Is cherry manju the author of one night mate or are they the artist? I'm kinda confused since this webtoon has a different artwork.
The author
Thank you for the info! I really liked onm so I'm looking forward to this one if this is made by the same author.
The love interest in this story has so much dissonance between his actions and words. I really like how he cares deeply for the mc, but that wonderful trait of his is undermined by his inability to understand the word NO during sex. What makes him different from the master then??? What makes it worse is obviously the mc has trauma bec. of the sexual abuse he experienced from the master. That's why it felt to me like the love interest is making light of his situation despite showing understanding. And I don't think the author will address his behaviour bec. they often portray those non-con scenes as light hearted.
As a reader, I feel like I'm being gaslighted by the author to think that the love interest have the the mcs best interest at heart even when he doesn't respect him enough to stop when he feels uncomfortable ehile having sex. It's such a shame bec. I really like the dynamics between them two and the non-con sex makes their relationship feel hollow.
although i agree w u on this cuz fr tho ml be actin' a bit hypocritical on some panels or like shows contrasts here and there, but there are some instance (tho not sure which one tbh) where the mc habitually says 'no' when he's embarrassed or something, cuz as far as i can remember, there was this ep where he said no or stop and the ml actually stopped and he was like 'why'd you stop?' which was both funny and hella confusing to me because now even i can't tell if he meant no as no or no as in he's hella embarrassed. all in all, NO still means NO, and they need serious talk or maybe atp safe word to know when to actually stop.
tho i could also kinda blame kr 'kinks' for this, since from what I've seen w most manhwa when ml's sees mc cry or like turn beet red murmuring 'no' or 'stop' it turns them on,,, like are you fr?? hella twisted.
Yes, this trope also infuriates me. Many authors frame the mcs saying no as simply being shy or coy. Ive read it tons of times that I have been desensitized to it. Oftentimes, it doesn't really affect much of the story so I ignore it, but for this one, to me it really does. Because one of the biggest things the master withheld from the mc is consent. And for the lead interest to just ignore his pleas, it's so icky... If this story wasn't framed in a super romantic way, honestly, I'd view the love interest to be just as much of a danger to the mc like the master. It's kinda chilling how he's using his affection for the mc to get what he wants.
Plus, it's kinda ironic how he said he was willing to learn bdsm just to satisfy the mc. Like, hello??? Isn't consent one of the most critical parts in bdsm? The author missed a big mark with this one really. It would've been nicer to see the love interest take his time in building up the mcs trust when they are being intimate. :(
Make a pet out of a cactus. I really love how they proved their range. Not just great in drawing smut but also creating a beautiful story.
I hope some authors learn to improve their skills at storytelling too ** points at mingwa**
Why do authors love to draw overly humongous dicks. You can make a peanits look hot without putting so much girth on it that it looks like a goddamn bazooka bro.
Cause size queens babe. If you had mediocre dick all your life and someone offers you a glorious 9 incher with some girth, you saddle up and strap in ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Ngl, I'm aroace who's not interested in experiencing sex irl so I don't really understand the obsession with big girthy dicks irl and in fiction lmao.
Imo, a genitals size doesn't correlate with how capable its owner is in providing pleasure.
Oh yeah, so my point is that many authors overly rely on how big they can draw their leads dick to let reader know they good are great at sex. And sometimes, it just makes the smut scene comical lmao
Like, as long as the leads are good at giving pleasure they can tone down on abnormally humongous peanits, imo. Take Zaria for example, her leads do not have excessively big dicks but boi are they good at giving their mcs mind blowing sex.
As a size queen myself who had mediocre dick, most mediocre and big dick guys alike, they have absolutely no idea what good technique is and I have to do the work myself. The nice thing about bigger and girthier guys is that it hits every spot without trying so rather than need to angle yourself correctly to hit the spot, every thrust hits ALL the spots. Technically anything 3-4 inches and up CAN reach spots if proper technique is used but out of the guys I’ve dated and the guys my friends have dated and guys around us, not a single one (across the globe) has had proper technique so it’s probably a dying craft. You’re aroace so you probably won’t care about any of this but if you’re having sex for pleasure and fun or for intimacy, you want to feel good. That’s exactly why we have pleasure points inside of us. It’s more realistic to chase a big dick dude than to try to find the one 10 leaf clover that can use proper technique to make you feel good. Even porn stars and ex porn stars don’t always have the best techniques. It’s sad when a dildo can outperform a man just because you can make it work for you vs whatever tf men think sex is.
