking more of the “inseparable bond” that they have. The bond that Seungtaek cherishes the most, where he just wants to stay with Kyubin forever. A bond that is both and neither friendship and love. Also, i was taking about how if everyone knew that they were gay for each other, that would make them break up because they feel “embarrassed” about it since you know.... being “gay” is not a “manly” thing and such. I was heading towards the idea from like Elektal Delusion. Breaking up because you’re embarrassed of your sexuality is different from breaking up because of forced family ideals. That’s what I meant by exposure.
Also as a depressed person, I can say that Kyubin wasn’t really “depressed.” He was more dejected. And it’s clear neither of them have self esteem issues or are mentally fragile. If any character is like that, it’s mostly Seunghee, because oh boy, are we so similar that for once I relate to a main character that is gay (I’m a bi female btw). And issues like self esteem and mental fragility are more towards having trust issues (which I have A LOT of) and clearly Seungtaek and Kyubin trust each other 120%. Also, in this point in the story, it’s obvious their feelings are aligned, one of them is just too dumb to notice that it’s love and hasn’t really spoken his feelings, especially after he already kissed Kyubin in his sleep for crying out loud..... sooooo there’s my input

I think the responsible for the incrimination was the girl who was arguing with Seungtaek about the trip destination
I mean, she has motives, right...?

Oh yeahhhhhh...... didn’t think of that..... the possibility of her being the culprit is high since no one (except you probs) would expect that........ and she has been taking a slight (noticeable but unnecessary) presence in the panels in recent chapters...... like the author just had to draw her in the panel, you know???? soooo.............. hmmmmmmmmm......... so many suspects

They’re talking about the raw chapters

Ugh. Go back to sleep.

Why don’t you? I’m just trying to ask a question, why does that bother you? And for the record, it was noontime for me so you can go take your negativity somewhere else.

Oh alright. That makes sense then. I was super confused and worried that chapters got taken down again. Thx!

Well i think its because the last few chapters were extremely painful to read,so they didn't focus at all at pacing,especially for the LGBT readers.It completely took a turn from romance and comedy to a serious and sad image of hardships Yuyang went through because of his sexuality.I,for instance,completely forgot about Lihuan until he called him.But since the last few chapters were so heartbreaking,i hope that the story will get a bit more cheerful when Yuyang meets with Lihuan again (≧∀≦)

f A C T S

How can reading the background story of a main character be “extremely painful”? Background stories are always necessary in any type of story if you really want to execute a well written and well developed story. It’s part of the creativity and format of storytelling. Also, i don’t think that it was a let down for the LGBT community. I would consider myself to be a part of it and since I haven’t really come out to anyone and have similar emotional struggles as YuYang, it was nice to see an aspect of reality in a BL fictional manhua that actually taught me some things and made me feel like I wasn’t alone here. It was a refreshing sight to see that a fictional BL manhua from China, portrayed an actual issue concerning the LGBT community, especially more so from a country like China. If you really want readers to feel connected to the characters in your story, you have to add some depressing scenes, because that’s how life is. Life isn’t always dandelions and rainbows, and everyone knows that because we’re all alive here and experiencing the ups and downs of life. I don’t see how that’s annoying people, honestly. I find it extremely ridiculous and outrageously rude to both the author (and editor) and other readers to get angry over essential and needed background storytelling. If anything, the recent chapters have made me have high ass respect for DJun and his intellectual creativity and talent.

Nothing wrong with critiquing a story, if they feel as if the story is dragging on a little, then they can say so(if their not being a dick about it). I, personally, felt that the story before the backstory was the one dragging it's feet. I liked the background to the characters, it adds depth.

I know, but the there are multiple variables for a story “dragging on” that people don’t seem to get becuz all they want is just sex scenes right away and they end up trashing the author who clearly loses sleep and skips meals every day just to get one chapter out EVERY WEEK. And DJun did say that this story was going to be up to 200+ chapters so if you think it’s dragging on..... it kinda isn’t and it’s just the way it’s being structured so it can reach the lovely happy ending that DJun has so carefully thought out for

Honestly i don't even know where to start.First of all by "extremely painful" i didn't mean that its bad i mean that its PAINFUL because it hurts so much nobody gives a fuck about pacing i mean seriously how could you not get that?.I'm a gay guy(very rare on mangago,over 90% are girls)who lives in extremely homophobic country where all my friends,family,every single aqcuaintance hates gays,and hates so much that it does not pass a day without me thinking about commiting suicide because i will be completely alone when they find out.When i was reading these past few chapters,i completely felt broken,because that is how i picture myself when i come out(only without cute guy like lihuan and friends,cause in my country the girls hate gays as much as guys)That is what i meant by "extremely painfull"because i wanted to cry as i was reading this a could relate on every little single thing that happened with Yuyang,cause trust me,in my country people hate gays and abuse them far more then in China.(a Slavic country,hating gays is a normal thing here).I meant that the story became so much deep and serious,i completely forgot about Lihuan,romance and comedy,and therefore pacing.That is my original reply to you.I'm pretty sure when the story turns lighter,people will continue bitching about pacing again.There my comment wasn't negative at all,i actually commended on how deep and mature and REALISTIC above all it turned into,that is why i meant that the chapter was painful for other LGBT like myself,because it was so well written that we could feel yuyang pain.I don't like writing long ass comments,but since you will probably misunderstood it again and get triggered i tried to explain to details my original reply.

Well I just explained myself that I have similar issues too and haven’t come out either. I wasn’t downgrading the LGBT community. I too felt pain as I read that chapter. I even cried for Christ’s sake. And I do apologize for misunderstanding because clearly, I can’t see your emotional intent with a digital text response. And from the comments that I’ve seen from the last 5 chapters, A WHOLE LOT of people have been b*tching about the pace of the story cuz all they want is straight up makeout and sex scenes, which bothers me a ton (as you’ve noticed) becuz they are being so unbelievably ignorant and missing the whole point in this part of the story. And mind you, I’ve come across those same people claiming that those background stories aren’t realistic for the LGBT community, which I know isn’t true (obviously) but that’s the types of the comments I’ve been seeing so constantly from the recent chapters that I can’t help but get triggered by because it’s just outright wrong! And I strongly apologize for misunderstanding, but I mistook your comment because that’s how so many people have claimed that the pace feels like. That the slow pace is extremely painful to bear and that they will drop the manhua if the relationship doesn’t go anywhere soon. And I know excuses don’t make up for my rash assumption, but I’m just explaining why I got triggered that way.
Also I will guarantee you that there’s way more gay guys here on mangago than just 10%, you aren’t alone for sure. This is an international site, so don’t over generalize and feel like you’re the only one. You just haven’t come across others yet. And trust me, I know how horrible homophobia is in mid/Eastern Europe, I did a research paper on homophobia for history and it’s horrendous. But just know that you aren’t alone. This site exists not just for posting Asian comics, but to also be a safe ground for people to connect. So don’t lose hope

i am glad am not the only one... (▰˘◡˘▰)