do you
have time to talk about your car’s extended warranty?
Like messi?ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
I know a kdrama fan when i see one
guys noooo this is too funny i’m gonna cryy “he was a crazy human obsessed with growing stronger, but he was a crazy human from a capitalist society” bahahaha yea that seems about right
it wasn’t consensual, so he didn’t cheat. he didn’t want it to happen. he couldn’t have stopped his coworker from doing that to him while he was half asleep, and he’s going to be feeling so guilty for something that wasn’t his fault. he’s gonna have a lot of thoughts racing through his head after this and some of those are going to be from his relationship with yuma. i understand yuma was given nothing to go off of and he wasn’t told how it happened by our uke. it’s not fair for him to jump to conclusions like that and he should have a little more faith in this person he’s in a relationship with. silence is not consent and non consensual actions cannot be considered cheating.
i feel like there’s some foreshadowing with him not picking up his mom’s phone calls, but i’m not smart enough to know where it’s gonna go with it.
Huh can u explain ?
Wait I think he registers his sex partners as "mom" and his real mom as "Ms. Jung" or smt... Or am I top sleepy and got confused?:0
No, no that’s what I came to as well
this makes my heart ache. it’s so tragic, and i have so many emotions about this that i’m not fully capable of voicing which is a shame.
a lot of people are saying they’re suspicious of the seme and they don’t know why, but for me it’s because he invalidates the uke’s feelings left and right. he shames him into thinking he’s a bother for feeling that way and even leaves and gives off the impression that he doesn’t want to deal with the uke unless he changes. the uke had a real fear towards what would happen if they were outed, and while he seemed to be using that as an excuse for running away and avoiding his problems, it’s still a very valid fear. the seme just brushes it off like it makes no sense for him to be feeling that way tho. the seme repeatedly pushes the uke's boundaries little by little throughout the whole manga and doesn’t check in with him to see if he’s ok with it. he doesn’t ever step over or cross that line which is why so many people can’t think of a definite reason to feel badly about him, but he definitely toes the line repeatedly. this is the behavior of a gaslighting boyfriend in the long run. if you guys have anything to add on or contest feel free to do so! also props to anyone who read this whole thing.
Totally i couldn't have said it better
Very well written and understandable. I completely agree
Agreed!
i don’t even know where to begin, but my heart aches for them. they both have so many misunderstandings between them. at first i blame the ml for not making an effort to communicate with her at all when she’s clearly making an effort, but it’s easy for me to just say that. i know they both must have a bunch of insecurities and traumas and triggers that have built up over the years because their lives haven’t been easy. it’s even worse that they don’t know how to navigate these triggers. i don’t know how many of these misunderstandings can be chalked up to the mother-in-law getting in between them but one i’m fairly certain of that she didn’t interfere with was when he left on their wedding night. he should be telling her these things in person if it’s something as big as leaving immediately after the wedding celebration for an undetermined amount of time. the fl does have some faults, but i cant name any that wouldn’t have been a result of the physiological manipulation and abuse she has suffered from the ml emotional neglect and the ml’s family. it’s an unfortunate situation to see unfold, and i’m appalled at the fact that it would’ve continued this way if they didn’t switch bodies or if she didn’t successfully end her subscription to life. it probably would’ve gone on this way their whole lives with more and more hurt feelings built up until they can’t stand to look at each other. :T
also i forget what chapter it was but the ml compares his life to the fl’s, and looks down on her for being as tramatized as she is at the point in her life. don’t do that. trauma is trauma. if a person knocked their hand against something, you wouldn’t go on about how it isn’t that bad because you broke a bone one time or got pneumonia. hurt is hurt and trauma is trauma. there’s no way of quantifying or comparing the different effects it has on different people.
ik this is pretty long but thank you if you managed to read it all.
I don't agree w how he compares his experience and how hes treating her but...
hes comparing bc he doesn't know abt her trauma. he js thinks that shes been loved all her life and has never suffered before so when he hears that she tried to harm herself so he can make time for her when hes already trying his best making money to fit her status, he got rlly angry even though he doesn't know anything
ahhh i get what you mean. the updated chapters really do give more insight to how he is thinking in those moments. he do be a piece of shit tho :T
if u think abt it..... wouldn’t his reaction to when he finds out what rlly happens be rlly satisfying? if not, imma be rlly mad bc she deserves more than him (╬￣皿￣)凸
yeaaaah i’ve been looking forward to it this whole time. i want to see his reaction so bad and it feels weird, but o want him to feel like shit when it sinks in just how bad he fucked up