Don't worry about it, although I am aroace, I'm still curious about what goes on with sex and such. It's just that I don't want to experience it for myself bec. I have repulsion towards it hahaha. So, the info other people share about it is interesting knowledge to me.
What I understand from what you said is most dudes suck at keeping their partners satisfied but having a big dick does help in making sex more enjoyable if not palatable. Though I've heard other ppl share that sometimes it's kind of a struggle and painful to take in huge dicks even with proper prep. Ngl, it seems like a tedious process to find a compatible partner
It truly is just tedious so you’re not missing out. I personally am into BDSM so a little pain feels great for me but I can see people being turned off by the discomfort of adjusting to a bigger size especially since the human body is absolutely incredible at bouncing back to its original shape. Bigger doesn’t always mean better but you’ll have a higher chance of getting “better” with a guy who doesn’t have to try vs a man who doesn’t have the equipment or skills to back up his bravado.
the last part got me cackling a bit bec. idk if it's a stereotype but I've heard many women do say that many dudes often talk big game but don't really know how give women pleasure. I wonder if gays, pan, or bisexual men fair better in this area with their male partners.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It was kinda funny how our convo started because of exaggeratedly ginormous dicks But tbh, it kinda expanded my views when it comes to the lil intricacies of sex even if I don't dabble in it. I do hope you find a mindful and caring partner who gives importance to your needs just as much as theirs.
My ex was bisexual. I taught that man everything he knows lmaoooo I think men would find it easier with men and women would find it easier with women. I’m pansexual but it just so happens that I like dick AND tits so I basically need to find a trans person for my ideal partner!
Awh no worries! Feel free to message me about more sex questions! I haven’t had that many sexual partners but I am somewhat of an expert when it comes to knowledge about sex and sex related things. And thanks! If my ex wasn’t such a poor bf, I could have whipped him into a good sex partner lol so I’ll continue the search for a good all rounder!
Its obv not for you so pack it up, unless you wanna help thr author draw for it.
Bro it's just a lil criticism lol don't be so pressed.
I think it's pretty common for readers to have little gripes about a story, but still like reading it. Not everything has to be black and white.
Also, I would if I could but do you really think the author would appreciate his love interest's dick getting downsized? I don't think so.
Nah don't listen to em. I've been annoyed by the roulade sized turdickens for ages. Imagine a serious romantic scene, and BAM, a comically large dick emerges... I don't know about others but as a girl, my hole has a length and width limit. It's not the most pleasant experience when all they do is "PUSH HARDER" like a jackhammer. So when they combine the size and the lack of technique in manhwa, I just scroll past.
As a woman myself, I personally like that so I’m a size queen but it’s a personal thing for sure. Some don’t like and some do ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Its okay hahaha Talking with Qxeen about it kinda gave me a different perspective on things.
It's just the recent comment from camry that got me scratching my head bec. why the aggressiveness? It was just a silly lil gripe over oversized peanits.
Ngl the author is actually big brained for pulling off that scene. You don't really see much of that villain move in stories. Dude is truly a pos
Frr he really was serious about the “if it‘s the last thing i do“ damn
I thought the dude was another one of those bland, straightfaced love interests. It's so cute how he blushes hard.
Trolls the father by contrasting his bitter words with cute and loving moments of the mc with his bf and father in law. Can't wait for him to get a heart attack once he sees how his son is thriving without his toxic ass in his life.
I love the way the author wrote his character. He isn't meddling with the leads' love life and is supportive of them. He's such an adorable airhead too. I love him
Thank God it's an update. Although the couple started out having a toxic relationship, it's great to see that the love interest is doing his best to make it right by the mc. Ngl, it feels realistic compared to other bl stories with toxic relationships where shitty love interests instantly gets redemption in the story in just a few chapters.
At least in this one, the author took the time to show that the dude is actively trying to turn his life around because he wants to be a worthy partner. Not every relationship is picture perfect, but at least the love interest is putting the time and effort to get there for the mc.
Tho, it still stresses me out to think how the mc will introduce his bf to his sister when he made her fall for him and scammed her. Won't fault her if she decides to cut the mc out of her life, tbh.