The uke and his friend are a prime example of what we call internalized homophobia.
Because of the pressure to conform with the gender norms of society, you reject your sexuality and start bullying others like you as an affirmation that you are not one of them. So the friend basically projecting for the same reason the uke is.
Most of us have to go through that phase before we learn to embrace our sexuality and it’s actually quite common in most countries with religious practices or a misogynistic, patriarchal environment.
it kinda shows how most of those who commented are straight women who fetishize gay love since they are not even aware of this. Allys are fine but psa my sexuality is not for your entertainment.
The way most people here aren’t even are of what internalized homophobia just proves that indeed a lot of straight women fetishize gay love. Being an ally is good, but psa my sexuality is not for your entertainment.
bitch I rewrote this whole ass sentence because it disappeared AND YOU TELLING ME IT WAS FOR NOTHING? TF?
Literally, thank you for writing this. The majority of people who read this manga will be like “yeah i’m gay and homophobia lol” like no. It takes weeks, months, even years to get over your internalized homophobia, to get over something that’s pretty much forced into you since birth.
It’s scary, and terrifying, because it’s like your worst fear us being revealed and you have no idea how to fix it. Because everyone treats being gay like it /is/ something fix, even while they’re all fetishizing it.
bruh I haven’t even cam out to my family I’m just vibing with their homophobic ass
mood deadass when ur trans and gay w a mess of a fam its like being a damn spy like wow ive infiltrated the hets
And that’s on what? homophobia periodt
Thank you, thank you, thank you! LOUDER for the people in the back!
As a straight girl myself, it’s quite disgusting to see others fetishise gay people. I’ve support the LGBTQ+ community for years and will continue to do so but when heterosexual people use them as a form of entertainment, it’s sickening. I like reading yaoi because I like the plots, character developments and what you can learn from it. In fact, I’ll read absolutely anything as long as the story line goes somewhere. These girls that are only here for the sex chapters completely disregard real problems that gay people face and seeing the ignorant comments really takes away from the hard work of the author.
Or those girls who take idols and fetishise them into gay lovers. You can’t just decide they’re gay. There is a fine line between supporting the LGBTQ+ and being delusional about it. I’m afraid they’ve overstepped it by a mile.
They won’t apologise for it but someone has to. I’m sorry that your sexuality is being fetishised when it should be normalised. You quite simply don’t deserve to feel that way.
I'm really sorry for down vote I was actually gonna like it ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
I haven't come out to family and don't intend to do it though my friends know and they don't mind. When I confessed to a girl who was my the then best friend I was plainly rejected and she started to ignore me altogether. So I drowned myself in an ocean of depression. To know more I started reading yaoi and ofc that didn't help but I got addicted to it. That's basically how I became a fujoshi ╮(￣▽￣)╭ it has been a long time....
god, i'm asexual, try explaining that one to your family.
i support everyone's freedom to love whom ever they love. i literally have zero judgments on any form of relationship, so long as they are both of age and consenting.
it was clear as day to me that this guy, like our MC had internalized homophobia. i don't know why. i just have a good sense for these things.
i hate that they make you guys feel that way. that it's something to be fetishized.
i'm with the latter, i read every single genre on this website. but yeah, i like yaoi. not just for the sexual part. but because a fair amount of time i love the chemistry between them. the bickering and the bantering. (i grew up with brothers, so i prefer guys acting like idiots and horsing around.) Shoujo ruins it for me with 100+ chapters before they even think they like them. then god forbid they mention sex in an open context, or your ass will be avoided. and they guys act all perfect. or blushing way too much.
(plus yaoi got yakuza themes, and action, assassins', cops, writers, etc. with the occasion fun phycological ones: killing stalking )
His clothes make him look older than he actually is and his casual wear consists of muted and dull colors which adds even more. I mean didn’t they get into shit from the beginning because he wore a suit??? HE DOESNT EVEN HAVE A JOB NOR IS HE ATTENDING AN EVENT BUT A SUIT???
Boy all that money but you literally have no taste
Dowoon was a fucking creep and Inseo was leagues better than him. She was desperate but at least she responded well after they came out and even wished them to be happy. She never took out her frustration on being rejected on either of them. While Dowoon actually DID and admitted to wanting tealig Juhyun away. He deliberately tried to break them up and took advantage of Juhyun MULTIPLE TIMES and y’all are sleeping on it.
Had it been Inseo in Dowoon’s place y’all would be cursing her to hell. But seeing as it is a well drawn male y’all are quiet. The misogyny jumped out.
period!!
He really got Alex a run for his money on who gets to be the bigger douche
I’m a fujoshi and trust me when I say I HATE het couples but I’d prefer they’d be the endgame. Why break them he up when they seem so happy??? when they’re honestly a good and healthy pair??? I mean I read all the fucked up shit in yaoi but this one is something I can come up with when I’m high AND drunk af.
NO. JUST NO.
Can we just talk about the women around hino? They love him, but they also want him to be happy. Hino reminds me of those guys that you can’t help but want to protect and pamper because they’re too precious so I can’t blame them for trying to get with him I just wished he found someone better
Seme obviously doesn’t care for our baby here. His ego’s just offended.
Whoever brings personal matters into work is an absolute ass and should never be given any poistuon of power.
Homegirl Ping Yang smoothly adding “liking whoever we like” and inviting Princess Yong Ning to her palace like
dude ikr, she was so smooooth
Remember when this was all innocent and cutesy shit?
Forget that they upgraded it from Haebom to HOEbom and Taesung to TaeHUNG
BWAHAHA
THIS COMMENT IS EVERYTHING LOL