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Possessiveness is creepy for sure, but the dude he was out with has a bad reputation, you know with the whole company, Gyoon’s mom and shit, maybe thats why? Cause when Soohwa is with Uni friends he’s chill :) Also the drunk part, i agree. Nothing happened yet so let’s see? :

I actually agree with you. yohan shows a lot of signs which we would usually hate to see in a seme in any other manhwa. but cos it’s sign, everyone loves it for some reason? I find that messed up

Thank you!!! Parents are human beings with emotions too. Not just self-sacrificing baby machines.

Exactly!

Those aren't your only options though? Why not go to therapy and work out your family problems first? You don't have to go straight to cutting people you love out of your life.

Who would accept going to therapy to talk about humping their sibling?

If your parent begged you to go to therapy for the sake of your family, you wouldn't do it? That's pretty selfish.

I don't think I'd have the heart to cut contact/disown my child simply because of something like that. They're probably just as confused and guilty about their inappropriate feelings. I'd also bring them to therapy because I want what's best for my child. That goes for my step-child too because they're also my kid now. I assumed the responsibility of being their parent the moment I remarried their dad.

If your parent begged you to stop fucking your step sibling and you didn't that's pretty selfish too don't you think? Also please remember where this takes place since every country has different views on handling things.

Though since I'm kinda soft-hearted, I'd probably think it'd be my fault that this happened lol. It's something to discuss with the dad, that's for sure.

I didn't say the parent should let the kids fuck around like that. Sorry if you misunderstood. I'm just saying you don't have to immediately cut your spouse and his kid out of your life. That's what family/marriage counseling is for.

Exactly what I'm trying to say here. If your kids are messing around with each other, there might be underlying problems with them that you aren't seeing. When YOU are the parent, you need to act like one and I don't think Haesoo's mom is being a very good parent right now.

I understand that. I definitely agree with that but again please remember where this takes place. I'm not saying Korea doesn't have therapy but they aren't big on it like at all.

Flip out and divorce in seconds?
How about talking it out?
Involving your husband/wife?
Talking with both involved kids? Asking about their plans, thoughts, feelings?
Seeking help?

Telling a Korean dad that would be a very bad idea. Most likely he would disown his son. Haesoo's mom did him a favor by not telling him.

So because Korea isn't great on mental health and therapy, we can't suggest it? That's a terrible idea. Besides we're talking about key's hypothetical situation and considering I have no idea where they live, I don't think talking about therapy as an option is off limits.

I am not saying you can't suggest it. I even said I agree with you. Key's hypothetical situation is based of this story and this story is based is set in Korea. & I never said it was off limits. Just to keep it in mind because it comes into play with the mentalities of all the characters.

RIP grammar (⊙…⊙ ) my bad lol

That's true tbh! Therapy is a good way. But if that doesn't work I would just leave. I wouldn't see it as disowning since the one who would leave her whole life is me. Like my child will get everything they need and after I've given them everything I would then just disappear in thin air cuz like I would be in pain and in a toxic cycle. Just because they are my kid and I'm their parent doesn't mean both of us can continue in a toxic cycle. I Also think it would be best for my child cuz then they wouldn't have to suffer because of my views and because I know I would never accept them.

When I mean flip out I don't mean screaming at the children I mean mentally flip out. Like literally go into panic mode in my brain. I'm a panic person in my head. I panic just saying the wrong word. Also talking out and say what? Shall we still be married when our kids are fucking? Yes? Okay let's live the incest life :)))) And the whole household feeling would be strained and difficult for everyone. Let's say I talk with the kids and they say they are really in love, well divorce. Or it was a one time thing, still divorce cuz it's never a one time thing. We can totally seek help. I'm all for that

I absolutely see your point of view. As much as it would hurt to leave, it would probably be even worse if you stay and pretend that everything's ok.