
I may be only 16 but my sex drive is so low. I don't have the desire to do anything wit anyone and I hate kissing. I can really relate to Eric & all my friends are just like "loose your v card steph" & im all like no I don't feel the urge or desire or w.e & even when I do it last for a minute if even that long.

I'm the same ! Now i'm 21 and everyone assume i'm not a virgin anymore. They want to talk about experiences and i don't know how to tell them that i broke up with my only boyfriend because i didn't want to do it.

well sexuality is an extremely complicated topic imo. Also people push their own opinions of it on you all the time.
I like kissing with my friends but I hate it during sex and some very specific things that someone might like turn me off right away. People might also tell you that "when you meet the right person you will do ALL these things you don't really care for now" but believe me, gurl whut, I mean, hasn't happened to me yet tbh but it's more or less bs.
Like some other people also said, sex might just not be your thing. Or maybe something oddly specific turns you on. Like red shoes, or smelly socks, or boiled eggs, idk lol, there's million things people can be into.
Don't push your sexuality in a box, no one is in ONE specific dictated way. Even "asexuals" are not all the same. I've had friends who are asexual but into bondage, or friends who the very thought of sex terrifies them, or people who can only masturbate with themselves and find even someone they care about repulsive doing things to their bodies.
We are just human beings bruh, with complicated emotions and sex drives and stuff ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ don't worry about "losing your V-card" whut does that even mean? Breakin your hymen? psshhh dem peasants lol
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