Moving in w someone before sex is insane
It's mainly to show that you can live with another person cause sometimes you find out that it's impossible. Some people are good at a distance, but once you are in each others space all the time you find out if you can handle that or not. That's why I don't get people who don't live together before they are married cause I'm like what if you hate how they live...
I think it’s actually a good thing that he’s serious about her, wants to live with her, but isn’t making it hinge on sex.
It’s clear he wants to very much but he knows she isn’t ready so he’s willing to wait for her. If she ends up being bad at it that is okay. In time she can learn. If he loves her he will be patient with her.
For what it’s worth I’m in a relationship that’s lasted a couple years now and we live together. If he loves her he will wait and not push it. Any guy that is forceful and won’t wait isn’t worth it.
Oh no I completely agree with this as well don't get me wrong. Both are important in a relationship. But you don't have to rush into sex right away cause being pushed before your ready can also contribute to it being bad you know? He's allowing her to grow comfortable with her cause if shes getting red and dizzy from just a kiss girls gonna pass out with anything further. lol
im not being rude. only "virgins" aka people with no real experience with sex would think that relationships can safely develop into living together phase when you dont even know your sex compatibility before moving together. i mean this is a shojo manga so i doubt that people reading this would look at this realistically but in real life sex determinates a lot.
I understand you have strong beliefs about the importance of sexual compatibility in relationships, and I get what you mean. However, making assumptions about other people's experiences and dismissing their perspectives as unrealistic is not fair or helpful. The truth is, every relationship is unique, with different needs and values. For some couples, sexual intimacy plays a central role early on. But for others, emotional connection and life partnership may be more important at first. There are many valid ways to develop a relationship over time. It’s not the same for everyone.
Agreed. And even if not asexual not everyone has a high sex drive or places sex as the number 1 importance to a point they will dump someone over it who they love in every other way.
Also there are people in love and married to disabled people who cannot have sex at all or in a traditional way. Where do these people fall? Some of the logic in this thread is kind of cruel.
sex is not the only way to have an intimate and close bond with your partner. to some people it’s an important part of a relationship, but to other couples it won’t make or break a relationship if u don’t have sex or not
saying people r virgins for calling you out on this is weird cuz it’s literally just dependent on preferences. if anything, not having sex easily shows you are with a person because of their personality alone and not dependent on sexual chemistry. but ur kinda far gone if u call sex a human need LOL that’s such point addict brain rot tbh








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