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I was just thinking the same thing, makes you wonder that's for sure

i think I've forgotten, but idr uno professing his love to candy properly?

At least he truly cared for Candy, fought on the front line, betrayed the organization, and put himself in danger helping him

I don’t like seo-in that much but you can’t just compare trauma. Seo-in was never loved by his adoptive family. They used the child and molded him into being someone else. He was abused by his family as well. I guess he he had the advantage of having money but he wanted to leave. Seo-ins brother was actively blackmailing him and holding him back. You can literally see it happening in the recent chapters as well. I also don’t want yeongwoon to end up with any of them because he deserves so much. Yeongwoon is not the kind of person to lash out without being completely done with something.

Y are we comparing trauma like it’s a competition lol

And he's still a pos

lol yeah but op needs to change their wording because they were both children who were actively being abused. Although it was very significant physical abused towards seo-in, it was still various other types of abuse.

Trying to compare physical and mental abuse and how much it affects two very different people is pretty pointless and illogical. (everyone’s tolerance and mental strength is very different-for example due to epidemics some people are more prone to getting traumatized, depressed, etc)

Exactly lol

You're absolutely right. It is wrong to compare trauma of two very different people. However, I'm missing the fucks to give in this scenario. An abused person abusing another abused person who trying their best to stay positive and making sure their abuser doesn't fall under bus because of their relationship. You know at some point in life people can't blame every bad choices on their shitty childhood. You can sympathize with someone's childhood but adults must take accountability. Unfortunately, Seo-In suckers keep forgetting that he is now a GROWNMAN with an ADULT BRAIN which he could've used to debunk why, what and how shit went down instead of acting like a shadow of his own brother who he despises so much. But yeah, let's keep on airbrushing his cruelty toward Yeongwoon-ah.

No one is doing that. You say you have sympathy but you can’t help but compare the trauma of two children. I agree that he’s not a good person but he’s still being controlled by his family. Abuse doesn’t just go away as you get older. He’s still stuck and his brother is an example of that. You absolutely give a fuck if it makes you ignore his abuse. You’re aware but then you do a 180 and say he’s acting like his brother because he wants to. It’s clear that the sexual abuse his brother did towards seo-in still impacts him. Shit I’d be scarred if my brother kissed me and used an intimate photo as blackmail. The a major point of this manhwa is that both children were abused. Time and time again, the manhwa tells us that seo-in changed significantly while yeongwoon somewhat remained a selfless soul. Even though you act and say you understand, I really don’t think you do. He’s a terrible person because he stayed in a place that only taught him that while yeongwoon decided to leave and leave all the bad things behind.

I get not having sympathy for a character especially when theyre are hurting a character you love. I can understand that.

I’ve noticed people don’t have room for sympathy for adults with mental illness.I often hear that the adults have a “choice” and they must take accountability. But if it was a choice then it wouldn’t be a mental illness and all the wrongs they have done wouldn’t have been done. If it wasn’t a trauma then sure yeah they could get over themselves pretty easily. And everything could easily be fixed. You definitely just don’t graduate from mental illness just because you grow up. In this case he has been conditioned his whole life by his bro and mom. How do you even unravel that. Even someone with no mental illness would find it hard to do so.

Adults aren’t all that.
Anyhow I guess it’s also cuz YW appears all nice and unbroken that people don’t have room for sympathy for Seo in. YW just carries his scars differently.

Seo in knows that what he has done is wrong and he feels ashamed. He’s said so before that when YW met him again he felt super ashamed of his life.

Maybe I just sympathize too much. I feel bad for everyone in a cycle of abuse. The abused and abuser. Because more often than not abusers are not born but created. Like YW is my favorite and I want to protect him from everything but I’m not going to hate on Seo in hurting him. Just hate the situation ig. Although maybe I do like Seo-in. Never would have guessed it since I did drop this twice because of him. Maybe it’s because it’s entertaining to see a character with a mental illness? Idk I like seeing how it negatively impacts their lives and relationships. It’s realistic to people irl so it makes me think and empathize.

And it’s like you said, the thing that is triggering his downfall is all around him. He has not truly escaped his family’’s grasp. And his brother’s ghost continues to haunt him. I mean it hasn’t even been like 5 years since he died. The psychological leash on him is still there


Anyhow don’t know why I wrote this rant.
Totally respect fujodanshi not giving a fuck. Valid reaction
It’s just the reasoning that made me fly into a rant lol