
i feel bad for the characters here but i like and respect shougo the way he tries his best to "ask" mitsuru for affection bc he knows mitsuru cant express himself freely like that, he makes it so that HE is the one "asking" and mitsuru is the one providing/accommodating his "whims", when it's him doing his best to make mitsuru feel good being affectionate with him, like he's actively carving a space for mitsuru to feel needed and appreciated idk why that is what made me cry shougo you deserve the world

i never thought there'd come a day where i would see yaoi readers who would be bothered abt the adoption????? yapping around like it's the end of the world two same sex lovers literally just wanna get as close to marriage as possible in their backward societies????? are yall idiots or what how is that problematic or funny or something to wish not to happen stop flaunting your ignorance omg from the amt of bl introducing this adoption method you'd think ppl would cry less abt it yall actually annoy me so much they just want access to the rights they should have access to in the first place another stupid take i see abt disliking adult adoption as an option im genuinely gonna tweak out so much more if you genuinely think it's weird shut up don't event dare talk abt it. just say something that isnt an actually privileged or asshole take instead.

this, I wish more people thought like this. I'm so tired of seeing ignorant comments of people that don't understand how other places in the world work or people that think everywhere is just like North America. Even before Canadian law was set in stone gays used to do adoption as a form of marriage. I wish people would educate themselves more often instead of saying shit that shows their ignorant level of privilege.

fr i just rlly honestly cant understand why disgust is first reaction to this? first time i discovered that this was a method, i was v intrigued by how smart/how novel it was for them and I sincerely further wished they can get married bc they deserve that and more but for others i guess being rights gatekeepers is as natural as breathing?? for them to make it seem as something shameful as their response, what the hell
it's okay im just rlly unsure of how theyll be going forward seems like shougo will still be carrying their relationship for the longest time after until mitsuru heals enough mitsuru wasnt rlly the doting type/he's a cat who tends to be scratchy then be awkward and apologetic bc he can be careless when embarrassed or overwhelmed? shougo is a saint and ik he'd just think it's cute but it miffs me for some reason i want to see him be more secure in expressing himself like that just a little peak with this future i also see mitsuru and his recurring thoughts and i just know the guilt WILL weigh on him for years to come and shougo will do his best to not let him go, he'll be working overtime to not let mitsuru think those self deprecating thoughts idk i dont trust mitsuru to not abandon shougo again it's his weakness at this point i dont blame him !! just i wanted to see at least how mitsuru won't rlly abandon shougo. i felt a bit unsatisfied with him promising it while shougo cried at the loneliness of it i rlly hoped we could see how eventually he likes himself enough or at least hate himself less that he feels like he's okay and he deserves being by shougo's side, even better if he tries to "improve" for himself and work on his confidence that he wont let the thoughts weigh on him. wnna see him flourish with self worth that shougo would work overtime to support him with i would have loved to see him being confident enough to pull shougo too/be the one to lead. why is this so long lmao. im not even in their relationship why am i the one being distrustful LMAO poor guys