
Long-term anal health is a serious issue for bottoms. We don't like to ponder it, but they do experience bile and feces excretion. If you consider it logically, a small hole is not designed for a penis to be rammed frequently, there will be consequences. This is why I prefer the omegaverse, where omega male asses are designed for it. :/

Nothing you said was homophobic. Everything you mentioned was reality and only thing really missing was “prolapses” lol. I think a dose of some real shit is needed sometimes - too many young, highly influenced, naive and inexperienced on here think anal sex is a cake walk that feels good the very first time especially with inexperienced partners with all the lack of prep, spit for lube, ass only orgasms, butt plugs barely exist unless its fetish or kink rather than a common af stretching tool, and spontaneous “dirty all day butt” sex so prominent in yaoi. The fantasy is great but some realness never fails to be appreciated from alot of readers.

Super stoked for the smex like everyone else! XD
Other thoughts I've had: Isn't it a perfect match for the head to have ex-military to help around town? He really lucked out! It'll make his job easier.
Also, assuming they will be common law married in the future, will our precious baby girl be raised to be the next head?

I checked out the raws and they end up a wholesome couple enjoying lots of sex, and embroiled in a drama with a silver haired guy. I didn't read them, just skimmed them out of curiosity. They come off as a couple that improves the other, with the professor learning to relax, and the student learning to take life more seriously.
Not a great read, but at least it was a short read. The narrative and story beats felt like fan fic by a preteen whose read a few shounen-ais. I only stuck with it because we don't have enough couples with an exaggerated height difference.