
Yo even if you grew up abused, you don't have the history of sexual abuse it seems, so why are you raping the mc? Is the author just doing that for the plot?

It’s mostly to do with control, the need to be listened to, obeyed etc because that’s what got him respect to be able have everything at the tips of his fingers. Unfortunately, that’s how he shows his “affection”, but what else can a twisted, corrupt and ignorant man do when what he wants isn’t attainable? He’ll force it to be his, just as those before him did. it’s not like he had anyone that truly loved him growing up, to be a good example of a loving man at least to those closest to him. Ofc, I don’t agree with it, and I see ur point tbh, but this explanation does seem fit. Hurt people, hurt people after all.
I really hope the crybaby is the end game please why is it always the toxic ones who has to be the main lead