
I just realized ingyu wanted to fuck humans for their adorable genetalia and goes on about how their genetalia would be something special, but it's the same genetalia as incubus...?? if it was different I'm pretty sure kangin would have reacted by now. and why do I care about this??

well he wanted to get away from the dangerous, hurting, sometimes life-threatening encounters he had with the genitals in his world and incubi can't exactly have intercourse with one another so I guess he was looking for a species that shared somewhat something comparable to his since he guessed that these wouldn't hurt and would be pleasurable as well

I love these boys and all, but using sex as punishment on someone who is wasted isn't sexy. He didn't even really do anything to be that upset about. The fact that Yohan gets upset to that point and then uses sex as punishment is pretty creepy and manipulative imo. They're in too good of a relationship for jealousy of this kind to feel justified to me. Then again, jealousy is like my biggest turnoff..
okay bear with me now cause I'm about to rant and I'm sleepy af, but isn't it really strange in yaoi how a lot of guys go from "yeah I don't care I got gay friends it doesn't bother me" to "okay now I wanna fuck a dude". That's miles apart like how do the authors think the line is so thin between these? being cool with gays because you have gay friends isn't even the same as understanding and respecting people with other sexualities. so how can you wanna bone a guy the next minute? I get that little bro here might just be teasing but like I sense at least a hint of serious invitation in that, and it just makes me so confused at the ideas in these mangakas' heads.
I totally get where you're coming from but in Haru's case he mentioned his gay friend were also online friends meaning he's never had physical interaction with someone who is gay and personally the feelings I got from Haru is he has a bit of a complex concerning the fact everyone seems to prefer Aki more than him as well as not being sure about his own sexuality and is willing to explore it to find out. So while it could have definitely been better portrayed in this case I don't think Haru is making that big of a leap here.