But why, we're so close to finishing, let the story end at least! ╥﹏╥
I'll never understand why people, mainly men I'd say, always seem to think that because the body is reacting the owner of said body must be "liking it".
Touching sensitive areas will always bring the reactions they were made for. It doesn't mean that your heart is on par with your body's desires. It doesn't work like this, and I never understood why it's considered a thing instead.
Omg legit I hate that in every single bl they say that , and how sex always sparks a relationship authors make it worse by having the bottom say it’s pleasure but they don’t want it in a way solidifying the whole “well your body likes it” or making the the character blush and moan like crazy when it’s rape , which is sadly in like every bl ( even the backstories ) when scenes like that come up I’m expecting for the person to turn blue and look like they want to die instead of a euphoric look that authors love to display . In a way promoting this as love and normal
Part of it is fantasy and part of it is just plain rape apologia.
I recommend this video to explain the fantasy aspect of it (it’s very long I know LOL but it’s a worthwhile, fun, and interesting video essay to watch). https://youtu.be/bqloPw5wp48
BUT tl;dr in a *PURELY* fantastical sense, for some people (women in particular I believe) the idea of being “forced” to orgasm or “forcing” someone to orgasm can be psychologically stimulating. It’s a way to play with certain power dynamics/control but it can also be like, a way to absolve one’s self of being responsible for their own pleasure/for enjoying a sexual act—why it’s prominent amongst women in particular being because women are often shamed for being sexual beings or participating in sex in any capacity, and so one way to cope with that can be imagining a scenario where she’s an “unwilling” participant being “forced” to enjoy sex that she Most Definitely Does Not Want wink wink nudge nudge. At least that’s one explanation. Obviously since BL is BL the bottom is substituted for the woman here lol.
The other part is yeah just plain rape apologia. Part of me also wants to say it’s also bad sex ed that doesn’t teach people that obviously just because someone physically reacts to something doesn’t mean they actually like what’s happening, and I’m sure that’s true, but it feels like a shit ass excuse. The idea that non-consensual sexual actions against someone can’t *really* be rape/sexual assault if they orgasm from it, or even that forcing someone (especially women) into sex is the natural order of things since they can occasionally orgasm from it, therefore it’s not bad…it’s all to excuse and perpetuate rape culture. And it’s a really awful myth to perpetuate, people struggle with being raped/SAed as is, I can’t imagine having to sit with the idea that you “enjoyed” it as well…
As a woman myself, and completely uninterested in real sex, I kind of understand the first part. There's something interesting about "losing control", which is something I personally hold dear for myself. But still, I'm not sure I'd be able to accept or consent to anything similar because of so many reasons that have mainly to do with self-respect, dignity and mental state.
On the second part, I sadly totally agree. Even more so that's a topic that should be spoken about in education. I'm not a victim of SA myself so I can't fully understand, but the mere thought of it happening to me gives me the creeps and I'm sure I'd never be able to recover from it unless my mind went blank and forgot about it all. Which could not happened, based on how easily I remember traumas.
I'd know for a fact I didn't enjoy the experience, and having my body react to it would make me feel so dirty and like I lost all sense of self... I can't even begin to imagine how it feels to end up pregnant after such a violence. That has to be even worse...
Dan may have accepted, but I'm pretty sure the one who'll regret doing it will be JK. I wonder if he'll try to be good to him since it's been a while, while Dan will just tell him to get it over with and leave right after without expecting any aftercare like JJK's always done
I really want JJK to feel the change and regret his actions so bad.
But at the same time I'm worried this might make Dan sleepwalk in that ocean again...
The fact that he kept approaching him, noticing him around, pouting when he was avoided for two days and kept trying to collect toys from that claw machine just to get him the monkey...
Can you be more obvious that you like him?
And why did I not leave this to marinate (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Funny how Dan, yet again, hasn't had a say in the matter. Jaeshit went ahead and cornered him with his boss and grandma, now he's even gonna live next to him and I'm SURE he'll just go by his home and bother him there too, for treatment, even food maybe and the usual coaxing.
I dare him try and touch Dan.
ogay umm listen to me, I find the manhwa very boring and cringy ass, there is nothing new and mingwa hasn't improved JJK at all so let's drop the manhwa together plzz!!??
This manhwa has the power to just get me reading for the sake of seeing just how far Mingwa's gonna make him go before he drops dead in shame. I'm not even subbed to the story.
I skipped the entirety of season 1 basically and just read the latter part. Jaeshit better be crawling in the ground and I want to be there to see it.
You can :D
You skipped...56 epsiodes....and 3 special episodes...aight.
lmaoooooo
I said I skipped most of it. I started reading it because I liked BJ Alex, but I couldn't find it as enjoyable so I dropped it. A friend who was reading it kept me updated from time to time tho.
I got back to this when the season 1 was at less than 10 chaps away from ending.
You can believe me or not ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Re-read what you said "I skipped the ENTIRITY..."
Meaning "all"...
I'm unsure what BJ Alex has to do with Jinx...yes they share writer/artist but it wasn't mentioned in your previous comment so this came out of no where. It's not whether or not I believe you, it's trying to understand where you're going.
Read more. "The entirety of it BASICALLY and just read the latter part". It's not all, but like 40 chapters I skipped for sure.
What I mean is, I came in hoping for a good read like BJ Alex but got put off by the excessive abuse. Yet I'm still here because I'm curious.
If that's the case, you need to word things better. Because "entire" is "all". Not most. Anyone reading that could also be misled.
I could use the "english isn't my first language" card, but it's not valid for me anymore. I may have not worded it correctly, but it was honestly never my intention to make a comment chain about proper phrasing, and I don't particularly care either in this context
40 chapters of 53+specials (going by memory) is already basically the entire season for me, or the part that "mattered", which had them "interact". That part I know just cuz my friend kept me updated.
I read the start and the end, and some in-betweens. Still, I wouldn't say I followed the first season much, which is why I BASICALLY skipped the entire season.
I respect the fact that you didn't use that card. It would've prompt me to ask another question.
Honest mistakes happen all the time, so it's nice that you were being honest here ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶!
I know if doesn't matter since imma person on the internet, but thank you ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
That excuse is honestly just pathetic. "I'm unfit to raise you, so I'll abandon you without communication, have you hate me while I overwork myself and have you mate against your will with just whoever basically so that your issue can be fixed sooner"
Sir, he's your son, not a fucking breeding animal.
This is legit too funny. He's not even certain yet he's already obsessed with him.
... AAAAARRRGH
It's been a while that I've felt this frustrated.