
If possible, try not to hide your partners. They'll feel shame and hurt even if you dont intend to hurt them. I was hidden for 4 years. Yet I publicized the relationship. Obviously I suffer socially so the people who knew me werent mutuals. I was never shown and eventually I dissolved the relationship
Like.... what was that split in compulsion? Imagine confronting someone you thought you wanted and they spring something like that? Chowon needs a lot of healing. The odds are against him.