you people think being outed is lightwork "His family already knows so why keep him in the dark?" You do not know the feeling of having to be outed by someone else. if you aren't ready and everyone else already knows. With how his mom reacted to him dating a man, it has probably occurred in that family that the mom or anyone else really, has already said something homophobic-adjacent making him stay in the metaphorical closet. LOGICALLY,,, it would be best for him to come out on his own terms EVEN if everyone else already knows.
Yes, that Korean household stuff is crap. It's not like homosexuality is exactly kosher in America right now either. But I would NEVER handle the situation this way if my 15 year old son were to ever come out to me. Because I taught my son that love is love, that homosexuality has been demonized by religious freaks. I taught him, I advised him, I have led by example. Now he is old enough to decide for himself who he gets to love and deal with the consequences of his choices, good or bad. That is what being a parent should be like all over the world. Love, accept, trust your child no matter what. If that is not how parents are acting, shame on them for letting society rule how they treat their children and it is time for change.











bro even his thoughts are self-centred wtfff "I was so happy back then" "I wonder if he was as sad as I was" and "what happened to us?" GIRL that last part has an underlying narcissism to it because a.) Implies that Garam had a fault for their breakup(NOT TRUE BTW) b.) it takes off the responsibility for what he did during their time tgt (as if he didn't go date someone else after pulling the carpet under Garam's leg) c.) It makes it look like he couldn't have done anything for garam when he couldve not said Garam came unto him to his mom but noo he had to put Garam under the bus to save himself.... All that backstabbing only to end up with a man again, later OKAYYY
Ikr, the audacity to ask "what happened to us?" after all the shit that he did!