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yeah i was like "Oh I know you... sorry your name was...?" kinda thing for whole 2 chapters
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and i actually LIKE age gap but the older guy is just so horribly written i can’t root for him at all (+it also makes me think the author’s planning to make him a parent/brother figure for the fl than actual romantic interest)

Thing is that she doesn’t have a romantic feeling for her “childhood” friend. And yes the adult male is an ass sometimes :(
Even if he was busy with work he could have taken some time to respond to her :/

she doesn’t have romantic feelings for him yet. they can always develop over the course of the story as she gets to know him (and herself!) more.

and yeah, our supposed ml is super hot and cold towards her which i really dislike

So far the plot is pretty similar to similar to Hirunaka No Ryuusei :)

I don’t see him that hot though. But bitchy personality attract girls :)) I would have argued many times with him if I was the FL.
He’s “nice” to her only when she is showing her cute side and doesn’t do much to help her with insecurities or beeing supportive in daily problems. I like the teasing parts, but they seem too much and too often.
I see why it gives you the vibe of parental figure, but that’s definetly not the case (nor it can become in the future). If they don’t end up together they’ll be acquaintances in my opinion. He has some feelings but they aren’t strong to make him change for the best. One wrong move and he’ll dump her, he doesn’t seem the patience type.

Her classmate is still imature and shy most time, but at least he’s trying to be by her side. They can grow together. But what is most important is for her to be more sicure and know herself better as you said.

Y’all always bring up gender and that’s so funny to me because if a male character did this y’all would raise y’all pitchforks (me included) but the moment a girl character does it, y’all get all sentimental. Stsu fr. If you see no wrong wrong with the way the fl acts pls don’t get in a relationship. I’d be damn if the guy I have myself too(emotionally, physically and mentally) did smth like this to me

“ calling any and every female character a bitch over the umpteenth cartoon man you wanna fuck?” Is what they always say when a clearly flawed fl gets criticized

but why is the criticism a clearly gendered term? and why is there criticism there to begin with at this point? is a person with a freshly dead parent not acting 100% rationally a “stupid bitch” or is she a character with a story arc that is in the process of unfolding? perhaps read more books, engage more with the world, and come to an understanding of how misogyny works

Because she’s immature and should’ve knew better before she got in a rls. That’s just common decency. With your logic, a clearly flawed character can’t be criticized because it’s misogynistic. Which is wrong and you didn’t deny my point that if a male character did then he would’ve gotten slandered so the outrage is pointless, you’re only bothered because people don’t like a fl that’s clearly in a wrong. Ik what misogyny is and this isn’t lmao

Yes she’s traumatized but that doesn’t give her the right to treat him the way she did

i’m not gonna hold this against you because you genuinely seem to have difficulty understanding things and seem really young but again, calling a female character a bitch and whore and stupid over what is clearly supposed to be a learning experience for her is misogynistic. those terms are misogynistic no matter what you believe and female characters (who are more unfairly maligned than male ones) bear the brunt of it. fl did know better before getting into a relationship (think about her deep held belief that love doesn’t last) but ml was persistent to the point of getting injured trying to prove his love to her so they gave in. it’s literal text, we’re warned their first round at it will not go well.

also, people treat each other badly over irrational beliefs all the time; it’s the universal human experience. have you not ever fought with a loved one over something someone else would believe to be “silly”? this is just that, amplified x100 because it’s a manhwa. do people start calling you a bitch over that? yes, fl hurt the ml but that’s the “conflict” of the story and we have to read to know if and how she changes because of that. read my original comment again and then this and like i said, read a few more books (preferably not fanfic or other manhwas/mangas)

People slander male leads all the time when they do things like this but since it’s a female character, it’s misogynistic to you. At the end of the day, she was not forced in a rls so she really didn’t have to get with him just to treat him like shit later, yes he was persistent but she was not held at gunpoint. Hold her accountable lmao. Treating people “badly” is normal but it gets to a point where it’s immature and unneeded. The FL was 22 acting like a 15 year old girl. Also, just because I disagree with you doesn’t mean I’m young… I don’t even read fanfics This fake outrage because people dislike a clearly flawed female character and criticizing her is ridiculous, people nowadays just throw the word mysoginistic around. No one in this comment thread even called her a whore or bitch lmao. Now stupid maybe but to call it misogyny…. you know damn well lol. When it’s a learning experience for a male lead to get his shit together after he treated a fl like shit, he’s a redflag, dumb, and annoying so this situation is really no different. You just said a whole bunch of nothing trying to elite by assuming I’m young which I am but not a teenager then assumed I read fanfics and only manga/manhwa. The fake outrage is embarrassing. At the end of the day, what I’m saying is if a ml did this and was getting criticism, you would not be going this hard.

Also, no one said her reason for breaking up was stupid. Everyone just said she could’ve went with it better and communicated like a normal human being. How did you even come up with a conclusion so off?? Bitches be bonkers fr

wait how would she know her mom is going to die before getting into a relationship?

I have no idea what you’re talking about because I never even implied that but it’s just normal to know how to communicate with someone even in hard times. That’s the bare minimum, in a romantic relationship, platonic relationship, or a professional relationship. Any type of relationship really.

the other person said, “why are we calling her a stupid bitch when she has a freshly dead mother.” and your rebuttal was and i quote, “because she’s immature and should have known better before getting into a rls.” which is why im asking how would she have known her mother died ? just was a little weird to say lol

She would not have known obviously but no matter the situation you should always communicate which is what my other reply says but clearly u have selective reading

i don’t ? lol i was just reading how it was said the person was more mad about the bitch and name calling and you brought up the rest? now your getting a little defensive because i was asking a question showing your age i see . and you should have said that?, “she should just tell him.” first instead of saying don’t get into a relationship? no harm done though have a life

No, I didn’t get defensive lmao. I just said what I thought of you and if you fully read the whole comment thread then you would have known what my whole point was instead of asking a pointless question looking dumb. Mfs want ppl hold their hand and nicely tell them smth like u didn’t come into this thread clearly against me and ended up being loud and wrong. Just in case anyone else slow is reading this and didn’t get my point, Don’t get into a relationship with someone if you don’t have communication skills Niggas bringing up age like that’s supposed to prove me wrong, I even told ole girl that I’m not a teenager either so pls go onto the next topic and stop piggying off of what someone else was saying lol . Hos be loud and wrong

I’m not obligated to be nice to a random who came in the comment thread trying to twist my words so either get with the program or gtfo the comments

right. like if sb is a bitch i’ll call them a bitch tfk. it was a bitch move the way she treated him and handled their relationship. dating goes two ways IDGAFFF