
Is it me or did the story stop make sense during season three? I was all for the coup and wolfgang becoming king - even the murder plot made sense. Somehow I still managed to follow the story after Shin got abducted and tortured plus Wolfgang going on a pilgrimage to find magic. Okay, got that part BUT what the heck is up with them using magic to make a random baby from some desert witch? When did they start having sex - like did the author just throw the sex scene because fans wanted one? What's really going on? Did I miss something??? Why is everything so out of order??? Are they even together???WTF?

I had a best friend like Spencer. They would get pissed off if I spent time with other people, went out of their way to wreck relationships and lied to me so I'd stop talking to other people they didn't like. I just thought they were looking out for me and didn't realize til much later - its weird ass possessive shit. We never even dated! I never understood this type of controlling behavior. Like what do people get out of that? We aren't friends anymore because of how toxic it got. They even turned other people in our friend group against me. I had started to pull away from them and moved out of state, then all this weird drama started in my hometown. I made new friends but it sucks to lose friends....

I know you weren’t asking for it but it’s a mental personality disorder. The person most likely latched onto the first thing/person to show kindness and affection (you) and held on for dear life. Most children learn very early on that we share but some people view sharing as giving up. Sharing you was akin to losing their only way of getting any kindness and affection in their life. It causes the controlling behaviour and toxic dependency. There’s literally nothing you can do other than cut the person off or involuntarily hold them in a psychiatric facility. You may hold some feelings about that time but I promise you that you did the right thing for all parties involved. They need in house treatment.

Tbh you couldn’t have seen it. Even licensed therapists and psychiatrists miss it because other than the “target” and those close to the “target”, it doesn’t affect anyone. No one else would notice and you wouldn’t have noticed until it became an issue. As with all personality disorders, they mask it very well and it stems from a deep rooted insecurity. If you ask everyone in your life, maybe 2 might know your deepest insecurities. That’s how it is for those people too. You absolutely should mourn the loss of a friendship but only your feelings and your memories. Be grateful of the bullet you managed to dodge and learn to not give the benefit of the doubt to red flags.
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