
Ok I need to say this, please stop romantizicing the whole 'I don't like other people touching you' not only its childish, is also obsessive and controlling, is right in the red flag border.

It’s ok to be uncomfortable about certain touching, but in this case it was entirely benign and in no way in appropriate, especially since MC doesn’t understand the language well, is infirm, and need a lot of guidance. Working yourself into a huff and upsetting your pregnant, medically at risk SO is not the way. “What if someone else hits on you”? That’s not an excuse to be controlling or emotionally combative with your partner. If you think someone would be so easily swayed, you don’t trust them enough to be in a healthy relationship with them. Feeling jealousy is natural, but it’s not acceptable to allow that emotion to provoke controlling or harmful actions towards your partner. He should have had a calm discussion about it instead of getting so reactive and unfair

So Rashta is dead and the lesson she left me was, don't try to be something more than what you are, once a lowborn always a lowborn... I indeed hate her guts nd all of the thing that happen to her was very well deserved but at the end of the day she was victim of her social status and the men around her. I despised with all my heart Ergi, there was no reason for what he did, or should I say the reason wasn't enough for me, hope he died a grousome dead, I wish that at least little Glorym and Ian are ok uwu.
And just to throw it out there, never liked Hienrey and honestly still don't like him that much xD
If I was Navier I would definitely choose lord Kauffman, that man is damn fine.

i think the greater lesson was knowing when to take time and do some self reflection. people who possess similar qualities to rashta usually end up making similar poor decisions based on their inability to self reflect and realize how they themselves come off to other people. it was an issue of self awareness, self reflection, and learning/seeing the bigger picture. majority of rashta's problems couldve been overcome if she had decided to take a calmer and more communicative approach to her newfound position, instead of trying to plot petty schemes to take down others.
sure Ergi's character may have come off unnecessarily ruthless but you have to keep in mind that any sane person with the ability to self reflect would have realized Ergi's two-sided ness or even asked "why is he being so nice to me" instead of blindly trusting the man with EVERYTHING.
a big problem of her life was definitely the class system and the people around her who never had her best interests in mind, but the difference is that she absorbed all of the negatives around her and wanted to add to such people, instead of self reflecting and realizing she could have been a better person or taken a different approach. its similar to the saying "the abused becomes the abuser". hypothetically, even if she was dealt a better hand in life, her own inability to reflect and learn from hardships wouldve been her downfall either way.

Imo it was more like a lesson to know your limits and stuff? you can climb the social ladder, but you should adjust your studies accordingly and get educated. If you can't educate yourself cos you are too dumb then learn to choose the right people for the jobs. But she never learned and she only knew how to be a snake tbh. I hate that she was used and thrown away like trash, but she brought it upon herself ngl. She had a lot of issues and none were resolved cos she refused to keep anyone by her side. She was handed an entire friggin manual on how to run the empire and instead of learning from it she decided to see demons In naviers good intentions even tought she never was hostile towards her like Rashta was to Navier lol.
#-.-)

True but also if a ruler wants your body they will get your body. There are stories where the king/emperor forced appart married couple cos he wanted the woman. (Either framed the husband for treason or sent him to a battlefield and summoned the wife with imperial order that can't be refused and then took her body) so it's more on the one in power to don't be a cheating and awful asshole. (︶︿︶)=凸
*deep sigh*
We'll........... ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