
Do you think Jihyun knows that the reason for his hypersexuality is probably the abuse he endured or the fact that it's less that he's hypersexual and more that he just has a highish libido like dude first you need therapy and second I promise you are fine if your desire didn't match up with the person you were with that isn't on you or them that's just life you aren't broken or abnormal you're fine

I literally can not stand the degree of hatred Winter is getting like you guys he literally doesn't know literally everyone around him has been lying and manipulating both him and Violet to keep them apart should ha have talked to Violet at least once to get her side of the story yes does that mean the entirety of her misery is his fault no like I'm not going to pretend to be okay with him ignoring her although I understand his motivations like how he literally just doesn't know what he's meant to do types when a person spends their entire life starved for affection they need to be taught how to both give it and receive it and that's exactly the situation that Winter was in his treatment while harmful isn't out of malice or lack of caring he was literally just doing what his parents did because he didn't know it was wrong because he didn't have anyone tell or show him that it was wrong he has a lot to make up for in terms of bring neglectful but none of it was because he didn't care and none of it was because he hated her and that's important not to mention once again THE ENTIRE HOUSE AND HIS "MOTHER AND FATHER" WE'RE ACTIVELY WORKING TO KEEP THEM APART like I while Violet is definitely the type of person who receives affection through investing a lot of attention in relationships Winter only knows how to give affection by sharing (he literally can't even understand why Violet would think to buy a gift for him ) had Violet actually received any of his gifts it could have lead to a thank you and then to a conversation and then to the right type of affection being given for both of them but no because everyone from the servants to the Duchess and Duke was making an active effort to not only keep them apart but make it seem like Violet hated Winter and that Winter doesn't care about Violet the only reason it's getting slightly better is because the servants who were content and even active participants in the abuse and harrassment were fired making it even harder to keep it a secret and they actually managed to meet at least once to tell each other things
Like this isn't to excuse Winter's neglect because I'm a firm believer that harm done negates intentions but intentions do matter and the fact that there are people who are actively lying and manipulating them both is important so it's weird to call him irredeemable or act like he's the absolute worse ML in the world because he's not he has a leg up by actually caring about Violet since the beginning
The only reason I'm okay with him loosing the weight is because he gained most of the weight through binging which is not good